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15 / F
My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now and recently I have noticed one girl in particular showing an interest in my boyfriend. Before I had met my boyfriend I was not exactly friends with this girl because she is a bit of a bitch and I hate to use this word but she is what would be described as a "slut", but ever since we started dating she suddenly started hating me and being really rude to me. At first it was just her but now she has her friend against me as well and I feel really uncomfortable around them and always feel like I'm being watched. Every time i walk past them they stare at me and i know they are talking about me because they all turn and look at me at the same time. Individually all of the girls in this group are nice to me but when they are together they are horrible. Also, the one girl in particular is acting very "fake" around my boyfriend and when I'm with him she treats me completely different than what she would if I was alone. I have talked about it with my boyfriend and he is very understanding of everything and the way I feel but I still don't know what to think about it all. Even worse is that he was at a party they were at and all he girls were drunk and were hanging off him and the one girl was looking at him like she wanted to have sex with him (his words not mine). He hated the whole night and was texting me the whole time telling me how much he wanted to get away from them but he had no way of getting home until the time that he had arranged to be picked up from the party. We have a very open relationship with each other and are 100% honest which makes me feel a little bit better but I don't like the way they are treating me as if I have done something wrong when really I'm just with they guy they want. i really do like him and I afraid that it's going to get to the point where I'm just going to give in to the pressure and l don't want that to happen because I'm scared to lose him.
ps. I go to a small school and there really is no way of avoiding these girls
Sorry it's long I just really don't know how much longer I can take this. Advise please! (link)
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If you trust your boyfriend then it doesn\'t matter what these girls do or say. Maybe these girls are jealous of you as you have him. Be flattered by that and enjoy your relationship.
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What. Can. I. Do. If. I. Need. Some. One (link)
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Not sure who you need/want, if you want a partner then their are lots of dating sites to choose from.
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My boyfriend's best friend of several years is a female. She lives several states away and he rarely sees her anymore, but constantly "likes" her photos on Facebook and comments on her posts, etc. I know they talk and text a lot, too. I asked him once if they had ever dated, and he replied that they were like brother and sister.
I found some old photos of them on Facebook where they appear to be somewhat physically intimate. In fact, until I knew who she was, I assumed she was an ex girlfriend. He's giving her hugs, picking her up, giving her piggyback rides, etc.
I know that men and women can be platonic friends, but I don't go beyond hugging my close male friends (not as a rule, it just doesn't happen). She's an attractive girl, and I'm sure he sees that. I simply don't believe that he has no desire to be physically intimate with her given the photographs that I've seen. I've never met her but she's expressed desire to meet me soon. I have absolutely nothing against her, but I just want to know if my beliefs about their relationship are justified; and if so, what should I do about it?
Thank you :) (link)
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I have female friends and my girlfriend is fine with that because she trusts me, you should trust him and if you don\'t then your always going to think bad thoughts. The fact that she wants to meet you says to me that they are just good friends and she wants to involve you in their friendship. trust him!!!!
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18/f
I'm going to try and keep this simple because I know how boring it is reading through a long question.
I want to break up with my boyfriend. He's the sweetest most lovely guy, just I don't fancy him, he's already talking about marriage (we've been together 6 months) he's a bit immature-and I think I can do better.
Idk how to break up with him know because saying all this will break his heart and will come so unexpected. Also his parents love me which makes it harder.
I just want to have fun-you know?! Any advice would be appreciated :) (link)
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Anything you say will probably hurt him but as you think he\'s a lovely guy then I think he deserves the truth. Most times just saying \"im not ready for a serious relationship\" is the kindest way.
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