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My boyfriend's mother has become aggressive towards me and has falsely accused me of being the reason as to why he has been missing school but he has not missed a day of school since his Birthday and she doesn't want me around anymore... But I've been the one to help her since she has such a busy work schedule, I have been providing him with rides to and from work, and to and from school when he has missed the bus... But she's been trying to accuse me of making power moves but in reality I've asked for her permission every time I go to get him and she had acted like it was perfectly fine but wants to turn around and act as if I'm trying to act as his mother, which is why she had sent me a nasty text message saying "I'm his mother, I say what goes" but I haven't tried to disrespect her not once. Currently Will has made me stay with him at his house, and I'm not sure if I should just stay here and wait to see what the outcome is because he said he would stick up for me, or if I should flee before it's too late and she shows up... (link)
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You are being an excellent girlfriend for your boyfriend, and his mom has major issues in that she feels you are replacing her. She sounds like she has issues and needs to get over herself.
You should explain to her and sit down with her and discuss one on one, how do you feel about it (picking up your boyfriend) and why?
If she OKs you picking up your boyfriend then she should not patronize you for doing it. Bipolar a bit.
Please reply :D
Best of luck.
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Hey, I'm 15 and a freshman . Well, this guy (he's 20 and he graduated already) have been friends since last summer and him and I are somewhat really close. He's a really sweet guy, he is a Christian and he's never had sex before. He's helped me through when I got dumped, rejected, bullied, depressed, and we've just always been real good friends and never fight. Well, since Valentine's Day is coming up we already made plans to hang with our single friends, and yesterday he asked me if I would go out with him, and I keep saying I'll think about it, but I just don't know how I should respond even though I feel the same way as him. Like, we discussed age gap we had and he said 5 years isn't that huge and I kind of agreed. If him and I go out, I just would feel afraid I would get bullied for it , but I don't know. I want to say yes, but a part of me wants to say no. Advice please? (link)
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Mind the gap? If you want this boy a lot, then you wouldn't mind the bullying and you wouldn't mind the gap.
The difference between really liking him and having feelings for him is that you SHOULD NOT care what others tell you about your relationship (if you chose to be with him). If not, then you will remain friends and you will be sacrificing the chance to be with him romantically.
He obviously likes you and you obviously like him, depending on what state you are in or where you live, by law, it can be illegal because he is considered an adult and you are a child.
Be careful. Do respond.
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I love my bf a lot and he loves me to but I want to take our relationship further and make out with me....... Problum is he is shy and not that romantic me have only ever hugged before.
BTW I am 11 (bf is 2) And I'm a girl
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Your grammar is quite horrible.
Do not make out with your boyfriend. You are only 11 years old AND YOU ARE TOO YOUNG. Go play dress up and make some tea for your pet pony or something. Program an application and solve math problems.
What do your parents think about this?
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21/f, 28/m
Let me first say that I am the type of person who likes it when people fall through with what they say. I try to live up to my values, morals, and I try my best to be dependable, and I try my best to fall through with what I say. I don't ever cancel on someone unless I'm terribly sick. I would even show up late instead of not show up at all. So, this might be one of the reasons why this problem bothers me.
I've been dating this guy for almost a year. This sounds terrible for me to say, but when it comes to him falling through with what he says, I can turn him into a gambling game. There are times when he says that he'll show up to something, he'll call, etc. But then plans change and he cancels.
For example, a couple of days for Thanksgiving, I wanted him to go to the ranch for dinner, meet some of my family members, etc. He said that he will and that he was planning to... An hour before leaving, he cancels. For Thanksgiving, he actually does come over to my house and he got to know my parents and my sister. For Christmas, he finally did go to the ranch and met my other family members. There are many/multiple times where he does tell me that he will come and see me or he wants to see me, he doesn't fall through with it... Sometimes letting me know when it gets too late.
It gets to the point where I try to have low expectations and not expect him to come at all... I thought it would be better that if he did show up, then it would be a nice surprise instead of getting disappointed every time he doesn't fall through with what he says. And it's not that he doesn't have a valid reason to not show up or anything, I understand why he can't go or why he can't do something. It's just hard to not be at least a little bit disappointed because I was looking forward to it, preparing to see him, etc.
How can I stop getting disappointed when things don't go as planned or if he doesn't fall through with what he says? (link)
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By the looks of it, this depends on what valid reasons he has.
It sounds that he is invested in this relationship well, and if he has work or some other sort of important stuff, I believe that you need to understand that his reasons are completely valid.
A lot of this depends on his reasons.
Other things to consider include that he is scared to commit to you, and there are not enough details in your relationship to evaluate that.
Do not lower your expectations. Rather understand why he chooses not to show up, and why he decides to back out. Have you ever asked him why he specifically canceled? He can possibly be playing (cheating) on you, depending on how often you see him and what not. This is not too probable, so do not worry, but keep it in the back of your head.
There is also a lack of communication. Have you spoken about this to him directly?
It sounds odd, and you should speak to him about why he decides to cancel early.
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