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hey there, i'm missy!the names missy, i'm 16 years old growing up in chicago. i hate when people judge me, so dont. if you steal my picture, i'll fucking hunt you down (; anyways; i'm really great at giving advice. probably because i've been through a lot of shit in my life. from the time i could remember until one year ago, my parents were both huge alchoholics. i basically taught myself everything. dont write sympathy notes to my inbox either, because i hate that. i'm always really nice to everyone and i dont judge people the first time i see them. i find that wrong to the furthest point! every person has their own story, so i choose to listen (: my boyfriend of two years is darren. darren is my life. honestly, he completes me in so many ways. he's the only person that makes me completely happy. i truly love him. so ask me as many questions as you need, i'm not a fake bitch and i dont give you phony answers. have a nice day (:
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17/f I love this boy with all of my heart but i hate it when he goes out in public without me. Its so hard to trust him. We have been together for almost a year now and it has been absolutely amazing. He was my first. I lost my virginity to him. But im scared of getting hurt. I always cry when he goes out with his friends or in public without me being with him. I get scared. I mean he has cheated before. I just dont want to get hurt or lose him and i dont know how to let go of my fear. Help?
I understand how you feel, sweetie. But you have to come to a realization that guys will do terrible, heart breaking things to their girlfriends because that's just how men/boys are. You can't let this one guy, who I totally believe you may love, control your life like this. You have to become somebody who knows that their boyfriend is trustworthy. If you they are not, then you need to end it the relationship. I dont know exactly how long it has been since he cheated, but if you have that much suspision and you care that deeply about you getting cheated on again, then just end the relationship. You are still 17, in highschool! You can't count on guys for doing the right thing everytime, because they wont! So remind yourself that guys are going to do bad things, and you can't do anything about it. If you feel like he's cheating, or he's going to - break it off. There are other fish in the sea, even if he seems like the one.
hi,what do you do to make a good kiss..any tips?? thanks
Kissing all depends on how you deal with it.
You have to be mature, ready, and calm at any
point. Unless you're all three, then you wont
be able to relax and feel that good kiss that
your capapable of making (: So just take it slow
and kiss the person. You'll be fine and
both you and your bf/gf will be happy!
my best friends boyfriend likes me. hes also best friend with my boyfriend. he flirst with me all the time and i do back but im really uncomforable with it. bc im scared my boyfriend will find out. he said i dont have to talk to him or flirt if i dont want to and he wont either. but i dont want to sometimes. i feel kind of uncomfortable flirting like i do with my boyfriend like i do with other guy. because we talk about sex and stuff. i would talk about with my boyfriend but i dont think that hes like that. what should i do with this other guy? and how would i try to talk about with my boyfriend?
Well, if your willing to lose your best friend
& boyfriend over this cheating loser,
then the choice would be to go out with him.
But I dont think you'd want that,
so i would tell your boyfriend that
he's flirting & that its making
you really uncomfortable. Your bf,
will tell him to lay off of his gf=)
And for your best friend, if shes a true
friend, she'll hopefully have enough
brains to tell him its over because in
a way, he is cheating =)
And for your relationship w/ that guy,
I would say to ignore him & resist the
feelings you might have for him.
If you end up hooking up w/ him er sumthin,
only bad things will come =/
hope i helped.
ok?
my and my boyfriend make out all the time.
how would i make a move to do more? 14/f
While you were making out, move your
hands down towards his *private*.
Dont exactly do it in a teasing way,
like, have a serious look on your face.
Or take his hands and move them like on
your lap.
If he still just thinks its *playing*
then just tell him on AIM er sumthing.
Tell him, you want to move forward =)
Most guys wont disagree =)
My names Megan and I'm 16. 2 summers ago I lived in Maryland and me and this guy Matt really liked eachother. We were both kind of shy and never hooked up or went out or anything, but we talked online and told each other we liked each other. The summer after that, I moved and I forgot all about him for the most part. Now, 2 summers later, I CANT GET HIM OFF MY MIND. And the thing is, he left for a church mission and he won't be back for 2 years. I talked to him right before he left and it brought back old feelings I had for him. I can't call him because he doesnt have a phone and I just don't know what to do. I'm not sure if he still has feelings or not. How can I get him off my mind until I can see him in 2 years?
I can only hekp my saying, find a boyfriend
that you feel a lot of feelings for.
Go to some parties, and find a nice guy =)
Once you have another boyfriend, those feelings
are gonna be forced to be forgotten.
And that will make you happier because you
cant stay hooked on a guy for two years.
Thats just a waste of time(;
I hope everything goes well.
K so i dated this guy for like a month untill yesterday, hes realllly hot & cool to hang with... & tues. night we went out to a really nice dinner with the people he works with. We wore dresses, suits, ect. & after his co workers went to a cabin on a lake 2 hours away.. I didnt go kas i need to get home kas i live an hour away. anyway... i told him to be good & all & it seemed like we were ok ...but then the next day he texts me that he cant b with me anymore kas he got drunk & lost his virginity to some other girl.. i didnt really get all that upset..i didnt cry or anything.. i was just like ok.. thanks for telling me see you at tcu in the fall... so now were not talking & this friend of the family was like well you can still b with him if you want ...its just sex..no big deal.. & now im confused...i dont want to be with him anymore...but do i have the right to b mad at him? it was only a month but we were exclusive? bleh it makes me so frustrated..anyway any advise on my situation? thanks
I would be mad, but since he's totally not
worth your sad feelings, then dont even worry
about him anymore. He's obviously not a trust
worthy boyfriend, or person @ that!
Move on from him & find a nice guy who will
treat you right & respect you (:
i think i'm in love with a guy. i've only seen him 3 or 4 times. we haven't done anything, we're not going out or anything. but whenever i see him, my heart jumps. and i think about him nonstop. i could even imagine spending the rest of my life with him, even though i'm not even interested in long term relationships. i know he's single, and he's 3 years older than me..:-\
but i was at the beach with him and whenever i came out of the water we would always sort of look at each other like we both knew we liked each other, he sometimes teased me at this waterpark like splashing and stuff. i've never liked a guy this much. i cant ask him out, please dont say to because i have too many reasons why not to. but i just want to know how i can make him like me even more. i know its being myself, but any small tips to get HIM to ask me out. my heart aches for him all the time, its like i need to be with him, even though hes older than me and im not even allowed to date, but i would do anything for this guy. if i like someone, i still look at guys at the mall and stuff like girls usually do, but now i dont--at ALL. i only think about him, before i sleep, when i wake up. I need tips so he'll ask me out!!
I dont know if your exactly in love,
this might just be a huge crush.
Or maybe even an obsession.
But nobody can tell you, you're in love.
Your heart will know (:
Some tips are :
Keep talking more, find interests you guys have.
Give him your phone number.
Make him laugh.
Plan a day to hangout with a group of friends.
Basically, the more you talk to him & hangout
with him, the more he'll get to know you.
And if your the girl for him, then he will ask
you out.
15/f. I have a stupid crush on someone older and it's gotten really crazy. I can't stop thinking about him and for some reason, I can't do anything anymore, even when i'm alone. I can' t even eat, or listen to music. i'm always thinking about something I might of said, or something embarrassing I did in front of him, even if it's not really that bad. I realized that my whole mood always depends on how things are with him.
I feel so stupid and out of control. I know this isn't healthy and it's killing my self-esteem.
How can I get over him ?
FIND ANOTHER GUY!
if he is not interested, then he just isnt
plus, he's obviously not the one, or you guys
would already be together (: There are other
guys out there for you that you can be in
a good, healthy relationship with (:
me and b.f spend alot of time together and i know he loves me alot and i love him to but ,,,i dont know why this feeling has been with me for like a week now and its bothering me...i feel very obssesive over him like i want him to call me everyday but i dont want to call him..like right now i wanna call him cuz i hvanet seen him at all today but then i want him to call me..and im not sure what my question is but i want to spend alot of time otgether more then we... but i really wanna stop feeling this way ...dont get me worng i still do but i think im getting obssessive over him...help what should i do???
sry if its too long but i need the help !!
It's really good that you like him that much.
And I also like how you want to keep in touch
with him everyday. I dont see anything wrong
with how your acting, but if you feel you rlly
are obsessing then I would try focusing on other
things. Hangout with some of your "single"
friends & have a girls day out! Try & just hang
with your friends, and then think about him.
Because sometimes, being obsessed with him or
the relationship is a major turnoff so just focus
on other big things in your life.
hi =] well my problem is I'm going out with some kid named peter who's is amazing and wonderful he's like my dream guy but for some reason I always have a feeling of dought. meaning I always feel and think about us not lasting long like were gonna break up very soon! even though I don't want to....but I'm always having dought in myself when it comes to relationships. and the guy who I'm going out with he's like my dream guy he's everything that I've wanted but I don't know why I'm always having dought when I have someone special like him! I wanna no why am I having this feeling? I don't want to have this feeling anymore!am I scared of something? idk please help =/
Chances are, you guys are gonna split.
But the good/bad thing is, when?!
I totally know what you mean, i am going
through this feeling now. Mainly what i do is
just focus on how long we HAVE been going out.
And then i just keep adding on the days.
This helps me because it makes me feel great
about how long we've actually been a couple.
Also try and tell yourself that you were
obviously meant to be together if he picked YOU
to be his gf.
Goodluck doll.
I went to this summer camp once, and I made friends with this girl and her older brother. They were a bit younger than me, but we were the oldest there. This was about two-three years ago.
Well, the guy added me on myspace, and we talk once in a while. And then kaboom!! he asks me out! I say yes, I don't know why, and then he says that maybe we shouldn't. Ok. No big deal. I don't like you that way anyway. This was two years ago.
Now hes sendng me these messages through myspace like to rate him, and list the things I would potentially be willing to do with him. Well, I only like him as a friend. Period.
What should I do when he sends me these messages? So far, he sent me two, the first one of which I filled out, but I really truly listed the things I would do with him (I think the furthest was hugging... but as friends, ya know?)
Well this one that he sent me I have to rate him. Could anyone suggest how I should rate him without hurting his feelings, but not making it sound like I like him that way, either?
---GRADE ME---
F= damn you're ugly
D = your parents must be heated
C- = You're just someone I don't want to talk to, okay?
C = You're okay looking, but you need work...
C+ = You're just average
B- = Your kinda cute and you're cool I guess
B = You're cute. And you're a pretty interesting person.
B+ = Pretty damn attractive. I'd hit that.
A- = You're extremely attractive, and you're awesome.
A = DAMN YOUR SEXXXAY!!
A+ = ... will you go out with me?.... seriously!
A++= will you marry me
A+++=TAKE ME NOW ON THE TABLE AND KISS ME AND DON'T STOP
Should I put A-?
...he's not extremely attractive, but obviously he just sent it to me so I would tell him something like "I'd hit that, will you go out with me?, etc.
B- = Your kinda cute and you're cool I guess
(;
He wont get his feelings hurt on that one.
Plus, the cool part makes it out as a friend
rating (; hope i helped.
i want to break up w/ my long distance boyfriend, for the second time (we broke up once and got back together). and idk why i really got back together w/ him. and now i want to break up again and we've only been bf and gf since the 4th of july and idk what to say...i dont have a good reason to break up..i'm kinda look'n for an excuse...but also some ways to break up gently, any help?
Instead of an excuse, just tell the truth.
That way, if the subject ever comes up again
in the future, you dont have to lie er anything
Tell him that you'd rather not date anymore
because we wont see eachother a lot & i just
dont feel that connection anymore because of
that =) If he gets mad, ( which i doubt he will
because thats as nice as you can put it ),
then just give him some space...
I have some probs with getting guys to notice me. What should I do?
You could start by smiling at him, or flipping
your hair. Any kind of "flirting" like that
should catch his eye. If you still arent catching
his eye then go up to him and talk to him.
Dont dumb yourself down er anything but laugh
@ his jokes, and talk about things that keep
his attention (; Keep dressing cute & stuff also.
(; hope i helped.