Hey Everybody my name is Kendall Dean Szczepanski. I am very tall for my age, about 5"7 and I have blonde hair and blue eyes. I am currently single and I live in Virginia. I go to Hickory Middle School. I love my best friends Danielle Ruble & Kendall LaPoint! Ask me any question and I will answer it. I won't turn anybody down!
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i love him so much, what do i do? (link)
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Love who so much? If you really love him, tell him.
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MY boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year, but for the last couple months we've been going out in secret while he rebuilds the friendships he lost. Innocent right? Not really.
Now, all he does is joke around about liking these other girls and then will be like "jk, i love you". He hurts me all the time. His myspace doesnt have one mention of me, his 'girlfriend' and 'best friend' but at least 5 things for this other girl. He wrote this poem to my other friend and now he's entering into a contest. He's always in a bad mood around me but act likes the perfect guy around everyone else. I understand he's trying to get his friends back, but I really want to be treated like I mean something to him. Online, he hardly talks to me! Sometimes 10 minutes will elapse before he'll say "ok" or "cool". I don't know what to do! The only time he acts like a real boyfriend is when we're hanging out just the two of us. He always sends me parts of conversations with other girls that I don't want to see and I tell him not to send it but he does anyways.
Am i just overreacting, or reading too much into it? I'm pretty sure he loves me, but all his 'jokes' about liking other girls is starting to make me question our relationship. I feel forgotten and talking to him about it makes everything worse. He just says I complain too much or im 'abusive'. I love him so much and I'm so confused! All the stuff he used to do to me he does for other people while i just stand on the sidelines being jealous.
Help!!
Reading this over i sound ridiculous but I'm really hurt and this whole this is both emotionally and physically draining. (link)
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Your boyfriend is being a jerk. That sounds mean, I'm sorry! When he talks to you tell him all about the guys that you like and who was flirting with you that day. Don't IM him unless he IMs you, and when he acts nice and good when you two are alone, don't be that way back. It will show him that he doesn't deserve you!
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How do I ask this guy that I really like who I talk to a lot in school to hang out? I think he suspects that I like him a little but I just want to hang out with him. (link)
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You can ask him to hang out, and if he trys to make a move on you then just say, "I think we should just be friends"
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f/17 ok so theres this guy and i like him so much i had not seen him a whole year because we moved schools and in january i saw him again! He asked me to go to his house so i went nothing happened we only kissed. But only this time the kissing was better than when we went out before and i know there was a conection.i asked him so are we back together hes like yes. The problem comes now... Afterwards there was a little contact on msn but he never phones me he never has i think its because ive always phoned him.Well i then got the flu and was really ill so we never spoke for ages and now i hear hes really ill someone said urber? ill i don't know if that means super ill but i sent him messages when i found out and hes not answered me hes not text me, hes not emailed me back, hes not even picked up his phone well he came on msn the other day and i was like hello u have had me worried are u ok and i said can you text me to let me know you are ok and ive heard nothing hes been of school a week but i don't go his school anymore so i don't know its from a friend i heard hes not well.Now my question is what shall i do??? also i think i like him more than he likes me although he says he loves me and that he will do anything for me and he has stood naked in frount of me once but we never had sex! i don't think he wants it and im still a virgin at 17 is it wrong?someone help me please i will rate you high for any answers that help.thank you in advance. (link)
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He's probably sick. If he is he just probably doesn't feel like talking, and just wants to be alone. Give him time, he'll come around.
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Okay so, my boyfriend calls me everynight and half the time I dread his calls. DONT GET ME WRONG; I really really like him, but I Hate the phone. Like he's kinda shy so theres always that ackward silence and idk I've never liked talking on the phone. I always feel guilty cause I always make some excuse to hang up to end the ackwardness and since I hate talking on the phone. He doesn't have AIM so we can't talk on that .. soo what do I do? (link)
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I had the EXACT same problem with my ex-boyfriend, Jack. He was always so quiet on the phone and he called me every hour and it was very annoying. In the end, I broke up with him, but that does not mean that you have to break up with yours. Simply tell him that you don't like talking on the phone, and can you go to the mall or movies with him instead.
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Hello,
I am a 14 year old guy...
...I realized I liked my best friend for the 3rd time around Valentine's Day. So, I told her that I liked her, and she said, "No offense, but you need to get over me,". Well, since then, we've barely said a word to each other. My friends have been trying to get her to say something to me, so she did after I gave her a birthday card. I asked her to talk about what had been going on between us, and she said, and I quote,
"Not to be a beyotch, but I just don't feel like talking to you. I don't think we have the connection we used to have,"
After that, I was so upset. I didn't know what do to... I'm still upset, as she now has a boyfriend who is a complete jerk to me. What should I do??? (link)
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Aww that really bites. Your girl friend is making the wrong choice with going with that other jerk becuase you sound sweet =) Talk to her and her boyfriend at the same time, but don't try to pick any fights with them or else it would turn into an even worse disaster. If you have liked her before, maybe it IS time to move on.
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how can u tell that a guy likes you but dosnt wanna show it because hes ambaressed or something? (link)
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A guy could like you if he gives you shy glances, flirts a lot, or trys to talk to you. If he is angry at you he might be mean to you and pick on you. Even though that IS a little 2nd gradeish, boys still do it =)
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I have liked a boy in my maths set for ages, but he doesnt even know I am alive. Me and a good mate joke around he calls me his little goth even though I am not one...this boy aloneg with some of the others in the class have started calling me thier little baby goth as well...at first I thought he realised how I felt by the sweet way he acts with me but he doesnt. He just says hey baby G and leaves me alone. My friend asked me if I wanted to go shopping with him tomorrow and that the guy I liked was going to be there...I havent answered yet, should I go and get to know him better or go like him even more and face rejection? (I know he likes someone else) PLEASE HELP I AM SO STUCK!!! (link)
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I think that you should go shopping. If you don't make a move or at least get to know him more then him just calling you "My Baby G" If you and him flirt when you go shopping, that might cahnge his mind about liking the other girl.
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i've just broken up with my boyfriend of nearly four years. it's been four days since we've last spoken, and i know i shouldn't feel this way, but i feel terrible.
i've tried going out with friends, making myself productive, and yet i still can't get him off my mind.
any tips? (link)
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If you feel so lonely, why did you dump him? Just because it had been four years and wanted to find somebody new? If you did that, I think that you should ask him out again.
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