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i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!!

i think you should go with who ever you like more.. but if you do break up with your boyfriend.. and nothing happens with the other guy.. then what are you gonna do? hope i helped you.. drop one in my inbox if you need anymore advice!

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I'm 13 M and I was recently talking to my friend (13 F) when she told me that she liked me. I had a crush on her for about a year now and so i was excited when we talked more i thought that she really liked me. But then when we talked again she told me that she liked me but that she liked my friend better. See the thing is i can't stop thinkin of her and i dont know what to do.
Thanks for any help!

i think you should tell her how you feel!. i bet once you tell her that she'll like you more. and if not.. maybe she'll start to like you more if you just keep talking to her alot. good luck! hope i helped you

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Ok i like this guy hes 16 and im 13 he has a gf but neway hes always being mean to me i guess.bcuz like wenever i talk to him hes like shutup jack*ss or w.e queer stupid stuff lyk that we used to b realli good friends and he would play around like that now i dunno if hes playin around or not.Do u think he likes me or is he jus bein mean??

well it depends on how he says it.. does he say it as in a humor way? or is he like serious like the get away from me kinda thing? well if he says it in a humor way then hes probably just kidding around with you.. but if not.. then theres something wrong. maybe if you try talking to him or soemthing and ask him if hes kidding around. hope i helped you

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ok me and my b/f have been going out 4 a while and i trust him with everything but recenly we have been talking about sex and he wants to and he said that if im not ready that its ok and that he will wait as long as i want to wait but i like wanna have sex with him but im kinda scared still so if any one could help me it would be greatly appcated

i think you should talk it over with him and tell him exactly what you feel. maybe he feels the same way you do. or maybe talking about it with him and seeing his reaction to it and what he says might make you a little more comfurtable with the idea and you wont be as scared. but if you want to wait, i think you should, and it sounds like your bf is a very understandable guy, and i think he'll consider your feelings and wait with you. i hope i helped you!

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well there is this boy n i rele like him n his mom always invites me over if im homealone n she is all nicce to me but when iget to there house i never no what to say to him i lose my breath rele easy if im talkin to him n i have to take rell rele deep breaths n well he is kinda a butt hole to me n i think i have a crush on him but he always picks on me like if he dosnt agree w. some thing i say he is like shut up ur stupid is that a sign he likes me or is he jsut being stupid??

i rate rele good!!

there can be 2 answers to this problem.. he can either be flirting with you.. or just being a jerk. it deff. sounds like you like him though!. if you still plan on going over there, and hes still being a jerk to you. be a jerk right back!. then maybe he'll get a little nicer? this happened to me before, my family and his family always hook up like every weekend. and i used to be really nice to him, and he used to ALWAYS be a jerk. so i started being a jerk right back, and now me and him always kidd around and were really close. maybe that will happen to you. i hope i helped

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iight theres this guy that i meet saterday! he is awesome! i mean i can be my complete self around him! and me and him both have a thing fro each other...and i mean i do like him and he is going to ask me out the next time we see each other...but i'm jst scared that it's going to be awhile before we see each other! and i kind of don't want to wait!?? but then i do cuz i don't want to rush things!? wat should i do?

aww thats cute.. well i think that if you really like this guy then you should go out with him!. so what if you'll only see him a few times.. you still have the phone and aim or aol or w.e... and if you wana take things slow then do it! lol. it sounds like you can have a great relationship with this guy. have fun!.. hoped i helped you!

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Ok, I am 13/f and I am dating this guy in my city who is ok but I don't really like him not anymore I just feel sry for him b/c he really likes me so I wont dump him for awhile. And theres this kid in Pueblo who I am also dating and I really like him only I see him like once every week or once every 2 weeks and I want a b/f that I can see more than that like atleast three times a week. So I am going out with both of them b/c the guy here I dont really lke but i can see him a lot and the guy there I like but cant see him...does that make me a bad person or do yall understand why I am doing this? I'll rate you!

i totally understand what your going through.. but you shouldnt be going out with 2 people at the same time its not fair to them. and the one person you dont even like... what i think you should do is break up with both of them and find someone that you like ALOT and that you can see most of them time like you saif maybe 3 times a week. its easier that way then letting the guys your going out with now find out that your going out with another person or that you dont even like them. i think that will hurt them more then breaking up with them... hope i helped in someway

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well im 13 n my bro has a friend thats 16 n when ever like we r around eachother he smiles at me n i blush rele easly n well i kinda like him but he wouyld never go out w. me.. but like my bro invited him to worlds of fun n well he kept walkin by me n siting w. me on rides.. n well he came to our new house to help us move n i came in n he just smiled at me again n its rele confusing cuz idk if he likes me or what....

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he seems like he likes you!... i think you should tell him houw you feel about him and see how he feels about you!. you never know maybe hes got feelings for you!. and even if he doesnt like you. i think you guys could be in a really good friend kinda relationaship.. its better then nothing! lol.. hope i helped xox

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Is it bad or like not cool to go out wit ure frends ex bf?? cuz my frend sed if once ure frend goes out wit a guy the guy is "their property" nd the frends cant go out wti them but then my otha frend has like stolen like 5 of my bfs.. so is it bad to go out wit ya gurls ex (not steal but just like a while after they break up.)
thnx

i personally think its okay to go out with your friends ex. i have 2 best friends and we all went out with this guy ( at different times of course ). and nothing happened between us. but maybe thats just how we are. maybe you should try talking to your friend before you do anything and see how she is with it. and when you go out with a guy.. its not "your property" and none of your friends can go out with them after you. i hope i helped you

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