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E-mail: als2388@excite.com
Gender: Female
Location: Upstate NY
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Age: 15
AIM: Aminem2388
Member Since: July 25, 2004
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I know this is going to be long, so sorry. But I will rate you high even if you answer!!
Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!
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Alot of teens question their sexuality (secretly, usually not outwardly) because it is a confusing time in your life and your hormones are all messed up. Girls get embarassed in front of guys, and vice versa. Its normal. It doesn't mean youre a lesbian or gay. In my opinion, you choose youre sexuality. So if you think youre a lesbian, its because you have chosen to be. But I dont think youre a lesbian. I think youre probably just confused and not sure what you're sposed to be doing in life right now. Hang in there, don't worry!! Everything will turn out okay, doll.
If you need to talk more, my AOL s/n is Aminem2388
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Hey Im 13 years old and im going into 8th grade in 3 weeks and im friends with this guy who is 12 and he wants me to give him a blow job. I think I want to but i really dont no how to go about doing it I really need some advice !!!!! (link)
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Youre 13. You're in 8th GRADE. Don't do it. Youre too young. I was in the same position with one of my guy friends, but i didnt go through with it because he was just using me. Seriously.. you could get aids, herpes, ANYTHING. And he's DEFINITELY using you. he's 12 too, gross! trust me, im alot older than you and i know the way guys are!!
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OK, me and my best guy friend went out a few months ago and he broke up with me and we went out again like 2 weeks ago n i found out he had two other girlfriends and had sex with someone else..so i broke up with him. Now, we're just friends but, we're having sex. I want the relationship to be more than just screwing around because i love him so much. But, he's a player. I don't know what to do. I mean we like each other but I don't wanna go out with him and I don't really like us just being friends with benifits. I don't know what to do. Should I stop this and just be best friends like we used to be or keep messing around with him?? -cOnFuSeD** (link)
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Chances are, if youre having sex now, things will never go back to the way they used to be. Now all he wants from you is sex. And if you continue doing it then you're just hurting yourself.
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i have gotten really close to my guy friend mike and we talk all the time. i have strong feelings for him and i DID tell him that i do like him. i think i put him in an akward position. did i do the right thing by telling him how i feel? (link)
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Of course you did the right thing. You'll never know how somebody feels about you until you tell them. You may have put him in a bit of an akward position since you are friends. But if he likes you back, he'll snap out of it quick and everything will be fine.
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my friend is a hoe..i love her to death and everything but shes a hoe. she already gave it up 2 a 20 year old and she`s only 13 years old. i relle care about her and i want her to stop but she just doesnt want to get the point. and i made her promise me before that she would never smoke agen bc it wasnt healthy and she never did but then one day she told me she broke her promise. so she`s really going down the wrong road. What could i do to get her to stop dressing so slutty and to start acting her age?? please help me.. (link)
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You cant make your friend stop doing whatever she is doing. This is who she is and you have to accept it. But at the same time you should really talk to her and try to make her understand that what she is doing isnt right, and she could really end up hurt or in trouble. If youre that worried about her, talk to her parents or a trusted adult. Hope I helped.
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i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant? (link)
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No, youre definitely not pregnant if you have your period. Next time make sure you wear protection, please.
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k, so let's c...i realli like this one dude... and this dude use to realli like me...but now he's all kinda not kewl and stuff, and duzn't even wanna talk to me. and i still like him a whole bunch. i don't even think of any other guy. like if sumbody asks me for a list of let's say... The top 5 guyz I like..., i couldn't even give it to them, cuz it's only him... i don't even think of any other guy. and i kno he's pretty much not worth all the hurt and stuff at all. i mean, he's alreadi broken my heart once, but i still like him just as much or maybe even more than the last time, like wud do i do??? oh yah, he still sorta gives me reason to make me think he still likes me too...
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Just give yourself some time to get over this guy. If he isnt paying attention to you and he acts like an idiot to you, he's not worth your time. You will be able to find someone else who you will like even more than you like him, and they'll be head over heals for you. Trust me.. you will find someone! Just give yourself some time. Hope I helped!
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me n my boyfriend always break up and then make up. it's getting kinda old and i'm always getting hurt. i just cant help myself from going back to him all the time, i guess its because i truly love him. i'm just so sick of getting hurt when one day he'll be all lovey-dovey to me and the next day he'll be so rude n ignorant. i feel that we're going to break up again and in a lil while he'll come running back. what should i do? i think we really do love eachother though. (link)
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I have been in this position. Me and my ex-boyfriend Brian were in a long distance relationship, and we broke up alot in the course of 2 years. I know what it feels like to lose someone over and over again. Eventually your heart will become numb to everything, because you wont care what happens in your relationship anymore. Its very possible that you two do love eachother, but you just arent right for each other. If this is really bothering you, please consider breaking up with him for good. I know it sounds terrible, but I promise you will benefit from it. If you need to talk to me my AIM screen name is Aminem2388
I really hope I helped and I would be happy to talk to you any time!!
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