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thanx for replying, but the thing is, everyone thinks that i'm just a backup to him. They think when he wnats something i'll be there. All i'm saying is i dont' turn my back on anyone. I'll be there when he needs me, but i don't look him at him in the same way no more. He ruined my trust,lost my respect! i mean we don't go out, so i shouldn't get all madd and stuff. But why am i so upset? i'm usually "disappointed" towards him, never mad, but really i am! I can forgive but this i really don't know...do u know anyone who had this same issue? What would you do? sorry again for the long questions....thanx tho!take care (link)
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you shouldn't turn your back on him and why shouldn't u be mad? theres nothing wrong with that and has he even made an attempt at wanting your forgiveness? he should want your forgiveness before you just give it too him. I personally im not a girl but i think in your situation i would just not let him take advantage of me always being there. mabe dont let him be so sure that you'll always be a nice back up plan or something.
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Hey,ur really cute.but that's not what i'm here for.lol! well my ex boyfriend and me were off and on, and, we recently broke up(prolly 3-4 weeks ago) He says i'm the only girl he can trust and i'm easy to talk to, and i'm his closest friend other then his bis bff*D*, and his cuzint *J*! He says i'm his first girl, and he's my first guy. That'll never change. I honestly believed it. But yesterday, i went to my friends house, which is his friends too. Well i went over there, and i didn't know if he knew i was comming over but, Zach((our friend,the person house we went to)) was like yea *B* and *DC* and*JAY* are upstairs with these two other chix, so i went up there thinking nuttins wrong, but when i walked in, *DC* was under the blankets with some chik, and muh ex*B* was in bed, under the blankets with another girl. Zach said it was like a make-out party up there. my question is, why is he doing this to me? after he said all those "crap" to me. Oh also, he said he couldn't get over me,dat's why he broke up with this junior he dated(they went out for like 2 weeks) he said he couldn't stop thinking of me. Also a bunch of ppl at our school thought we were going to be High School Sweethearts. but after this i'm really confused. What is he trying to prove? Does he hate me now? why did he kiss her in front of me? i just ned to know in a guys perspective. Thanx so much in advance, and i'm SOOO sorry this is so long.
.:*confused EX*:. (link)
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well u lil confused ex you. i think that this guy feels safe with you and he really can trust you, but this was a big mistake he made. i think you're safe to him and he feels comfortbale in the fact that you'll always be there for him. BUT AGAIN you cant always be there for somebody that isnt gonna give you the love and respect you deserve. in the end i think your what he really needs and wants but by no means does that mean you have to sit around and wait for him to find that out.
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ugh. all of my friends are always talkin about how awesome their boyfriends are and all this stuff. and i really dont have one or have anyone im really into. =[ how do i meet someone that i would be into? any ideas? btw--ur relaly good at giving advice. u take it seriously which is awesome! (link)
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hey well first of all boyfriends are really great now but soon they'll be in fights and angry at each other and it'll get ugly so dont get too jealous about that. second dont rush it ull run into someone ull like and ull know it right off the bat its just how life works so u just gotta be patient on that one n thanx for the complement :) lata
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Theres a guy i've been into for now a year.. and its crazy. I mean sure he felt the same way, but it would "never" work out between us. Honestly we've gone through a lot.. and hes moving on and I am trying so hard. Sure I've told him what i've felt in the past but never directly. ha He told me if I was interested in a guy just walk up to him and tell him what Im feeling.. he said I hesitate to much, never saying whats on my mind then and there and then its to late. Id really love to know what he'd say if I directly told him how I was feeling next time I saw him, yet I dont want to know because nothing will or can happen. what do I do (link)
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haha well it sounds like u've made up ur mind nothing can or will happen so i wouldnt tell him honestly i would just try to move on and see what else life has for you. if hes already moving along u should probably just follow suit theres a BUNCH of guys out there so just take ur pick :) lata
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I am almost 15, a sophmore in high school, and I am yet to experience a kiss from a guy. I've had opportunites but I don't take them, and I question myself later why I don't. Some of my friends say its pathetic, or that they cant believe i've never kissed a guy. I guess i'm waiting til its the right opportunity, but Im kind of tired of it.. but I doubt you can relate.. I dont know whats going on with me. (link)
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hey i can relate definitly. i've kissed a girl but it wasnt untill recently. ya no rush at all people say ur not gonna be experienced or ur not gonna be good or whatever but it doesnt matter its pretty natural once u get into it like ur body knows what to do. so wait untill u really like a guy so ur first kiss is something u remember forever
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Since ur a guy, I gotta question 4 ya! Haha. I was just wondering, wut are some good present/gifts that u can get for or give 2 ur boyfriend 4 an anniversary or birthday type deal? My boyfriend is around ur age and we have been going out 4 about 9 and a half months. Sorry, this question may be lame or w/e, but I figured I'd give it a shot and ask since I'm clueless when it comes 2 wut a guy would want. Thanks! (link)
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haha no good question cuz it sucks when guys get 15 things of cologne. (i know from experience....last christmas......not good) neway i like gettin shirts like if hes in to sports mabe his fav sports team or a funny shirt or somethin its also cool to get like chains or somethin if he dont have one mabe u could kiss him if u guys havent done that haha that would be cool. comin from a guy :) good luck lata
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Hey! well i'm a colomnist too...VBabi13! but i juss a guys opinion! N i like how u answers things for other ppl, so i want ur advice*lol*, did i make any sense? anywayz....well my ex, we were off N on since like 7th grade, N we freshmens now. i guess u can say we have a history...we broke up N stuff, but i guess we don't actually go out, we look like we do or we act like we do! I kno so much bout him, cuz he opens up to me, N i feel like i can do the same thing back. goin out or not we still friends, we talk, but lately we haven't! I dunno why, i think the last time i talked to him, he wuzn't happy, his voice, juss drifted, i knew suttin wuz wrong but he kept on sayin "nothing"!!! We were pretty intimate, N we did both say to eachotha ((when we dating)) "i love you"...but all in all, u odn't forget your first love,right?well i think, personally, we still have strong feelings for eachother! well my question is, do u think he would have a lot of interest in me like when we wuz dating, N do u think goin out again would last longer?N what we have for eachotha, is it real?i can't stop thinkin bout wut we had N did,N i miss it A LOT! does he? (link)
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WELL haha ill take this one step by step. if u guys have been of and on and it still sounds like u guys are kinda off and on mabe u should try bein without him i mean u really dont know what its like to be without him and ur starting high school so theres alotta new people so u could do that. or u could just talk to him about it hes probably into giving it another try but if ur gonna do that u should do something soon because he sounds like hes kinda getting uninterested so u gotta reinterest him ;) haha so there ya go good luck kid lata
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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? Should I call him? (link)
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haha lets takes these one at a time. he was definitly being sweet the question is why he was bein sweet. i think he has feelings for you just becuz that sounds like a guy thing to do when u have feelings for someone bumping into them and stuff so i think u have a chance with him and i think it was in a good way and u could call him but i personally would make sure he had ur number and he holla at you. :)
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ok this is mainly for guys but i want to know what girls think about it too.
why is it ok for guys to check out girls and the guys excuse is "its in their genes" but if they find out that their girlfriend checks out a guy then they get all mad and jelous? its not ok if a girl does it but if a guy does then its just normal for them to? girls get hurt a lot easier then guys do... (link)
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guys have jealousy in there genes too but its not really right that girls cant look at guys but guys can look at girls but also like if a guy calls a girl whos his friend most girls will get mad and than get mad when we get mad for them callin a guy friend....its a visius cycle that nobody really understands but hey gotta love love. :)
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hey i'm 13 in august, and i don't know if it's sad, but i've never had a REAL relationship or anything... i feel like i really want to kiss someone, and have a real relationship, but do you think i'm too young? or what? I mean, school starts soon, and there might be new guys n stuff, and its my last year of middle school, and i dont want to miss out on teh fun of being one of the oldest... advice, please?
.:`Sarah':. (link)
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dont worry about it sarah, u dont have to rush relationships they'll come to you so dont worry or rush just wait till u find someone ur attracted too and go for it :)
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I've been with my boyfriend Steve for alomost 2months now. I haven't seen him in over a month and by the time i get to talk to him it'll have been a month. Lately I've been talking to my best friend Chris a lot. He's really sweet and nice to me. I really like him now. And i'm more open with him and i can talk to him easier than i can talk to steve but hes going to high school next year and im going into 8th grade and so is steve. Chris just got dumped by one of my best girl friends and shes mad at me cause she thinks i called her a slut and i didnt. I told chris i liked him when he was still going out with my friend. about a week after she dumped him he said he liked me back. we were playing truth or truth and he asked me if i would dump steve for anyone. And i said why do you want me to. And he said yes. I said i dont know if i would cause i hadnt talked to steve in so long. I'm really confused i dont know what to do. Should i dump steve and go out with chris? i mean it might make my friend mad cause she gets mad at stupid things. Or should i wait till steve comes home and talk to him cause i also feel like i barely even know him. who should i choose? what should i do? (link)
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well i dont know why u went out with steve but theres gotta be a reason so i would wait untill he got back and talked to him and u know if u dont think u n steve really click than go with chris, chris sounds like a nice guy but u gotta at least talk to ur boyfriend about it u know dont just dump steve outta nowhere because he doesnt know whats goin on u know? just talk to him :)
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So i went out with this guy the other night just to hang out because we have been friends a while and when i told my friends about it they were thinkin it was a date. we went to a movie, i paid cause he paid for lunch, and then we went to the beach and got ice cream and we talked on the beach for like an hour and a half. and it was really fun but i don't know whether to believe some of my friends and think of it as a date or just think of it as hangin out. what do you think?
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ur friends cant tell u what it was. if u liked the guy and would like to keep talkin n hangin out thats awsome. but if there u didnt like him before u guys hung out it wasnt a date. but if u did like him before than it was ;). good move on payin for the movie tho boys arent made of money
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i like a guy but i dont think he likes me. i wanna tell him but i dont wanna get hurt if he says that he doesn have the same feelings.i know i should ask him anyways because i dont know what would happen in the future but i still just dont want to get hurt.help me tony help me!!!! (link)
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if u dont tell him u will forever wonder whether or not he did like u. he might say he doesnt like u...if he does he wasnt meant for u but like i said before u dont want to wonder forever so if he does say no at least u'd get some closer and if he likes u than u got it made. just talk to him about it. in a perfect world guys would make the move like the lion hunts the gazelle........ok that was a lil weird but neway the guy would make the first move. but guys r stupid and we dont do what were supposed to :) sorry
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im so confused. i like this kid alot and everytime we go to a party together we hang around eachother and if i sit by him he will pull me on his lap and things that that...flirting wit me and i flirt back. then his friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. maybe he was embarressed? but then later he asked me for my number and he called me twice and we talked for about 2 hours each time. we flirt and everything and weve become friends. shud i say nething to him about it? or just let it be? cuz i wanna be more then just friends...and i htink he does too. (link)
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hey u definitly have to come out and found out how he feels im a guy n i now how we are.......retards, were not gonna think nething or do nething unless we think were gonna get somethin back. so if u want a boyfriend ur gonna have to talk to him about it
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