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One of my guy friends at a different school told me that his friend really wanted to meet me and take me out on a date after a football game. So we emailed all week long & talked a little bit on the phone. He seemed excited to meet me. So on Friday, we met at his school's football game. For the first minute, everything was going great. I was cuddling under a blanket with him. He was acting really nice. Then all of a sudden, a bunch of girls came up to him and started flirting with Nathan (that's his name). He flirted back and he didn't pay as much attention to me. Other girls tried to steal the blanket from me, but Nathan didn't let them. He was cuddling with me most of the time. That was nice of him, but he still continued to flirt with them. When he said he was going to get something to eat, some girls screamed, "I'll go with you!" Then the girls followed him. A little later, I decided to go see what he was up to. Not only were the same girls flirting with him, but others were, too. Nathan payed some attention to me, but not very much. I waited for several minutes for him to shut up to the girls, but he didn't. So what did I do? I left the game COMPLETELY, without saying a word to him or anybody. After I left, I felt bad, so I called Nathan. I told him I would be back at the game. When I went back to the football game, it was almost over. I called Nathan again to tell him I was at the game, but this time a girl answered and said, "He's somewhere else." I looked all over for him, and asked other people if they saw him, but they didn't. So much for the date he was going to take me on after the game. I waited for Nathan to call me, but he never did. This morning, I sent Nathan an email, telling him why I left the game, but I haven't heard from him. Who's the jerk, me or him? What should I do now?
And another thing: While this was going on at the football game, I saw my ex boyfriend who goes to Nathan's school. He was flirting with some girl. I got INCREDIBLY jealous that my ex was flirting with a girl, but I didn't care as much that Nathan was. Why does it seem like I'm TOTALLY over my ex, but I get so jealous when I see him with other girls?
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I think you should wait & see what he replies back to you. You should tell him how you feel. Maybe you didnt care as much about Nathan doing it cuz you havent known each other as long? Im not sure about that. I hope things go good with Nathan. Good luck!
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Nathan defintly sounds like a jerk. I would try and talk to Nathan one more time and if he still ignores you, give up on him and move on. He's not worth it. The reason you probably felt jealous when you saw your ex-bf and a girl is because of Nathan, You wanted that with Nathan and Nathan wasn't giving it you you
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