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Hey i am 11(but i say i'm 13) and i lik ballet and animals!!! I love the color pink 2! I am in 6th grade. I have da greatest friends in da whole world! I'm great at helping people and i like it to. Ask me a question! ~!TORI!~
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Age: 13
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i just wanted to know if your single. i'm a girl who is about probably about your age. i love your advice and well this is kinda hard to say but toricatlover, i think i'm in love with you! this has been driving me crazy! please respond to me!! (link)
um........... ask advice ?


Well ya see I had a crush on this guy since like 1st grade and well we kinda both liked eachother. But he was I guess shy.Well in 4th grade he was moving.We had grown REALLY close that year like a couple sorta. And finally at the end of the year he asked me to be his gf even if he moved.Well, of course I answered yes.But I was still thinking what if this does not work..... so should I keep my heart on the line w/ him or... move on???

A VERY confused person! (link)
ok well u should keep in touch with the guy (i kno who LOL) u should maby call him and see if he still considers u as a gf he probualy ( sorry i cant spell) does but then again he might of moved on!!! Best of Luck!!!


Well i met this guy about three years ago and we were just friends, didn't really talk or communicate just when i went to my aunt n uncles..he lives right next door to them. Then just last year at my uncles party did we hit it off and everything. I liked him (i even thought i loved him) He told me that he liked me, but the year before that my cuzin came from CA and they held hands n everything. They liked each other..then me n him talked all the time online n phone, i went on Vacation i called him or vise versa..now every once in awhile we talk online or i call him..i still have feelings for him, but he keeps hoping from girl to girl. supposally he has some feelings for me, but not many..i dont know what to do with it all. Should i forget him n move on? or should i tell him how i feel? what should i do? (link)
tell him how u feel and that u still want to be friends


at what age should you get a boyfriend/girlfriend? what if you are interested in girls and you are a girl.....when should you tell someone? (link)
well u can tell any one u trust some people dont even tell their parents but i think that is a major mistake!!! hope i helped


i like this guy but when i am around him i act really shy how can i stop that like when he comes up i just stand there i have never even said hi i know this is stupid but can you help me (link)
it is so not stupid that is normal for people to be shy aroung guys they like and even dont like. just talk to your friends about it and they can help u!!! hope i helped!!!


there is this guy and he likes me he is really weird but his parents are friends with my parents so he always comes over!! he bugs me so much but i dont want to be mean so how should i deal with him? (link)
well tell him that u r just friends and dont want to be more and then see wut he says. hope it works!


im 13 years old and ever sence i was little ive known i was a lesbian. my parents would kill me if they found out they think its descusting even the thought and they dont know at all. but i really like this girl and i want to just run away with her and not worry what everyone keeps saying and comenting. is it so wrong to love someone so much but not be able to express it cuase of being ashamed or scared...it just really sucks! i hate it...what should i do? please HELP! (link)
well try to tell her i guess i am so not an expert at this srry


my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
signed
***/confuzzzed/*** (link)
so she is gay?? ok well if she is dont treat her different but just be a little more careful around her 2 make sure she does not like u more than she used 2!!!


My b/f wants to make out but i don't think im ready.. plus i don't know how... what if i screw up. plus he has a HUGE nose what happens if it gets in the way.. im sooo confused. plus i think i'll feel dirty after. like how could i even look at any of my cousins the same knowing i made out. they look up to me and i have always had the good girl image! AHHH! plus im only turnin 14 and my friends pressure me cuz in highschool everyones made out!and i will be made fun of if i don't know how! (link)
just do wut u think is rite


hey
i was at the movies with this guy who i like..and well i wasn't shure if he liked me before..but when we were at the movies he jus put his arm around me and we were leanin our heads on each other and then he wanted to kiss me(my first kiss!) It was great..what do u think? also...do u think he likes me ?! Thanks!! (link)
well if he kissed u and put his arm around u well duh i think he would!!!


im 14 almost 15 and i have never had like a real boyfriend should i be worried that im going to go to prom alone because i think about it a lot (link)
dont worry it is soo ok u will find the perfect guy!!! it will be fine


there is this girl that i love more than anything in the whole world, and i know we love each other. but she has a boyfriend that she cares bout. i dont like anybody else but her. but i figure if i wait too long i will be hurt even more. what the heck do i do (link)
well tell her how u feel and it might help if u said how old u r because different ages will be different answers!!


ok i started talkin to this guy named chris about 5 months ago...we wer really good friends and our parents knew eachother so i was allowed to go everywhere with them!! they new we liked eachother 2....well he got grounded about 3 months later n we juss LOST CONTACT 4 S0O0 LONG....well i ben really thinkin bout him bc he treated me s0o well....and i called him up....he wasnt ther but his dad was like sara? ohh hey how r u? r u still in soccer?? blah blah juss totally tlkin to me!! his family loves me!! well ya so he called me last nite but my cell was on silence so i juss saw the missed call!! i was s0o happy!! well i called him today adn he had to go sumwher with his mom so we didnt get to talk and we havent talked for months....shuld i call him back?? wat do i say?? i have NO idea wat to say to him but i really like him n wanna hangout agen!! im really nervous!! plz help idk wat i shuld do!! WAT DO I SAY TO HIM?? (link)
Well first start out saying hey wut u been doing lately. and then just ask him questions about wut he was saying. then ask him if he likes u!


hey yall i jus found out that my bf is probly cheating on me and this stuff happens to me all the time i always get used at and it really sux and wel i jus dont no how to deal with it cus wenever this stuf happens i get really depressed and shit and i think about cutting and stuff but i never actualy do it i jus need sum way to get out of this place or idk i jus idk (link)
well ask him wut he has been doing latey and try to get hints! and try 2 begain 2 get clues and hang out more with him 2 keep him from doing wut he was doing before! hope i helped


hey i like this guy ALOT and i dont know if he likes me but um he is going into 10th grade and is frickin hot!! i dont know what to do! should i ask him out?! PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
Just get to kno him better and then start to talk and hang out. it worked for me try it the worst thing is he would say " i dont like u " or "no " htink about it!!!


i have this boyfreid and i like him alot and we grew up togeather and i want more from him and i feel like hes not giving me enough we only kissed and i want to do more wut should i do! (link)
Well he might be wanting to do more stuff with u 2 but he is afrade to talk it out with u just like u r a little afrade to talk it out with him. U never no unless u try so take a chance it might just pay off!!!




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