right i think i like two guys and i can't pick between them they both told me they have feelings for me and they have both asked me out and because i could not pick i said no to them both. So heres the thing Jacks a muslim it will never be allowed by my mum if she found out she would go mad. James would be allowed its just i don't spend much time with james everyone says how cute me and james would be... but james just seems like he never wants to be with me in college. i am not sure what to do.someone help please. thank you.
well since james would be easier i think you should go for him maybe hes just shy but if your start going out he will prob just come closer! my boyfriend was like that, shy and wen he got that i hated it wen he was shy coz it seemed like he didnt care bout me or didnt want to be with me, he was he started gettin really close to me and losening up and its going great now...!!!
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To give a little background, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year I'm 16 and he's 17. He would always get things in the mail from the Army, Navy and the Marines. He would save them, show it to me and I'd rip it up and tell him he's not going. The thought of my boyfriend going away to war is something I just CAN'T handle.
I was in his room, cleaning it up while he was in the shower like I always do and I found a flyer that had the information about the Navy on it... I was getting ready to rip it up when I saw that he had signed up for it..
I always told him that I'd be heartbroken if he would sign up for anything that COULD get him killed.
I'm trying SO hard to understand... But I can't. I don't know why he would do this to me. He keeps saying it's for the best but I KNOW it's not the best for him. He always told me he'd never leave me, but by doing this I feel like he is. He always told me, "You don't know what I would give just to see your beautiful face every day and just to have you in my arms, even if it's for 5 minutes." He's told me he wants to be the father of my children, my husband, my one and only.. If he's at war, how is he going to do that??
I really want to convince him NOT to go, but that's just being selfish... But at the same time I want him here with ME. I don't want to live every day in fear that I'll get that knock on my door and having someone tell me that the love of my life was killed.
So my questions are... SHOULD I convince him not to go and explain to him why I don't want him to?
If not, how can I get over this? How can I deal with it every day knowing that my boyfriend is risking his life?
id be shocked to death if i were you! i say you tell him strongly what you feel and tell him what you would do if he died then listen to his point of view and have a conversation but DO NOT start yelling at him. do the best to keep things calm and perhaps be spending the night at his house that night or day... and tell him to think about it over night.... if he decides to go then what i would do is cry right infront of him... guys think its beautiful to see a tear coming down your cheek but they hate it to see you upset and together mixed will just make him want to never let you go! and it might change his mind!
although true its still his decision so you got to make yourself sound not very selfish! a lil will be ok but dont make him mad! try to understand or atleast fake the understanding but then try to make him understand how you feel!
hun right now dont think about it! it will be alright!
hope everything works out for you!
write back!
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Ok before this question i've asked another on similar but this question is like the sequeal to it. So the qustion before this was I still like my exboyfriend who now lives in L.A. and i'm practicly inlove with him but i'm only 13 so I finally took the peoples advice who answered this and got his number from his friend that I know. So know I really want to call him but i'm nervouse because after I broke up with him for a really stupid reason we havn't talked for like a year but I know he still remembers me because his friend told me that he would always talk good about me. So what i'm asking is should I call him and say that his friend wanted me to call you and tell you that he can't call you because he got grounded would that be good so then we can just lead on from there or what because I refuse and really don't want to say that I just called him just because I want a good exuse( i'm a shy person somtimes) Thanx will rate for helpfull answers( will rate high!)
ok hun hes gone wat do you have to lose i swear just call him say that you sorta were wondering how its going and then lead on from then.. if hes talkin good bout you then he just is waitin for you to give him a call! trust me hes prob shy too hun just go for it! ull miss out on nothing!!!
ok well hope you call him!
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hey im 13/f.
i really really liek really liek this kid hes 15.
so, i ONLY see him on fridays. and its civil air ptrol aux. of the united states air force. so its hard to try to compliment him on his clothes and stuff. its also hard to flirt casu e its only one day. please help with any tips you ahve.
what should i do?
ps-i have his cell number but never call casue i dont want to be liek the annoying little 13 year old. and i talk to him on aim someitmes.
please help?
ok talk to him even more on aim and truthfully like make him flirt with you bad.... and find out if he thinsk ur hot and would HOOK UP no datin just hook up like dont ask him but like make him get the point and then if he does then call him and ask him if you guys wanna hang out or something... if its hard to talk to him other times then just see if he would get into you or is into you and if hes not then try to get him into you!
ok well cya vic
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Well...i want hot guys in our grade...what could you possibly do? haha....you know like one of those abercrombie models.....
PLEASE HELPPP!!!!
wish i could help but cannot sorry ahah
just print out lots of AF models and post them in your locker and tell guys that they have to start lookin like this ahah
xo vic
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well i have a question for yaaaa, who should i like this year...i have no idea i'm getting so broed and i dno who i should like!!!! help meeeeee
-audreeeeeeeeeeyyyyy
yourrr BFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF for everrrrr!
ok well
christian no
dominic... eheh no i would let you if . yeh so no ahha
horton and edvard no way
olivier hes cool but no
james duiguid ok im not going that far.
uhh troy taken and no audrey no.
umm sam hes pretty cool and nice and kindda cute you should take sam.
because i mean is there anyone else i dno but i cant think off someone.
or you could for 10th but good luck i mean you could some guys think your hot in 10th but like you kno they are 10th
-vic
BBBFFFFFFF For life!
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i like the same guy my friend likes. i think he likes me too, and i really wanna go out with him. but i don't want to hurt my friend's feelings. what should i do?
ok truthfully if you really like him talk to your friend admit ur feelings say that deep inside she would do the same thing too and you'd like to go out with him if she doesnt understand then really ur friendship is a ovaguy broken friendship which sux no real friend in that... so just say that and she will be upset but will get ova it
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there is this guy. lets call him herman. well, me and herman went out for a year and i loved him deeply the whole time. he was my first and only love that ive ever really had. anyways, we broke up last year in the worst possible way. we dont talk or anything and i see him a lot in the halls between classes. he is the only person i think about even if i am going out with some other guy. i mean, he is the only reason i live. sometimes i wish that we had never met because i hurt so much. yeah well, i havent got over him and im pretty sure that im not gonna get over him for a long while. he used to be my best friend. my first real kiss. anyways, i dream about him every night. and i mean EVERY night. but i dont know why. i wish there was a way to stop. why? why do i dream about him? do you think these dreams are telling the future? are we getting back together sometime soon? (i wish) if anyone has any advice, i would surely appreciate it. thanks in advance. i will rate high. =[
hey im livin the same heart ache as you.. only me it was total using... i cant get ova the guy that i neva got and he just used me and im pretty sure i neva will get ova him i think bout my guy every night too its terrible! and yes once i had a boyfriend and i saw him pass i like dumped my ex like that night i just couldnt! then we hooked up again and hes like a jerk so he wont unblock me from msn and shit but my advice is talk to him email him and if he wont talk donot stalk him but be l ike remember that one love we had and try to make him remmeber how much he loved u and maybe at the end he will love u again and everythin will be good and if doesnt work and hes jerk then ignore him but afta tryin to talk to him get a message in his head that he might think bout dont think he will be li ke i love you too in a day it will take a while but you can do it! just be patient and not too harsh
bye lov vic
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