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Ok so this guy started to like me but i didnt like him...he started to like me the very first day we met and then the second day i started to like him he found out by my friend!!! And well he asked me out and i said yes!!! Do you think i should have waited or did i do the right thing?
Thanks in help!!!

you did the right thing. he likes u an u like him... thatas all that matters. just hope that evryhting works out! 8)

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my best friends boyfriend likes me what should i do ?

jus tell him ur not interested, if he still like you after a while, then you should prolly go an tell your freind. she might not like what shes hearing but it will help her out in the long run. hope that helped an i hope evrything works out ok!! 8)

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My boyfriends(mike) best friend(Eric) who I am also pretty good friends with told me that Mike told him that he wanted to break up with me and that he regrets giving me a second chance.


He broke up with me a few months ago for reasons I wont say but we got back together. Now, we've been getting in all of these little annoying fights so I guess that would be his reason for saying that stuff to Eric.


But, when I asked Mike about what Eric said he said, he swore on his life that he never said such things.


So know I don't know who to believe. I totally trust my boyfriend so I think I'm leaning towards him. But then again, what reasons would Eric have to lie to me?


I know this isn't a lot of information because you guys obviously don't know me of the 2 guys but who would you believe?

18/f

eric might lie to you because maybe he likes you. if he does like you, he could've told you that to make you brake up with mike so that he could maybe have a chance. i dont know, if i was in that position i would sit them down together and talk to them at the same time but then again i always put my freinds before my boyfreinds. well, sorry i couldnt be that much of a help. i hope it helped a lttle and i hope everything works out. 8~)

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I am a 19 year old female who has dated a lot of immature 18-21 year olds. I joined an online dating site recently, just because I thought it would be fun. Well, now I seem to be drawing myself towards older men, such as 30 year olds. I suppose it's because of their maturity level, financial stability, and experience.

Would this be socially acceptable for me to have a relationship with a 30 year old, or a bit taboo? How would others perceive us? What should I consider before dating an older man? What sort of problems may we encounter in our relationship? Any thoughts would be appreciated.

i think that you should follow your heart. age is just a number, love will never end. dont worry as much about what other people think of you. they're not with him, so they dont have to worry about it. besides you are 19 and he is 30. thats really not all that bad. my sister is 21 and her husband is in his mid 40's. my mom is 38 and her husband is in his mid 50's. ((everyone still loves them just the same)) i personally dont enjoy being with older guys but its not age that matters...just follow your heart and dont worry about what other people think of u. its none of their buisness. i hope that helped! :) much

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okay well i have a bf and we have nothing at all in commin i mean we barly talk and now hes gone 4 2 weeks on a cruse and theres a dance coming up this weekend. adn theres this kid ((boy w/e)) that i kinda in a way just met and he told me he liked me and well he was flirting w/ me at the last dance and i just think hes cute i mean i dont think i like him. but hes a grade unger than me and i dont realli think age matters but i do have a bf and idk what to do i mean wen im single i barrley like anyone but now i have a bf i think i like alot of people ((well no everyone)) but i tend to flirt more or notice that i do. srry its so long. im just so confused about this hole thing.

i think that its normal that you would flirt more when u you have a bf than when you dont. but before you go and do anyting that would qualify as cheating on your bf you should ask yourself, "is he a good bf?" "do you think that if you were gone on a cruise and he was left with a girl that liked him he would cheat on you?" dont cheat yourself out of a good relationship that is, or could come. ((but if you do something with this kid at the dance, its also normal for you to feel kinda guilty afterwards and possibly break up with your bf))

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