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Hi, I'm a girl, freshman, and I am 14.
I have been dating my boyfriend, who is 15, for about a month and three weeks. It was perfect at first and just went down. I don't know what happened. We went to the movies and had a great time, but it got worse and he stopped talking to me. I wondered what was wrong. My friends told me that he was a crack head and shouldn't go out with him, but I liked him so I didn't listen. We had tons of fun. I got tons of pictures with me and him together. I also have his sweater at home. But recently he has had a flirting problem and flirted with every girl in front of me. I got mad and sad and ended up getting my friends to talk to him for me. My friends said he was going to break up with me. I was so sad. Then they said he wanted to dump me because I'm too immature. My friend said he was cheating on me, but I wouldn't believe it. He also made me cry by joking around with me saying he would break up with me a few times and he told like a lot of people he made me cry at school.
Today my life ended and he dumped me. I ended up crying my heart out. After school I talked to him and asked why. He said I acted like a baby. I was sad. Then this girl came up and asked if he was coming to her house. I was shocked! I couldn't believe it. The next thing I knew they were walking around holding hands like lovers. I yelled FU at them, but I don't think they heard it. Then I was so pissed off. My bus came. I got on it. I was so mad and started yelling FU and flipping off everyone out of the bus window and started crying to death; thinking about that girl and the good times we had together. Then I saw him walking with the girl far away. I flipped them off, but they didn't see. After that I cried so much on the bus for about an hour and I seriously almost threw-up.
This is the worst day of my life. I can't stop thinking about him because I still love him so much. He was so nice and sweet. I don't think I will ever get over him. Can someone please just give advice how I can get over him because I don't think I ever will and just thinking about him makes me cry and feel like I'm about to get sick even more...
Thanks so much for the help....
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wow.. i fee so bad for you. its tough to get over someone that you really liked. last year i went through the same thing. i cried every night, though and i wasnt happy anymore. it was hard at first and there is nothing oyu can really do. i just stood by my friends and flirted a lot. i finally realized that he wasnt good enough for me and it was time to move on. i really thought i was in love with this kid but now i realize that the person i love has always been close to me. you never know how to get better, i could tell you to eat your emotions but thats not always the best thing. flirt and have fun do stuff like hang out wtih people to get over him.. hope i helped


ok so my bf and i have been dating for a little over two years now, and i always have trouble thinking of things to get him for his birthday/x-mas. his birthday is new years eve, so i need two things to get him. he's not the typical guy, like sweaters and cologne are not the type of things that he would like. i got him a wallet for graduation, picture frame last year, so none of that would work, and he already has a really nice watch. any, ANY ideas would be GREATLY appreciated...thanks a lot...i'll rate high!! (link)
get him a picture of you and him when you frist started going out and maybe write him a note. you could get him a card and in it, it says One Free Night Alone. you could even take him out to dinner


I feel like such an idiot asking this, but how do you make out? I need help!! I'll rate you no matter what. PLEASE HELP ME!! (link)
okay, i had this same problem. just do what he does and like i know it sounds silly but think about what you would want a person to do with their tongue in your mouth


well im 13 (white) and this 15 year old (black)..likes me and a lot i guess. i dont no what to do, im not racist but i dont want to hurt his feelings..ive never been in a situation like this b4..please help (link)
if you dont like him, dont force yourself to go out wtih him, tell him that you could be friends or something. you could even just hang-out at the mall with friends to see if you really like him, yet your friends will be there that way he wont try to do stuff with you, you could even explain to him that you like someone else (if you do) but dont lie to him and make up excuses not to see him cause that will make you seem racist even though you arent..


1) what is the difference between making out and kissing i thought that making out is just when you do it for a long time but im not sure
2) what does bi mean (link)
1. i thiink making out means for a long time and with tongue. and i think kissing is like a peck.
2. if you are bi you like both men and women like you can have a relationship with both sexs, instead of just likeing one sex.


I broke up with my boyfriend Saturday. I thought I only liked him as a friend, but now that I am without him, I realise I really miss him and like him. I think since we barely hang out, I started liking him less. He cried when we broke up. I hope he doesn't hate me. I am going to talk to him tomorrow if I see him before he goes to practice. I want to go back out with him. I was PMSing, so I guess that screwed up with my emotions. What should I say to him to clear this all up and so we can get back together? I'm really bad at doing this, but I want this to work out. Help..can you give me an example on what to say? (link)
just tell him how you really feel, explain that you've had mixed emotions and you got confussed. he might not be ready to go back out with you again, but hopefully you two will have a better friendship, that could turn into another relationship. explain to him that you relaly care about him and you want to be with him again.


ok my friend emily just told me that she thinks my crush that i have neva told anyone about might like me......she says that he treats me different than any otha gurl
like this one time that i didnt think was a big deal but he gave me gum wen i asked and no one else...oh and he let me copy 2 questions off his hw but wen my friend askd he said yea right n walkd away....
i dont kno wat to do ...do i ask him ..but if he says he dont like me people are gonna laugh at me......or he might lie and say he doesnt but really does..idk plzzz plz help me.....should i ask him or not (link)
ok first of i think i know who this person is. and i know who this crush is obviosly. and he does. i really dont think you should ask him. you should ask someone else to ask him. but not emily cause he wont tell emily and i hope you know why.




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