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Hi and welcome. My name is Taylor, and i just want to let you know that if you don't want to anyone to know your question, i won't tell them. Well tell your friends about me. Thanx
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so my good friend jack is going out w/ my x-girlfriend and they are IN LOVE. well me and his gf Liz are still good friends and we always tell each other that we look good if we do. well yesturday @ my bday party i texted her saying she looked really good....cuz she did. well Jack read that text and now hes really mad @ me. but he knows thats how we are so i dont see why hes mad. someone help! please!

*text guy* (link)
Dear Text Guy,
I think that maybe Jack thought that you and his gf are doing something behind his back. or if they are really in love, maybe he doesn't want anything to happen. I mean you and her are over and he thought that you still have feelings for her. Try talking to him, or maybe get Liz (whatever her name is) to tell him that you two are just friends and that you say to each other that hey You look good.

Talktotay
Taylor S


ok im kinda in a bind here. there r these two guys that like me, and i have feelings for both of them. they both have qualities that i love and it seems like they are equal with positive and negative things. they both have these great qualities:
makes me laugh
football players
tall
tan
great personalities
just everything about them is perfect. how do i know how to choose the right one??

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All i can say is to follow your heart.


okay..well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 9 months now..and hes had a lot happen in his life lately (parents divorce and stuff)..but hes been takin' it out on me..and he'll promise me something and then break it saying he cant bc hes too upset..but he only says it when he doesnt feel like hanging out..and it really upsets me bc he lies a lot..should i break up with him or what?? i need HELP! (link)
No you are doing nothing wrong, these kind of things take time. When he is good and ready he will talk, but until then hang in there. And right now he needs a gf, so whatever you do, DO NOT BRAKE UP! maybe say ________ (his name) can we talk and if he says nothing, say i am here to help, still nothing, I love you and i want to be there for you. You know you can tell me anything, asnd i can help, and if nothing, tell him maybe about this website and say talktotay. and masybe he will talk.


i really want a bf does ne 1 have ne advice on how i can get 1 (link)
Just be Yourself


But he doesnt even know who his dad is. He just turned 2 last monday and last month when my fiance went to go pick him up to put him in the car he started crying for me.. (link)
ok well then there is a problem. I think that maybe you should take him and his dad out for dinner and get them to know eachother. And maybe talk to ur bf, cuz he has a kid, and the kid don't know him! that is sad.


Hey my name is Kelly and i have a boy friend that isnt really there all the time hes always out with his friends and this girl named chris. But he says chris has a boy friend but i dont know if i shopuld beleive him or not because hes always hangin on her a nd stuff. I have cried sometimes because hes never there for our kid and on my sons b day he wasnt even there. Should i dump him? he has proposed to me but i dont know what to do know more. Hes real sweet and everything but he just doesnt spend any time with me no more. Please help! (link)
I think that you should trust him for your kid. I mean, are making this kid never sees his dad. I think that at least let him know he has a dad by getting married, and work your problems from there.


OK um so there is this girl i lyk nd she just graduated in mi skool..there is an age difference...lyk a year lol..so i lyk her but i already ahv a girlfrned nd she's a lil more mature than me i guess ...nd so i just had a realy confusing dream that we went out..so wut should i do?? (link)
Well i think that if will be happier with the non gf, hen go out with her. Maybe just maybe (i am not saying do this) But maybe when ur gf is away, ask her out, and t ry to remember u and ur gf's first date, and find out which one is better. Loook for the following
1) which one is the funniest
2) who is more comfortable around you
3) Ask questions that you want to know and look for good good answers.
I am not say to do this, but it is a idea, and advice which is what your looking for right? this isn't so dr answer.
Thanx for reading,
Taylor
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