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Me and my boyfriend broke up last week (Mon) because basically for the last two months he was having thoughts/feelings for my bestfriend and never told me. So we eneded it, yet i still have deep feelings as he does for me, but it wouldnt be right to take him back a second time. He states hes over her, but how can i be sure, he stopped communication with her for 2 months. Basically we werent really giving each other space, we were acting as if everything was normal. I asked him for space, and now i feel even more hurt and lonely than before, what do i do?
-Female, 15 (link)
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look I think that one of should make a move , so that things will move on so you have to decide if you really want to be with him and you love him and if he shares the same feeling toward you ,you need to make that move , because maybe he is missed up . So talk to him it doesnt have to be nessesary about what cause your break up , and try to act as normal as you can and then you would know if you are ment to be together
good luck with that :)
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ok. its been about 2 yrs that have lost my virginity with a guy which i thought would be mine. but it happens that he left me the next day without any reason. what have heard with freinds that he is a playboy...
now am in a relation and my new boyfriend really loves me. we are planning to leave together in the future and so far didnt have sex with him. i feel guilty now cause he still think am a virgin. am dead. plz tell me what to do ... is it true that there are some steps that can be taken to camouflage the fact that am no more one ? is it true that, it may happen that you do not bleed the first time you have sex? (link)
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hi , you may not bleed the first time you have sex ,but mostly you do . But wait , you said that he really loves you , and I dont think it would bother him as much as it might if you kept this away from him longer then that. because pranticly you didnt cheat on him , and you love him
just try you best
good luck
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i get weird when a guy wants to make out when people are around like at a house,park,or with friends around.I feel like their watching and judging me like i'm a bad person or something.When i see people make out around me it's awkward.Small pecks are fine,but making out around people is awkward for me.I feel like making out should be a private thing.So when a guy tries to kiss me,i like tense up and dont want to kiss,when i really do just not when people are around,am i weird in thinking that?? because i feel like the only one lol
thanks in advance! (link)
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I think you should be honest with your boy friend and tell him about this thing , and that it bothers you . And I bet he would respect that and stop doing it in public
good luck with that
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How Can I break if off with my boyfriend! I love but not that much, I am talking to another guy who is in love with me, and I am getting to him , Plz help me , I am stuck between 4 guys but 2 of them fight over me and u know the bloody nose and stuff and the one Im into is so sweet and boyish and my boyfriend dosnt like to fight what do I do???!!!??? My boyfriend said he'd die if I break up with him!! he even punched a huge! hole in his wall because we got in a fight, PLZ help me!!!!! (link)
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First of all , you should make them realize that you are not a property for them to fight over . Then , you need to get away from all of these and clear up your mind , and figure out what do you want , but I think that you dont like the second guy and what you really love is his love for you . And I would say that you should stay with your current boyfriend
try to work it out
good luck
bye
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15/f. a couple weeks ago, i had my first kiss. i hated it. me and the guy had been talking, he was dropping me off after our first date, and he hadnt even held my hand, and he totally just kissed me. full on tongue and everything. i was like wow, and i hated it. i don't have feelings for this guy anymore, but i'm worried about the future. i didn't like this kiss, and after contemplating this over and over, it's either, cause it was my first kiss and he wasn't my boyfriend, or that it didn't really have passion. anywho, i'm seriously worried that i won't like kissing guys in the future, because any time it seems as if a guy's about to make a move, i take a huge step back. not literally, but yeah. anywho, i have some seriously hot daydreams [including some hot makeout pressed against a wall] and some dreams... but they're all with one guy. i've crushed on him about a year, but i've tried to move on. ugh. idk. i'm just looking for help with my adolescene?! (link)
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first when a guy likes you , ofcoures kissing is important . A love relationship can be good without kissing but it cant even survive without love true , love . Dont take it the wrong way but think that you should change your view about life for example think less about a guy and more about other activities like sport or art ......
Unless he is your boyfriend already then you should give him more attention than other things.
You seem like a really
nice person let love
complete you not destroye
YOU !!!
good luck
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I'm from Texas and 13.I dated this guy i didn't really like i was just tryin to make someone else jealous....Now we are broke up but he can't get over me and all the guys i like still think i like him and i don't. How do i get them to know i am free and ready to date again without seeming to needy??? Thanks
-Love Sucks (link)
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I think that you need to make it so clear that you broke up , by flirting another guy without looking so needy or just say " hi " and smile at him and when ever he smils at you smile back at him that is if he likes you . And before you know it other guys would notice that you are free ,but remember try as hard as you can not to look too needy
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ok i need help i am getting married in june and now i think i like this other guy whom i met through my fiance i m all confused and dont know wat to do plz help (link)
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first postpone the wedding and try to be as honest as you can with both of them dont do any move without thinking well about the affect of it on your life . And dont get mixed up between being in love with some one ,and having a crush on him . And dont forget to make sure that the persone that you love , feels the same way about you . stay calm , and dont stress out .Remmember that every thing is up to you , its your life your choice , so make sure it well turn out to be the best for YOU !!!!
good luck
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alright so my friend is dating this guy name taylor that she loves but he is like a dick to her a lot but you know he loves her. they have been dating for about 5 months maybe. well my friend is really good friends with her ex and she has like a lot of feelings for him. she says she loves them equally but her ex treats her so much better than her boyfriend and she knows it. she knows she wants to be with taylor but she likes her ex a lot. taylor found out that his gurlfriend and her ex talk a lot and he got really depressed and cut himself. so im thinkin that if she broke up with him for austin he would prolly kill himself for reall. she loves them both so much but wants to be with taylor cause they have so much goin for them but she loves her ex. what should she do? (link)
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I think that she need to decide which one she prefer by geting away from both of them and the person that she misses first is the one she loves . If it turns out to be her ex tal with her boyfriend and straighten things up with him and if he really loves her , he wont stand in the way of her happiness
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14/f. My friend with benefits, Brandon, is telling me he loves me. Yet the reason why Brandon is a friend with benefits is because he has a gf. But it gets better! I figured out why he was telling me he loved me. He was telling me it so he could get into my pants. I was really pissed off at him after that. But Brandon is 16 and, as I said before, I am 14. But the question is, should I talk to him anymore? And am I just the girl on the side that whenever he isn't getting what he wants from his gf, he looks to me? I mean, I am a virgin and I am really afraid of losing my virginity, and Brandon knows this. So why does he keep on trying to take away from me? I am really confused, can someone help me? (link)
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first of all remmember a guy that deos so is a basterd . dont loose your virginity to aguy that you dont love or he doesnt love you . let him go dont you sleep with him that would ruin your entire life . wait for true love .
good luck
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just finished reading the noteebook
ohh im still crying from it!
my question is...
is true love like that just in books? i mean, im 14 & anyway im not looking for somthing thats going to heal desieses im just curious to know if true love with that much passion happens in real life. any stories/just your personal ideas would be fantastic thanks so much! (link)
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accaully true love is should not be the goal of any woman because I believe that any woman should be satisfied with her self without a man but ofcours men are important . so dont spend you life looking for true love not because it doesnt exist but because I am sure that u have a great personality and any man would be lucky to have as girlfriend and trust me because I ev been there no man deserves a woman tears , unless you really really really LOVE him!!!!!!!
good luck
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