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Q: 15/f
what kinds of things should i put in the card to my bf?

-quotes
-lyrics
-something to actually SAY to him.. i really have no clue..
anything is appreciated.

puTT wHaTEvERR wiLLL mEaNN soOmETHinGG ttO HiMM

Q: I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?

pUTT HiiS naMEE oN iTTT

Q: okay i've been talking to this guy and a couple of weeks ago he tried to do stuff w. me at a party well i've liked him for a while now and he talks to me occasionally like if im walking with a boy that is just a friend he will say something like " this boy dont want to go out with you" or he'll say whats goin on here ? and i like him soo much i cant get over him and all i think about is him like in school i cant do my work cus i think about him soo much and i dont ever learn anything.. what should i do should i try and talk to him?

yess you should try to takl to him. it sounds like he likes you but he's prolly scared you dont like him back so he's not asking you out. it takes a lot of courage to tell him that you like him, but in the end its worth it.

xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: me and my bf made a bet about who could stay up the longest, and if he lost, he had to go some where with me, and if I lost, i have to kiss him. WE called it a tie, but we still have to go through with it. What should I do?

you should do what you said you would..but if your not comfortable w/ that then just remember that you don't have to do anything you dont want to.

xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: hey 14/f there is this really hot junior at school, and i want to introduce myself to him, but the problem is i don't know how and i want to get to know him, but like how do i introduce myself i go to a private school and my brother is friends with him, and please dont say something like have you seen my brother to introduce myself, etc etc

have your brother have him over one night and you invite a friend over and just like..have you answer the door when he gets there. and then be like HEy! iVE SEEN yOU AROUND SCHOOL BEFORE!! and then..ya..everything should end up great.
xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: How do you get an ex boyfriend back?
And how can you ask him if he likes you, without really asking him?
thanks, i rate fair.

you can't do anything to make him change his mind about you. if he doesnt like you then he doesnt like you. but something weird might have happened w/ you 2..idn..just ask him who he likes?? and when he asks who you like..dont lie to him!! because then even if he did like you..he wouldnt anymore because guys are gay and he might just give up on you.
xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: how can i hide a hicky from my parents..i dont have really long hair so that wont work and i dont wear turtlenecks so yeah i need help

MAKEUP

xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: Wat do I do?! My boyfriend just left for Dallas and I'm never gonna see him again. But i've thought it over and over again. I didn't really like him. It's all confusing.

iF yOU DON'T REALLy LiKE HiM THEN yOU HAVE TO BREAK UP W/ HiM SO yOU CAN BOTH HAVE FUN! MABiE JUST BE REALLy GOOD FRiENDS AND LiKE CALL HiM ALL THE TiME.
xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: Dear Advicegiving people,

Yeah.. that subject was REALLY retarded. But yeah.. ok.. my LOVING boyfriend and I have been going out since July 8th & he's really sweet & all & I know he loves me because he tells me all the time & like.. I just DONT want that right now. I DONT want a serious relationship. And he's not the cutest thing ever, but he IS sweet & would give me the moon if I asked, like he's like the perfect boyfriend, but I dont WANT that. I want there to be rough times & I actually want him to disagree with me from time to time, but he treats me like a princess & thats just not what i want, but i dont want to be treated like crap either.. I just dont know right now. I want to break up with him, but i dont want to hurt him! HOW can I? Is it even possible? He's 15 by the way & so am I.

**Sorry it's soo long**

THEiRS NO EASy WAy TO BREAK UP W/ SOMEONE...THEiR GONNA GET THEiR FEELiNGS HURT. BUT iF yOU TELL HiM WHAT yOU WANT..LiKE..TELL HiM, "i DON'T KNOW iF i WANT ALL OF THiS THAT yOUR OFFERiNG ME..yOUR SOO GOOD TO ME AND i KNOW THATS BETTER THEN BEiNG TREATED BADLy..BUT SOMETiMES iT WOULD BE NiCE TO JUST BE SiNGLE AND TALK TO EVERyONE..i KNOW THAT WE'VE BEEN GOiNG OUT FOR SOO LONG...AND iM REALLy SORRy..BUT i JUST CAN'T GO OUT W/ yOU RiGHT NOW."
iDN....iM NOT GOOD AT NiCE BREAKUPS!! LOL!! BUT MAKE SOMETHiNG UP THAT'S NiCE. iF yOUR MEAN HE'LL THiNK THAT yOU DONT LiKE HiM AT ALL AND DON'T WANT TO BE FRiENDS OR ANyTHiNG.
i HOPE EVERyTHiNG WORKS OUT!
xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: Im 15 female and ive never had a boyfriend before. Im not going to say im ugly becuase people will just say "youre beautiful inside" blah blah. But my question: Will a guy still want to go out with me if i dont want to do anything past makeing out? Well at least him doing to me..or until i feel more comfortable with my body.

So am i considered prude?
Will I ever get a boyfriend if i feel this way?

i DON'T WANT TO DO ANyTHiNK PAST MAKiNG OUT..ND GUyS DON'T MiND!! NO yOUR NOT CONSiTERED PRUDE..AND DON'T WORRy..TONS OF GUyS PROBABLy LiKE yOU, AND yOU JUST DON'T KNOW iT!
xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: hey, i really need help finding a gift for my bf. we've been going out for 3 months, and this is my first real relationship so ive never done this before. i know from his friend that hes getting me glass ornaments that he made, but i have no idea if hes getting me anything else or not. got any suggestions? thanks so much, i rate

GET HiM HiS FAVORiTE MOViE AND A PiCTURE FRAME WiTH A PiCTURE OF yOU TWO iN iT. i PROMiSE yOU THAT THE WHOLE TiME THAT yOU'RE GOiNG OUT HE WiLL HAVE THE PiCTURE By HiS BED.

Q: is it weird when the girl is taller than the guy in a relationship?

iT lOOkS fUNNy If YOuR sTaNdINg By HiM nD yOUr TaLLeR..bUT iF YOu LiKe HIm ThaT sHOulDnT stOp YOu FrOM gOInG oUT w/ HIm!
xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: Well christmas is coming up and i think i know what im doing for my Girlfriend, if you have read my past questions, i'm doing this thing, i get a vase with 11 roses in it, and one glass rose in it. And a card on it that says "when the last rose dies is when i will stop loving you" Hence... a glass rose wont die. Then besides that im gonna do one of those build-a-bear things.. and a silver neckless. Sound good? anyone know a good place to get a silver neckless? like a heart emblem of what ever?

aWw!! that's soo cute!! uMm..i gotta really cute necolace from claire's last year for valentines day!! i know..it sounds cheap..and like it would be ugly!! but its really cute nd i still wear it!!
xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: It seems like every one is starting to dislike me. One minute people want to talk next minute they want fight but to be honest stuff like DONT BOTHER ME? My question what should I do if a boy once said he loved me but now walking around school with another person. Should i curse her out or should i just leave both of them alone.

leave them alone!! if you do anything else it will cause too much drama!!
xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: okay i like this guy well i dont know if i like him cuz we dont really talk but i wanna get to know him but i cant cuz we never talk hes online all the time but im too scared to IM him becuase we never have anything to talk about its so wired its just always quite and i hate it and keeping the convo. going isnt my only promblem how do i IM him first? if someone can answer both of thoes qustions that would be great thanks!!

ill rate 5's!

*K

just be random..every1 likes people that are random nd talkative!!! he's never gonna like you if you dont talk to him..so what can it hurt!!
xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: I think my ex might like me. Please dont say " talk to him or ask him" Cause Im not readyy for that. He always smiles at me and walks me to the bus, and he waits for me in between brakes. Soo Does he?

i would definatly say he likes you!! ask like..one of his friends..or have your friends ask his friends!!
xO _ aLi mIcHeLLe

Q: ok so i have liked this guy at school for like ever and earlier this week he asked me out and i said yes of course! Then the next day he started to ignore me and tell everyone we were going out. He is really starting to confuse me what should I do?

i know it's hard but talk to him and ask him why he's starting to ignore you!! if you like him don't mess things up already!!

Q: okay i have been going out with this guy for a month and by christmas would be three months. i am needing help on what i can get him for christmas. i dont know what to get him b/c we would be going out for three months and i dont want to get him someting that special. so can someone plz help

thanks alot
punkbaby69

3 months isnt that long..so dont worry about the perfect gift!! get him something like his favorite dvd..because then if you like the movie too you two can watch it together!

Q: Alright here is the story. I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 days ago because it didn`t feel right and I kinda wanted to explore with other guys. The problem is I still like my now ex alot and I dont want him to get with another girl! I Don`t know if I should go back out with him or just explore or what to do at all! Any ideas?
I rate well

see if he's the right person for you to go out w/..nd if you like hanging out w/ someone else better then it doesn't matter what he does..but still hang out w/ him because it's good if you stay friends w/ him! but if you go out w/ a couple people nd you like him the best then go back out w/ him..nd if he has a girlfriend then wait..if he likes you then him and his girlfriend won't last..and if he doesn't like you then he won't go out w/ you even if he doesn't have a girlfriend

Q: OK, the story goes like this. I go out with my ex-girlfriend and she says she won't ever leave me, and BANG. A week later she leaves me(she's f/17). I tried to call her...a lot for two weeks. I then decide not to contact her anymore but it's been two months and i'm still not over her. Must i contact her or must i just accept that she will never come back?