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Hayy! Im Danielle and I am 16! I really enjoy helping people out and i can give good advice! I have been through alot especially in the past 2 years... and i have always needed people to help me out! Well i know that others need it too and thats what im here for! So ask ur questions and ill be happy to help!!
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ok.......theres this guy that i've been friends with benifits for a while. i've done things with him twice. the first time he said he used me but the secind time he dint bcuz he was thinkin bout askin me out. then a couple weeks later he goes out with one of my friends but still says he likes me. they broke up a couple days ago and now he wants to get together(hint hint). i like him alot, so much that i feel like im in love with him...lol. but what should i do? should i keep messin around with him or tell him that if were not gunna have a relationship then im not gunna be friends with benifits???? please help
If he said that he used you the 1st time chances are thats what he's doin now! Hes a boy... and boys want to have "fun", but if you just let him use you in that way it will only make you feel and look bad. If you keep it going not only will you still be falling for him, he might go off to his friends and tell them "hay i can get so-n-so ne time i want" and then later on ppl could find out and try it out to! It might sound like fun in short term... but in the long run... its not a smart idea!
I'm 13 years old and female, and almost everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend / girlfriend or at least someone who likes them. Not me! I'm going into 8th grade, I have freckles and pale skin and I'm a redhead. I have friends, but boys like to tease me or they avoid me. help?
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13 year old boys are CRAZY haha! You dont need em! They will learn in time to appreciate you! Also you seem to not have very high of self-esteem! You need to realize ur own special look! If you were able to be happy with how you look, it would make you stand out! I think that having red hair and freckles is great! Its what makes your look YOURS! So you should try to be happy with it!!!
me and my boyfriend have been together fro a while now. we had our first fight the other day... i was so mad at him and didn't want to talk to him, but he kept trying to talk 2 me trying to make things better again. well i was extremely mad at him, but all i wanted wat him to hold me and not let me go. anyways is there something wrong with me... i mean because i was so mad at him but didn't want to be away from him. is that odd? thanks in advance
Fights in a relationship are normal... they are actually what makes it stronger! I mean, if you can get past the problems then you can make it shows you can make it through so much! You were mad at him for whatever reason your fight was about but that doesnt mean you dont still care about him and want to be with him! Nothing is wrong with you at all! I have been with guys and i'd get soooooo mad at them, but id still wanna hug em and kiss em even tho they annoyed the hell out of me! Yall should talk thru w/e it is that is goin on and then everything can be great again! Good Luck
I have some trouble getting a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I've only had 3 boyfriends where my friends have had a bunch more! It's not like I'm trying to compete, it's just weird! I mean, people tell me I'm pretty, but I don't think I am. I also know I'm not fat but not thin... and I have a lot of friends! I don't really know what's wrong with me! Can anyone help?
At 13 you dont need to have had a bunch of boyfriends!!! So 3 is perfectly fine! Also you should try to be more positive about yourself! Work on your SELF-ESTEEM! Guys like it when a girl is comfortable in her own skin! And definately dont like it when a girl is FAKE! So just be you and you shouldnt have ne problems gettin a guy! And if you dont get a guy right away... YOU ARE THIRTEEN! You have time!
PLZ HELP ME!! Me and my ex went out for a few months and i really cared about him then out of the blue one day he says he wants to be friends for now because he doesnt want a girlfriend. So we still hang out, but everytime I look at him i can tell that he still cares about me and that hurts alot. Should i just forget about him? If yes, then how do I get him off of my mind?
WOW! Thats crazy... im goin through the SAME thing right now! I dated a guy that made me feel like i was a princess and like i was floating... he also helped me past a part of my life i didnt need to have! I really care about him and im pretty sure he still cares about me... but he decided that having a gf wasnt what he needed right now... what he needed was a friend instead! Well it made me sad because i wanted (still want) to be with him and i cried for a while, but i realized that if i couldnt have him as mine... i would never pass up the chance to have him in my life even if it was just as friends. I still hang out with him too and when i look at him i can still see the wonderful person that i was with but i have to remind myself that a friend is all it can be for now. As for forgeting about him... thats for you to decide! Its so hard for me to keep my ex off my mind... so i keep myself busy! If you are doing something other than layin around thinkin bout him you will be able to be distracted by the other things you are doing! Just remember... hes most likely not trying to hurt you... he just cant lie about how he feels cuz that would be wrong. And if you care about him you will realize that if thats what he needs to be happy then you should give him that. Good Luck!
what should i do... i love danielle
Well... i have no clue who this is! But if you are jokin around then lemme kno hah! If not then you should also lemme kno!