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i like this guy but my best friend likes him alot!!
i dont know what to do i dont wont to like him but i cant help it i cant stop thinking about him i dont know what to do HELP
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Sometimes you just can't help your emotions. Even though your friend likes him, you have the right to like people too even if its the same guy. I know you dont' want to becuz your friend does but if you like the guy you have feelings and you should ask him out becuz it's your feelings and your emotions so go for it becuz your friend can ask him out if she wants to but i would if i were you, becuz if your friend asks him out he might say yes and you'll be stuck thinking about him knowing you can't have him.
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Dear Sammie, I have a problem, and maybe you can help me. I have a crush on this guy, lets call him Bob. Okey, so I've known Bob for a while but he didnt really know who I was until I introduced myself on IM. I used to think that he was one of those popular jerks, but hes really really sweet and i started liking him and I dont know if he likes me. I wanna tell him sooo bad but i cant because Bob is the popular type and im lyke the geeky smart regular person. what should I do???
please help me,
GEEK.LOVE
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You should definitly get it to him that you like him somehow. Like ask one of your friends to tell him on IM or tell him yourself. I've done it before to a guy that im realy close with so..if you're not close with him it's really not thta bad..becuz when i told the guy...it wasn't hard at all. You never know if he'll like you becuz even if he's popular and "shallow" He woudln't know what you looked like anyways. I say go for it and like my pic says at the top of this column..."Dare to Dream....".
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When my b/f puts his arm around my shoulder is it beeter to put my arm around his shoulder or waist (link)
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His waist cuz it makes u feel cozy
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Ok im gonna get right to the point. I really really like this kid in my class but the prob is hes really popular. I mean we hang out and stuff,but i have like no chance of getting him. One reason is he keeps going on and off wit this one girl. But we flirt all the time. (and i mean him 2) So I really dont kno wat to do to get his attention. PLEASE HELP ME!!! (o im 13/f nd so is he)
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Ok...I know it's hard to like a popular person becuz well..they kinda flirt with everyone. But if you really want his attention..Have someone tell him that you like him. Becuz you never know what he's thinking. Never say you don't have a chance becuz well...boys are weird and you never know what goes on inside their brains so he could very possibly like you too. I really suggest that you tell him becuz well..one: that will definitly get his attention. two: You'll get it off your chest and even if he doesn't like u, u still know that you don't have to keep it a secret any longer. Just tell him and see what happens.
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I have a botfriend, but he says that i could do so much better then him and he almost broke up wit me on friday night. I'm only 12 and i go to kitley...But he was cryin on the phone when i was talkin to him, i was cryin to...cuz i mean i luv him so much. We've been together for about three weeks now. Now i'm scared that he is gonna break up wit me. I'm goin to the basketball game wednesday night, but i dont know if i want to now, bcuz he will b there and i dont wanna get hurt. Sammie, u know me...but i'm not gonna say my name on here...I really hope u can help me...cuz i need it!
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Ok...I don't know if i'd wanna go to his game either if he was gonna break up with me..but even if he doesn't do it at his game, he probly will some other time. I know you dont wanna get hurt..but if he really wants to break up with you he will whether you are at his game or not. This guys sounds like he has mixed up feelings or something and you should really talk to him about it. See if he's going to break up with you or he really is going to be with you.
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I know there's probably a ton of questions out there like this, but i'm gonna ask it anyway. I love this guy to death and he's my friend. He just broke up with his g/f whom he was obsessed with. I don't really know how to get things going. He's absolutely amazing, and i'd do almost anything to be with him. Any advice? (link)
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Yes...Don't rush it becuz it'll seem like you wanted them to break up and you're being unsupportive. Take it slow and start to flirt with him a little bit more than you used to becuz of his gf. Maybe see if you could go to the movies sometime or go to the mall. Act casual when you say this tho cuz well...I woudn't wanna act all nervous when i asked.
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i have been on and off with this boy lets call him bob 4 da past 3 or 4 years, and over the years we have fallen inlove. we used to not go to the same school and we had a great relationship until i moved away. wen i moved back i started going to his school and once again we started dating. there has been alot of drama and we have broken up alot of times but we are still inlove. we have both dated defferent people but we still always go back to eachother. i just started dating this new guy lets call him billy. well billy an i dated once b 4 but i dumped him to get back with bob. well just a few nights ago bob tryed 2 get with me but i said no, even though i like billy i love bob, but i just donr want to do thid 2 billy again. last time billy's sister(1 of my best friends) got really mad at me and we didnt talk 4 almost a month! so i dont know what to do...some one please help! i know this is long but i promis i will rate! (link)
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If you are only dating Billy becuz of his sis then don't keep doing that..it's just running on false emotions which isn't good. If you really love Bob then i say go with bob. If you love both of them then you are going to have to see what qualities each guy has and pick the one with the better qualities. Even if it means choosing one guy over the other..that's realy the only way to go down to it. But pleez don't date billy just becuz of his sister. thats not a good thing to do. So just find the better guy with the better qualities and i really hope it works out for u.
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Ok, I have a b/f and I luv him very much, but I dont know if he luvs me. One day he says he does, but hen the next...He says that he hates me. He breaks up with me and gets mad at me for no reason, but he has anger problems like his mom and older brother. Every time he breaks up with me, I take him back! Every time he breaks up with me, i try to tell myself not to go back out with him, but i always do. We *r* goin out now but should I break up with him? I just dont wanna get hurt.
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If you keep finding yourself getting hurt becuz of this guy...then i don't really know if he's right for you. Maybe he could go see somebody to help him with his anget issues,but right now..i don't know if it's the right time for you guys to be going out.And you probably will want to ask him if he feels the same way about you that you feel about him, becuz if he doesn't love you..then there's really no point in him going out with you. If your bf says he hates you every other day..then well..yea i don't really think that he's right for you. If you could ask him to go see somebody like your skool counselor or a physicologist,then things might get better. But until then you might want to cut him off. I'm sorry if this isn't exactly what you wanted but i really really did try.
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I am CRAZY for someone who does not like me because im to brunnet for him! Can u believe that all u brunnets out there?! It drives me CRAZY! I just need to kno wat to do i mean do i die my hair BLONDE or wat. I would do that but brown is my color!
Singed
lovely brunnet (link)
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If brown is your color then stick with it. Don't just go dye your hair for a guy. What if you really don't look good with blond hair? If brown is your true color don't change it for some guy. He's not worth you!!!! looks shouldn't even be part of it!!! and no matter how harsh the blond jokes get i know that they're not true..seeing as i'm blonde. You can't be too blonde or too brunnette..it's just impossible, and no i cant believe that jerk would say that.He might be a realy sweet guy but saying that you're too brunette is just stupid. Don't go and dye your hair for him please. By then he'll probably say you're too blonde so..yea. Be yourself.
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well i like this girl and she said she likes me to but she said she also likes 3 other guys at the same time but she wants 2 go out with me. should i wait until she just likes me or ask her out now?
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If you date her right now then she is still going to be thinking about 3 other guys while she's with you. Her feelings for you aren't 100% so if she fully likes u and only you...then i guess it would be ok but i'd make sure that she still doesnt like those 3 other guys first.
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well theres this girl that i have gone out with before and she broke up with me and now she likes me again but she has brokin my heart more than once should i ask her out?
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Ok..If you really feel something special towards this girl then i think you should go for it. But if you are just going to ask her out becuz u need a girlfriend..well..that's another story. Maybe she just needed some time to see if you were the guy she wants and perhaps you are..and she really needs you now. But maybe she is desperate and is planning to walk all over u like a doormat. She could be fooling you into it just so she can have a bf. But if you really feel something with this girl and you might wanna ask her if she is really wanting to go out with you...then i say...go for it.
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XoO Sammie Xo
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