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I like this guy that I went to school with last year and went out with him last year and the beginning of this year. I'm 17 and he is 16. And I don't know if I should tell him that I still like him alot because I don't know how he feel anymore. We still talk and he gives me hugs when he sees me, and we're still cool and all. But I have no clue what to do anymore. I want to tell him but I'm scared to because I don't know how he will react. PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I'll rate really good!!!!! Thanks in advance!!!!! Blessed be!!
~Candy the Wiccan

OOOOh i know what you mean!!! ok first of all you could never get him to come to you, you have to give him a little push!!! :)flirt with him in a sweet way! let him know you still like him and if he response to it tell him face to face and look at him in the eye and tell him you know i still have feelings for you. Remember dont seem desperate but tell him!!!!! im sure he must have feelings for you there is a reason why he dated you!!!!!!!
i wish you luck!!!!!!

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to whom it may concern,

I have liked this guy for almost 2 years now, and I am really young but I think I love him. The thing is, is that he never really talks to me.
In about the begining of the year last year i met this guy, his name is Kevin, and I went out with him out with him, we went to go see a movie and he gave me my first kiss. We broke up millions of time but we always went out again. One of the times we werent going out I went to the movies with him and he madeout with me...which was my first also. Before that happend he had told my cousin that he tlaked to online that he liked me as more than just a friend. We went out again and broke up. Three of the times that we broke up I had to got o the hospital because I was so devistated. He asked me out again and i said yes. This time things got a little more serious. I told my aunt that i was going to my friend sarahs house when really i was going to meet him at his friends house jeffro. things were getting hot n heavy and then jeffros mom wlaked in on me and kevin...3 dasys after that he left me. That was more than two years ago and I am still head over hill for him. what should I do, and is it true love?
Signed,
Broken, and never healing....

Awwww sweetie that broked my heart. Offcourse love is good but when you're with the wrong person it just kills you. The thing is that you fell in love with the fact of you loving someone. You just got extremely used to him. hun 2 years is a loooong time.I know its hard and painfull but move on! forget about him. You will look back one day and rememeber the nice feelings but at the same time you'll laugh! his consciouns will be bothering him for the rest of his life because he knew he had someone who truly loved him and he let that person go. Right now hardly anyone could find the right person who will love them and take them serious, he will be hurt because he will remember he onced had that and he lost it. You must be sweet and as they say "you get what you give" give love another chance MOVE ON!!!!!!!
GOOD LUCK,
***MARIE***

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Ok, well I met this guys 3 weeks ago, and we both liked eachother a lot! I felt like I knew his hole life honestly I could of wrote a book on him. In that week we would kiss and make out and the sort and he sort of stuck to me in my heart, well last week on monday we decided to be friends, it was better for him, and I wanted to make him happy, so I agreed, later that day I cried my heart out and the next day too, but never in front of him. We give eachother lots of hugs and we talk on the phone a lot too and i Help him out with his love life too, and I feel like a jelous tention. As much as I wanna be friends, I wanna be a little more too... WHAT SHOULD I DO!

awww sweetie!!! i could imagine how much that huurts!!! especially having him talk to you about his love life!!!! are you opened up to him? do you trust him? tell him how you are still feeling and tell him you wish you could give yourself a chance!!!! i really really hope everything goes well!!!!!!
good luck!
marie

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ok theres a really hott guy...cam...hes like my best guy friend..((ive already asked a simalir quiton but not the same))ok so my freinds all say he likes me but also likes another girl abby too...but c abby is a grade higher and cam said he would never ever go out with a 8th grader. shoul;d i ask him out...or jsut flit and crap with im for a while>>>??

hmmmmmm no hes going to think wrong of you if you do so.besides if hes your best guy friend things will change between you guys. Don't stress over him flirt and have fun but dont go on to him;
good luck!

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See, my sister and I we both like this guy right?! Well this guy has a girlfriend. But he took my sister to the store today and he was all saying how he likes her and he wants to kiss her and stuff. And I think that is wrong, he has a girlfriend. He also told her that he's afraid to be without a girlfriend and that he is only with his girlfriend because of that and he wants to date my sister but he is afraid of rejection. And this guy knows I like him. I mean, I don't like him majorly. But it's enough to make me weak in the knees, ya know. And I mean I know I'm jealous here. But they rub it in my face and I don't want to tell her that so is there anyway else I could cope with this situation without being sad or crying. My sister keeps taking everything from me. She took my friend too. I mean I still have my friend but she hardly will talk to me now.. Ah, please help.

geesh that sux a##! talk to her she is your sister she will understand but dont you want to see your sis happy?

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this is kinda long beware

hey 15.f.cali here

ok i have a few questions and i am in need of some insight... Well i like this guy and he is so flirty and we are friends and we have been for about 4 years and now we hangout alot and talk alot and we have all the same friends and what not and he knows i like him cuz he asked me in a note (we have 2 classes together and he sits next to me) and i said well you but i dont want anything to change if you dont feel the same way. ok and so after i said that he wrote we need to hangout more. and everyday almost he tells me i looke really cute and tells his friends im so hott and because they ar my friends too then tell me...we have so much fun together and i think we would make such a cute couple cuz we are both open minded people and we are into the same things... my question is what do i do? like a few of my friends are like he is shy when it comes to that so ask him out. but i am too and i could never do that. whats a girl to do???

muha thaks
Lisa

ok heres the thing dont ask him out but tell all your friends and his friends that you do have a crush on him and peck his cheeck and flirt alot! he will have to ask you out when you show him you are into him!!!! if he doesnt give him hints like play around with him that he is your boyfriend! if it doesnt work he probably just sees you as a flirting type of friend. GOOOOOOD LUCK!
-marie

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I really want a boyfriend, i'm 14/f and i've never had a boyfrined... I mean i know i won't liek die if i don't have one lol, but if anyone has any tips please help!

look sweety dont be desperate because you will end up finding the wrong guy work of other things and wait someone will come to you if you wait and just relac because if you keep on being desperate you will fall for the wrong person but if you have a crush on someone and they seem to like you too go for it but dont just date anyone!

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i was datin this guy for almost 3 months but i wasnt really happy so i broke up with him! i thout i didnt like him anymore and that when i broke up with him i wouldnt think about it anymore...well i was wrong...WAY wrong! he is all i can think about! day and nite! i thout i didnt like him but now that i dont have him i want him sooooooo bad!!! i want to tell him but i dunno how...i dont want him to get freaked out or not feel the same way or for him to have some other gurl! i havent talked to him in about a week because he has been at his moms house but he comes home friday n i jus wanna talk to him! we have been broken up since monday november 1 and monday november 8 would have been our 3 month anniversary! what do i do??

i know how you are feeling...i could tell how every one feels so...LISTEN TO ME!!! call him (dont seem desperate) and tell him that you needed time to figure out if you were ready for a b/f and you thought you werent ready but after you left him you found out you were completely wrong and tell him how you feel about him and tell him to give you guys another chance if he doesnt well he probably wasnt the one for you!but i wish you lots of luck sweety!
goooood luck!

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Okay, I like this guy we will call him M. I only have one class with him, but he sits at my table so we talk all the time. So I asked my friend K to see what he thought of me and K was like M said you were cool and he doesn't know if he like likes you and he doesn't know you that well. So I was talking to one of my friends online and hes like you should go for it and ask him out. I just don't want to get hurt again so quickly after my last crush. I don't want to rush things but I really want a b/f. What do you think I should do?

thanks

AAWWWWW sweetie! i know how you feel! dont do anything that will have a chance of you getting hurt! take it slow and enjoy it! start with a hi then sitting next to him then flirt and keep on going! enjoy it and get to know him really! dont ask him out until you feel he does like you or he knows you well! dont be act desperate or shy! be confident!
good luck!
liza

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ok so here it is ....i have had a really big crush on a friend of mine for a month now and everyone is telling me that he likes me too. the problem is that he is mormon. and i am not. i really want to be with him but it is against his parents rules to date a non mormon, so i was wondering what yall think i should do? i was also wondering if anyone knew anything about mormonism that they could give me? i wanted to know if i should convert and become mormon so we could date and it be ok, or if i should date him and keep it from everyone, or just forget about it all together? but i dont know what to do and i really like him.PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO!

Oh! sweety i hate that! you know if he likes you and you like him its not a problem. i know parents could be so messed up sometimes brainwashing their children and ruling their life. keep on the low for a while then if u guys last long well they have to accept it dont change at all sweety! be you! good luck with your prince charming!
tons of luck!
liza

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ok..i'm really good friends with well one of my friends. he is 15/m. he likes me as well do ilike him. but he wants to do stuff too quick. I can say that we have done some stuff, but i don't want to go to far. N' he doesn't understand the word, "no." i dont know what to do. I need anyones help, should i do it, or not?

honey, never do anything you dotn feel comfortable doing! if he doesnt respect you and your decisions find someone who will!
here for you!
liza

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my b/f always hangs out with his frinds and not me when hes the one sayin lets do somethinn!..when i call him hes like well call me when u know what your doin then we neva get to see eachother that night or w/e.. when he knows i get mad hes always like im sorry i love you but then he does it again...i still reallyyy like him alot and i think if i dump him ill regret it but idno what to do

Hmmmmmmmmm well honey look for him! let him know that you are serious with him and as his girlfriend you have the right to have him be with you more than his friends.when he tells you "lets do something" tell him ok lets go eat pizza or whatever! but let him know u are serious! if he wont invite you out well if u like him alot invite him out! then he will have to learn to ask you to hang out with him!!!!!!!
wish u tons of luck!
Ms.rOtTeN

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my b/f's mom is saying that shes leaving her boyfriend(they've been living together for 4 years) and shes going to either cali or arazona and he has the choice of going with her or finding somewhere in new york to stay. im trying to convince my family to let him stay here. i might get them to say yes but i need some more things to tell them. i mean me n my b/f have been goin out for over a year and we both want to marry eachother, think im crazy if you want but hes the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. i dont know what to do. i dont want him to move. he knows that if i ever lost him then i would kill myself. he could live with his dad but his dad is a total jackass to him. my family doesnt really like him either. they say we dont have room but if we tryed then i know it could work. i really dont want him to go...what can i do?

lol honey u are not crazy i also have teh love of my life with me and i want to marry him too and like u i also know for sure hes the one.its going to be hard to convince your parents but try and tell them how u feel since parents are fucked up as hell and think they know you more than u know yourself chances are that they may say no if so try to get a job (and him too )and move out with him, but until then he should sacrifice for you and stay with his jackass dad. do anything to stay with him my dear! love is wonderfull u only get someone like him once!!!! many people dont get one at all!
tons and tons of luck!!!!!!!!
MS.ROTTEN

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