ok..to start off with..i love ur profile....ne ways... well i've been going out with this guy for almost 3 month but latly he's been acting weird and i dont no why. it makes me think that i want to break up with him. i have no clue wat to do b/c he's the sweetest most awesome guy i've ever met. o and also...my best friend just broke up with her b/f so if i do break up with him then ppl might think i just did it b/c she did it and that's not true. my qusetion is...should i break up with him and if so, how should i do it? also please dont say that i should " use my mouth" and talk to him b/c i dont think it'll help. thanks in advance
thnxs~well babe that is the only thing you can do is talk to him or have me talk to him for you from my point of view and tell him what i think! i definetly dont think that is fair for you to have to go through what i did so if u do feel the need to break up with him then i would say to do it! He is a very sweet guy but if you do break up with him then make sure you know the little clues on why he is acting weird before you just break up with him! i dont think ppl will think that you copied your friend at all because this thing happens alot! i hope everything works out! mucho love ~i loooooooooooooooooooooove you!~sami
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I love your advice column ok well first of all my bf and me one a trip to florida and we are talking 2 of r friends karen and kyle!(code names)! it is suppose to be fun but how suld we suprise them by telling then?
lol just make them wait and tell them at skool or sumethin! lol
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Hey sam first of all you have no clue who i am but my name is kathy! ok here i go well i am 14 and my bf and me have been together for almost a year and we have decieded to get married because we love eachother soooooo much! do ut hink i shud?
hey Kathy! thnxs so much gurl!ok well to tell you the truth lots of people would say no not to get married and i being one of those ppl would seriously suggest that u dont, but if you want to then there is no one getting in your way! hope i helped! good luck!
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Hey Sam...ok, I have a boyfriend that I like alot but I also still like my ex boyfriend. He likes me too and we give each other hugs and talk all the time. He also doesn't know I have a boyfriend. I have no clue what I should do. You know me, I hang out with you. But anyways, what should I do?!?!? Help me Sami!
hey! ok well i think that you should follow your heart! i mean who do u like more, because it isint fair for you to like both of them! I definetly think you should tell your ex boyfriend also! i hope i helped babe! tell me how it all goes!
sami
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I just recently got my first kiss from my boyfriend. He really likes to use tongue. Now, I have no idea how to use tongue when kissing. Can someone describe to me how I would go about doing this?
hey ok well the first Question is do you like using tounge? if not then tell him you dont! im sure he will understand! if you want to use your tounge then use it! to tell u the truth there is not right or wrong way for using your tounge! well hope i helped! let me know hoe everything goes!
p.s- if u need more help go to www.myjellybean.com (french kissing)
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hey sami, i love the advice u give! well i have a problem, ok well my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 monthes and we havent even held hands yet! should i be worried? i really wanna hold his hand!what should i do?????
hey thnxs! i like my advice to! haha im jk! anywayz i dont think u should be worried at all! everyone loves holding hands so thats probley not the reason! he probley just isint the "tochey" type! i dunno, if it really bothers u then talk to him about it!
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im 13/m...All of my friends say that i always flirt with this girl. she used to like me A LOT and then when i started going out with my g/f about 8 months ago, she like started yelling at me and we didnt talk. But now, we are friends again and we talk, but whenever we do, EVERYONE says that we flirt, nonstop. i try not to, but i just cant help it, i love my girlfriend and i mean that. what should i do pls help me......
PS.... how do you flirt? i barely know what that means
well STOP FLIRTING! lol im just kidding! some people just have that flirty personality (like me). there really isint a definition for flirting that i can explain! so look it up or something! oh ans somethings ppl do when they "flirt" smile at eachother laugh nonstop get touchey, i dunno! lol!
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what do i do if i think my boyfriend is lying to me? PLEASE HELP ~Emma~
dump him! thats what i would do! your bf should not be lying to you! thats not cool! hope all goes well!
p.s- before u dump him try and talk to him first!
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when ever i have a boyfriend they always think im cheating on them because i flirt so much but thats just what i do and i dont know how to not flirt as much
lol! i have a very flirty personality to and the sam eproblem has happened to me! asure your bf at the begginging of the relationship that you wont cheat on him!hope i helped! good luck!
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Well I've been going out with this guy for a month and we hardly ever talk but all we have done is hugged! Is that really bad or what?
heck yes! it is bad that u dont really talk! but about the hug thing, dont worry about it! maybe he isint the kinda guy that likes a "cudlly" relationship! hope i helped! good luck
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Ok me and my BF just broke up and now I really like him..or do I am not sure what the hek my true fellings for him are....do I like Him or not..I dont know, someone please help me!
try adn forget him and i know that may be hard but maybe it wasent meant to be!
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ohkay.. a few days ago i asked a question about how would a guy like a girl to make the first move as far as making out. can anyone give me a detailed answer on a good SPECIFIC way to make a first move as far as making out?
if your at a movie, look over at him acouple of times and if you see him look back at you then deffently go for it! then after that scoot closer to him and put your hand either in his or up near his leg. then turn towards him and kiss him, if he kisses you back then start makeing out! hehe good luck and have fun!
p.s- definetly cudle!oh and tell me how it goes! good luck!
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I haven't done that yet but I do have something to lose...my friend. He'll get mad again I know it but...oh well...I don't know...
thats true i have been in that situtation babe! oh and let me tell u it suxs! maybe u should just wait for alittle bit! just flirt with him and be good friends ( do stuff together)! then when the time is right tell him! tell me how it goes! good luck!
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Ok, I REALLY like this guy at school but I have a boyfriend AND the guy I like is my best friend. I've tried telling him but he just seems to get mad. I've also tried not to like him anymore but that just makes me want him more. What should I do?
thats weird that he gets mad! i would try writting a note and tell him not to read it untilafter school and then call u! do u think he likes you? he might be nervous! anywayz what do you have to loose when you tell him? go for it girl! let me know how it went! hope i helped!
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do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all?
yea some guyz would rather have the girls ask! it doesent just have to be the guyz ask! that gets boring sometimes for them, so they try and spice things up with like a turnover dance type thing! go for it girl! good luck!
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My ex and I never talk anymore but when we did, he used to IM me with "meow" (don't ask). I was the only one he did that to because we had this thing about how I hate cats. But anyway, right now his away message says "meow". Do you think it means anything?
He probably still has feelings for you and that is why he put "meow" as his away message. He probably put it in to give you a hint to start talking to him. So go for it, start talking again. Maybe that spark that died on New Years will come back again.
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Do boys like secret admirers???? my school is doing this this thing where u can give either chocolate or a flower to someone, and i dont know if i should do it.
Do it girl, you only live once. He'll probably be really touched if he got chocolates or flowers from a girl. I'd stick with the chocolate. Guys and food, you can never go wrong.
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its kinda hard to think of him not my tru friend because hes been there for me but ever since high school hit, me and him have found different interest and groups.. he always uses the "you've changed" thing to me but i dont think hes noticed that hes also changed .. its hard
Well, your both going to have to understand that people change. Nothing can stop that, everyone changes, even if its for the worse. Lots of friends when they hit high school become distance and kind of do their own thing. They start doing new things and hanging out with new people. If your really true friends like you say, everything will come back together and you'll find a way into eachothers lifes again. Try talking to him about both of you guys changing and see what you can do to make it work. If your friendships strong, I'm sure it'll stay that way. You just need a good heart-to-heart talk with him
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my friend has a crash on a boy at school after alot of time the boy had the guts to ask her out to a valentines dance but because of her parents she couln't go! now she is sad that she couldn't go and she really wanted to go!she's asking me all these question what should i tell her that its okay or not give my some advice plz!
You have to be there and give her good advice. Let everything flow from the heart. Since her parents didn't let her go, it's not her fault. And if this boy really likes her, there's going to be other times that they can do something. Tell her not to worry. If it's meant to be, everything will fall into place. Keep being a good friend and always listen and try to help her get over this.
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13/f
today i just found out that the guy i really like and i asked out... well i found out why he said no. my friend told me his mom said he wasnt allowed to have a g/f, and this really sux because i like him so much. is there anything that i can do? or do i have to wait...
There's nothing you or him can do about it if his mother said no. You'll have to wait till he's old enough to have a girlfriend. He probably wants one just as much as you want a boyfriend. I guess the only thing you'll be able to do is wait, but don't wait forever. If you like someone else, go for him
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