so i have another major problem... my girlfriend and me wanna hang out tomorow night and i invite her over and she says i dont care what does this mean? i mean does she want to come over or does she wanna go somewhere else? or does she just hate me?
robert quit being such a fagg ♥
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Thank you guys so much for all the advice about scott, i realize you guys are right, i need to no let scott walk all over me and take me for granted all the time. ok well i saw him for the first time friday after school...it was werid he looks so different..i only stayed for like five minuntes tho..well he still hung out with Vita ( the ex) on saturday. he called me last night and i asked him how it was and he said it was boreing and she gained like 10 pounds...but since friday he's been acting really weird and i have no clue why and he wont tell me why hes acting like that...when i saw him friday i knew i really loved him i mean REALLY! and i dont know why hes acting so weird i am scared hes going to dump me....i dont know what to do..i feel like he never talks to me he never tells me how he feels and that hurts....i mean i know no matter what i saw scott is going to do what he wants to do reguardless of what anyone says..it sucks because i feel like i cant even talk to my own boyfriend...so yeah..leave some love!
well maybe you should let it go .. it might not be anything big just something that is going on with his ex; like a family problem, but if it keeps going for a while keep trying to talk to him & if he walkes all over you he`s not worth keeping around, don`t ever let a guy treat you like that & if he hangs out wtih his ex`s i mean just be careful .. and make sure he's not messing around or anything !
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i am in love with my boyfriend, like i don't want to be with any other guy but him. and i want to tell him i love him. but im scared he is going to get scared like last time it happened i told him i love you (he said it back but) then a week later he broke up wiht me. i want to say it so much since i mean it., but i don't want to lose him. it hurts not being able to tell him i love him, but i don't know if he really is in love with me too. and i want to know. he is the only guy i actually fell for like this, i am about to cry from writing this. i dont want to lose him when school starts but i don't want to talk to him about it cuz im scared what he is going to say. what should i do
i think you should still talk to him about it .... if he doesnt feel the same way about you then it wasnt meant to be ... talk to him and if he loves you he will tell you the truth ..
hope we helped
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im 13 years old and i dont know if one of my closest friends likes me.
hes acting very weird all the time around me and i think he wa flurtting with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
what do i do?
first of all you have to know if you like him in that way or not then you have to follow your heart and just do what you feel is right if you like him go for it if not then just tell him you just want to be friends !!
hope we help you
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Okay, when I like a guy, I'm shy to tell them on the phone and online. The only way I'm NOT shy if I tel lthem straight out in person. Is this weird? And do guys like when you do it this way??
its not wierd when you are like that .... it is just your way of telling a guy how you feel and it is perfectly normal if that is how you like doing it !
hope that helped !!
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I like this guy, but i dont know how to let him know. I'm super shy and i cant go up to people and just out tell them, so....i dont know how to tell him without "telling" him...help?
~Melissa~
maybe you could tell one of your really good friends to tell him that you like him ... maybe you could email him something or iM him .... maybe you could write him a note or something ... those are a couple of ways i would go about it if i was shy !!
hope that helped and good luck !
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Hey people if u could help that would be great. Well you see i was going out with this girl and she really liked me. I really liked her too and soo we went on a kind of date not really we pretty much just hung out but it didn't go as well as i thot it would. And by the way this was on a friday. Anyways i was kind of worried because she didn't call me all weekend and i didn't have time to call her. So today when i went to school she wasn't really talking to me and she even seemed kind of mad. So then today after school i called her and I asked her if she was mad at me and she said no but she thinks we should just be friends. In the inside i was really upset but i said that i thought that was a good idea and i was thinking the same thing but i deffinently was not. She was happy that i wasn't mad or upset but i really am upset. What should i do?????
my advice to you is to talk to her about it ... like get together with her and talk one on one ... not on the phone because she could cut you off ... together both of you in the same room ... talk and if she doesnt want to say anything or tell you what is wrong ... there was no need to be with her anyway because to have a good relationship with someone you HAVE to talk to eachother about your problems or whats bothering you ... so talk to her about it and if she doesnt want to talk then there was no need for you to like her in the first place
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I used to really like this guy, lets call him Mike, and I was totally obsessed with him. I went to summer camp during July, and He was there, (he lives close to me) At summer camp, he flirted with me NON-STOP! Like he would run up and grab my hand, and throw paper cups at me, and try to push me into the pull, and stuff. But recently I have relized he is an immature child, and I dont like him. But....I dont know, he was like my first REAL crush, i liked him for eight years. (im 15 now) Now that he is crushing on me (and he told my freind he was) I dont know what to do!!! Because when he flirts with me its kinda like i like him a little, but when i dont see him i really dont like him at all!!!! I dont know what to do.
BTW, HE IS STALKING ME!!! He is everywhere i go, we go to the same church, anywhere i go, he is there. We were at camp togeather, and EVERYWHERE i went at camp, he was like 15 feet away, and we have a HUGE camp. He offers to take me home after bible study and church and stuff, and if anyone else offers before him he gets really mad. OOHH AND! at camp, he made out with some girl, so i dont really trust him.
What should i do?????
~Melissa~
i say talk to this kid ... tell him you dont want to be around him and he kind of scares you ... if you dont want to put it like that just say i really think we need some space between us ... if he still wont leave you alone talk to one of your parents about it and see what they say ... my other option to you is to tell the guy your ummm a ... ummm lESBiAN !! lOl sorry but it might help !
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thers this kid lets call him will,i am fixated with him,i like know things about him and when i see him my heart skips.but we r in different social circles plus i think he likes his friend micaela.do i like him and what should i do about it.
its plain and simple .. you deffinitly like this guy ... so talk to him ... it doesnt matter about micaela right now it is between you two ... talk to him and see if he feels the same way about you
hope we helped you !!
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ok so i have this major problem. i was looking forward to going out to eat at this great restauraunt tonite and now im not going! i had even figured out what i was gonna order. what do i do now??
robert advice is for people who actually need it not for people who need to find out somewhere to eat people have bigger problems ... but sometimes you do need help jk but yeah dont do this ohkay thanks !
hope this helped !
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ok i like this guy alot but hes going out with one of my friends i mean were not bff but like we hang out and stuff like that and he says he likes me but i dont know...he wants to hook up with me and i really wanna hook up with him too but i dont think that would be fair to my fiend...but like i really really want to and my friends away on vayk in ohio untill sept 2 so she wouldnt find out but i really dont wanna do that to her...please help I RATE HIGH!
PLEASE HELP 14/f
if you really like this guy and want to hook up with him ... talk to your friend about it and if she is a true friend she will understand !! sorry if that isnt the best advice !!
hope that helps !!
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my boyfriends birthday is coming up sooon and i dont know what to get him iased him what he wanted and his response was me all he wants is me, but i wont feel right if i dont get him anything does anyone have ideas on what i should get him? i cant think of anything creative please help
15/f
well i realy dont know but i would get him something that shows him you love him .. buy him a nice i love you card ... get him a gift card for out to eat and go out to dinner one night or YOU can take him out and do something with him for his birthday ... take him to his favorite clothes shop and let him pick out some things he likes and buy them for him ... sorry if that isnt the best advice but i sure hope it helped !
wish you the best !
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hey well 14 and a gurl. im goin out with this skater dude... but i really like hes friend. his friend is on the football team at school, but also skates! idk wht i need to do. all my friends are tellin me to break up with the dude im datin now because hes a loser. but i have this one friend who hates every guy i date. wht do i do? break up with the dude im datin and go out with his friend?? please help me!!!!
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Ohkay well first of all dont let your friends judge who you are dating its your choice not theres... Is your friend really your friend or are they just there , all i can tell you is to follow your heart and just go with the flow and see what happens.
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ok, i've been dating this guy for 2 months. and at first, i loved everything about him... and now i guess... im just losing interest. i've tried pushing him away slowly... cut down on hangin out... and everything... it just doesnt seem to work. i was planning on pushing him away, and stop hangin out as much, and then pull the... im confused and i dont know what i want thing. i mean... i do sorta like him still... but hes talking about marriage... im 16, and im not interested in that yet. i just wanna live my life. im not ready for a serious relationship, i thought i was, but im not. i do want to break things off, because with the way i feel, its just not going to work out... yet... how do i tell him i need a break... i dont want to shut him out of my life or anything... i just dont wanna be labeled as his... gf... i just wanna be friends, and hang out from time to time, and im not sure... just not couple things. how do i break things of temporarly with out breaking his heart, and shutting him out of my life?
just simply tell him you want to take a break and you just dont feel comfortable with such a serious relationship at the moment ... and if he doesnt understand what you are saying .. or doesnt understand why there is no need for you to even be with him ... sorry if that is a smart ass answer !!
hope this helps you !!
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Ok i have this friend that talks to me alot in person and gives me hugs alot but whenever i wanna talk to her on the computer she wont talk what do i do? i need help :(
alot of times peoples feelings on the computer are completely different than in person ... depending on whether your friend has a lot of iMs or not or if they are trying to settle or are in a crisis or something important they may not talk to you ... just dont worry about it and dont iM that person .. if they wanna talk to you .. let them iM you
hope this helps you !!
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I'm 14/f.
I'm a freshman and I like a sophomore. Well, we're in a club together and we had a carwash today and it was a lot of fun. My crush and I started talking and it was really cool. Well, my friend filled up a bucket with water and dumped it over my head. I was already soaked enough but after that I was WET. My crush asked me why I didn't go change and I told him I didn't have anything to change into so he offered me his shirt. Well, that was really sweet of him but he then he started messing with me, like, I got him a little wet and he threatened to hit my butt and after that he threw a wet washcloth at me (not directly and not hard, just so I would get a little bit wet) and then he started smiling at me. Well, I also found out he has a girlfriend so what's the deal? I'm not trying to break them up, all I want to be is friends with him right now, but does he like me?
this guy is just being a guy .. he is flirting with girls like every guy does ... he probably thinks you are cute and just wanted to have a little fun
hope this helped you
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I've known this boy for about a year now and right when I met him I liked him a lot. I've gone out with him 3 times. I ALWAYS think about him. It's so hard not to. And if i hear that he likes another girl a little i cry. He says he likes me but I just heard about the other girl thing. Anyways, I havent SEEN him for 4 months straight. I feel really depressed if i dont talk to him for a long time. If I think about him my heart starts to like pound and when he comes online I get a really cold sweat. Do I love him or what? it feels like I do so much and if he died OMG id probably cry my eyes out for 3 weeks straight. SO do you think I'm obsesed or I love him?? :(
your not obsessed dont worry you just care about him alot and want him to love you ... face it sweetie ... your inlove !!
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ok so i got a girlfriend who i love and ive been dating for a long time. but i got this friend who likes her and he says hes like one of my best friends and wuldnt do that to me. but yea she says she doesnt like him and i believe her but it still bothers me cuz i dont really trust the guy at all. what should i do??
Is he really your friend if he does this to you?? Do you really love her?? Do you know for sure if she loves you too?? If you think anything will happen between them you should talk to your girlfriend about it... that way you know for sure ... and try to trust her it might help a little ... also you could try like talking to your friend and just tell him you really like her and you dont want to lose her and maybe he'll back off a little.
Hope we helped !
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ohkay theres this guy and he always digs down my pants and one time i think he was fingering my butt crack! and its kind of weird but like i dont want to tell him to stop it! and act like a little person so i never said anything but i need to i mean the other day he was playing with my boobs and i swear i heard him pretending they were people like talking with eachother! what should i do???
Ohkay well first of all is this guy your boyfrind?? do you want him to do this to you?? do you even like him?? ... you should think about that b4 you dicide if you want him too or not. i mean if you love him its your choice to let him keep doing it but i mean if you dont like it just ask him to stop are talk to him about it.
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ok so there is this girl that keeps flirting with my boyfriend and some people have told me that she said he likes her again and i asked him about it and he said that he doesn't and i believe him but, she is still flirting with him and i want her to stop because he is a big flirt and i know if she flirts with him enough he will start to flirt back!!
Well first you could ask him to tell you the truth and if you dont believe him ask the girl straight up and see what she has to say about it if she says that he was you could ask her to stop or just simply tell him, im sure your friends are prolly truthful for the most part so you could prolly trust them and ask them to tell you if he does anything and then confont him. If he's a big flirt (which most guys are) dont worry its his loss... but if he realy likes you just ask him to stop and he will
Hope this helps !
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