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is 13 too young to get married. i mean yeah it is but like i mean if you really felt you were ready could someone marry u without a parents consent. or even with one

First your 13 why do you want to get married?? In all states you must be 18 without parental consent. Every state differs on what age you must be to marry with parental consent. Trust me wait another 10 year because there is no point in getting married now. Your parents are going to laugh at you if you ask them to consent

i have a b/f and im fourteen. im so ready to have sex but my parents dont think so. im thinking i shoudl do it behind their back but idk signed- im so cunfuzzled

Your 14, you are not ready to have sex at all. You haven't had enough life experience to have sex.

the other day, my boyfriend came over and we were sitting on the couch. then we started kissing. he slipped his tounge into my mouth and i did the same. (we were kissing for like 10-15 seconds) is that considered just french kissing or making out?

yea that is both making out and french kissing

How old do you think a girl has to be to sleep over at their boyfriends house, say if their boyfriend was the same age or 1 year older?

Honestly I don't think you should do it until your 17-18 because then the relationship will probably be more serious.

I have alot of guy friends that are juniors and seniors and i have been asked to prom a few times....but see, im only a sophmore...Do you think its ok to go that young or should i wait and let it be more special?

I don't see anything wrong with it all. Just don't go with someone unless you like them because people take proms seriously

i really like this guy and he likes me...we arent going out, but we flirt alot.. we go to the movies and we hookup alot..all our friends say we we should go out..but we never have..two days ago, my friend had a party and we snuck into her room and stated hooking up...he felt me up and ended up fingering me...yesterday i had my friends come over and i ended up giving him a hang job..is it ok that i have done all this stuff and that we havent gone out yet...

Its fine as long as he's not using you. Next time your with him talk about becoming official and start going out. If he's like no then don't hook up with him anymore. But if he does like you then he will go out with you

I have a pretty big emergancy...
My boyfriend gave me a hicky like 30 minutes ago and I was wondering if theres ANYWAY to help speed the process of it disapearing?
please help if my parents see this then i'll get killed!

take an ice cube and put it over it for a few secs about 3 times a day. Take a fork and starting in the center drag it outward, it spreads out the blood. Or get a fake tattoo and put it over the hickey. It should be gone withing 3-5 days and of course there is always turtlenecks and cover-up

Im a 15 male.. and im gothic, is it wierd that i wear black nailpolish? give me some details and convince me if it is..

I don't see why you would want to wear nail polish but if that's what you what no one should stop you. I know guys who let me paint their nails I think its a little odd but who cares

hey ive had sex before a long time ago and i got so scared i was pregnant after...but i been with my bf now for 7 months and were ready to have sex...i really want to i just dont wanna get pregnant so my question is..whats the best condom to use?? and how long is it before they usually break? like when should he take it out??

Durlex is the best brand out there not Trojen's. A condom lasts for 15 mins, so every 15 mins you have to change it. If you really want to be careful try birth control

Every body at my school has a boyfriend ir girlfriend.. I act myself and every thing.. What I am getting to is What do Guys look for in a girl!! and plz nothing Gross

first you can't have a boyfriend just to have one because your using him. When the right guy comes you'll know and you can't force someone to go out with you.

well i like this guy but im not sure he likes me.....we always flurt and stuff on the internet but whit comes face to face not much happends. what should i do??
i mean i c him everyday in school more than 4 times adn its killing me bc i dunno what to do . do u think he likes me......
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c he is a huge perv and is really in the sex state of mind but he told me that im like doable ahh im confused!~!! what do i do??

*me*

He could either be shy or he's using you, and that's why he doesn't talk to you face to face. Try to get a friend to talk to him for you, ask them to ask like if he likes you and why he doesn't ask you out because you really like him. If he really does like you then he won't pressure you to have sex.

I used to like this guy for like 2 yrs. i was soo freaked out that i couldn't even talk to him.(hes a yr older than me)...well then i realized that i had a crush on a completely different guy(3 yrs. older than me) and convinced myself that i didnt like the other one anymore....now me and the 1st guy talk a LOT and its soo cool!! everytime that i talk about my new crush...he either looks away or talks w/ me...i have stopped liking the 2nd guy but i haven't told the first one yet..but my problem is that i never stopped liking the 1st one...and i think he knows....but i dont want to tell him...and loose our releationship.
~Confused

I think you should keep talking to the first guy and see what happends. Also stop talking about any other guy when you are around him because guys hate that.

I kinda feel liked i was always used by my b/f's..They always thought i woudl do stuff with him...I rly wish i could just meet the guy that dosen't me expect to go all the way...i want a rly good guy and thats hott..lol..to treat me right....how would i find him..?

Just keep being yourself and eventully you'll find that guy. It might take a while but not all guys expect sex from you.

what is the real definition of cheating on someone?
just wondering

Anything you wouldn't want your boyfriend/girlfriend finding out about. It could be flirting, kissing or even having sex.

i am 13 and i have a boyfriend. i was at a football game tonight but my boyfriend wasnt there. These other guys were there, and i found out that they liked me. it was like 4 guys. it was really cold out and i was doing anything to get warm, even if it meant that i had to hold one of the guys hands. we went into the parking lot, well kinda parking lot, and all the guys except one were touching me and hugging me and stuff. i feel guilty about hurting my boyfriend's feelings, even though he doesnt know about it yet. Did i cheat on him, and should i or shouldnt i tell him about it? Im afraid that if i tell him that he would break up with me, plus all the guys and i promised we wouldnt tell him about it....WHAT SHOULD I DO?
signed,
~*~dazed and confused~*~

Cheating is anything that you wouldn't want your boyfriend to find out about, or you think would hurt him. I would tell your boyfriend about it and see what happens. If he breaks up with you just learn from it and move on.

i didnt know where to put this but when you get your braces off, how do they do it and does it hurt? thanks :)

First they take off the wires then they use pilers to take off the brackets it doesn't really hurt it just feels a little werid

well i am dating my g/f for about a mont now. i never kissed her yet because everytime im with her her friends are there. saturday i went to the mall and hung out with her. when she was leaving and gave me a hug and left i was gonna kiss her but i cant work up enough nerve. what should i do?

Tty it again the next time you two are alone just kiss her she's probably wondering why you haven't kissed her yet.

One of my guy friends at a different school told me that his friend really wanted to meet me and take me out on a date after a football game. So we emailed all week long & talked a little bit on the phone. He seemed excited to meet me. So on Friday, we met at his school's football game. For the first minute, everything was going great. I was cuddling under a blanket with him. He was acting really nice. Then all of a sudden, a bunch of girls came up to him and started flirting with Nathan (that's his name). He flirted back and he didn't pay as much attention to me. Other girls tried to steal the blanket from me, but Nathan didn't let them. He was cuddling with me most of the time. That was nice of him, but he still continued to flirt with them. When he said he was going to get something to eat, some girls screamed, "I'll go with you!" Then the girls followed him. A little later, I decided to go see what he was up to. Not only were the same girls flirting with him, but others were, too. Nathan payed some attention to me, but not very much. I waited for several minutes for him to shut up to the girls, but he didn't. So what did I do? I left the game COMPLETELY, without saying a word to him or anybody. After I left, I felt bad, so I called Nathan. I told him I would be back at the game. When I went back to the football game, it was almost over. I called Nathan again to tell him I was at the game, but this time a girl answered and said, "He's somewhere else." I looked all over for him, and asked other people if they saw him, but they didn't. So much for the date he was going to take me on after the game. I waited for Nathan to call me, but he never did. This morning, I sent Nathan an email, telling him why I left the game, but I haven't heard from him. Who's the jerk, me or him? What should I do now?

And another thing: While this was going on at the football game, I saw my ex boyfriend who goes to Nathan's school. He was flirting with some girl. I got INCREDIBLY jealous that my ex was flirting with a girl, but I didn't care as much that Nathan was. Why does it seem like I'm TOTALLY over my ex, but I get so jealous when I see him with other girls?

Nathan defintly sounds like a jerk. I would try and talk to Nathan one more time and if he still ignores you, give up on him and move on. He's not worth it. The reason you probably felt jealous when you saw your ex-bf and a girl is because of Nathan, You wanted that with Nathan and Nathan wasn't giving it you you

hope I helped

what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them?

seeing someone is dating them and it means you both like each other in that way but you aren't going out and your free to do whatever with anyone.

can you get preagnet by giving bjs?

no its impossible

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