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well i want u to know that i told my mom about john on thursday after school. i knew she had to pick up my brother so i told i had to tell her something important when she came back and she asked me if it was good or bad...and i said good.

My mom just said that i better be careful with him since it's considered rape. But other than that my mom was ok with it. But my dad on the other hand was kinda like he better not hurt u or anything so basically my dad is being very protective of me right now. So my parents are happy for me and arent forbidding me to not see him. so i figured id let u know what happened since gave me advice.


thanx much!!!

Crystal

thats qood im qlad it all went ok =) qood luck with him hun

your very welcome xo
KaTiE

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Hi!
ok, so i've liked this guy for over a year. he's a grade older than me.we're not friends or anything...just like one of those *loving him from afar* things. (I'm like best friends with his neighbor tho) he knows i like him and i know he doesnt like me, but i cant help but still like him... one of my friends told him hi for me(i really didnt tell them to but it was ok)and he said "oh no not her again". what do you think i should do? i cant stop liking him...i think about him all of the time!
hope you can help!

if i were you i would start talken to this kid who knows maybe he will start to fall for you too.. if he doesnt then find someone else theres plenty of quys out there who knows this miqht not be the quy for you for riqht now =) qood luck

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well i have this prob with the boy im goin oout with ...we've beem goin out for about 5 days now..or more...but the thing is that he never calls me and ..he always has me callin him...im not afard to ask him why its just i dont know how .....so plz help me

maybe hes afraid to call your house bcuz your parents or sister//brother miqht answer and he doesnt wanna be like '`is _____ there'` lol or maybe he doesnt know how to start a conversation - who knows talk to him about it ..

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I met this guy that my friend j and her fiance r wanted me to met. so i was ok it couldn't hurt so i ended meeting him september 19th. He's 21 and i'm 17. so we all ended up going bowling. I talked i him a little bit.
that next week we all went to roger's house to watch movies. J and i ended up getting there by 7pm and we did our homework until 8-8:30pm. We finally started watching movies at about 8:30-9pm. We watched star wars. John(the guy i met) started explaining the movie(s) of star wars since i had never seen any of them before. Which was very sweet of him to do? anyway i didn't get home until almost midnight. This time i got to actually talk to john more and flirt with him cuz i was much more comfortable with him. Do u think we're dating, seeing each other, or being friends? What do u think about the age difference(17 and 21)? should i tell my parents about him (i haven't told them anything yet!)? how do u think the relationships going? should i tell my parent's about john even though we're not dating or seeing each other just friends? Because john and i have seen each other twice now and so should i tell my parent about him let me know? if john ever became my boyfriend in the future he was be my first boyfriend ever? should i still let them know about us?

today also jeni was telling me that john really needs some help and i was like me 2; but j's like he doesn't have anybody. and later on i was feeling so stressed out i was like i really need him; but it seems like he needs someone too. so help me out here. she also think that we would make a great couple. I actually trust him a lot more cuz my friend set me up with him.

also john didn't start dating until he was out of high school


wow this seems really complicated .. but ima do myh best to help you out with it - i think you need to spend a little bit more time with him before you make the decision to start seeinq him exclusively .. i think that riqht now you and him are just beinq friends - to me aqe doesnt really matter talk to him about that one .. i wouldnt worry to much about it its not that biq of an aqe difference id be worried if he was like 25 and you were like 15 lol .. i dnt think your parents need to know about him myh parents still dnt noe about half of myh boyfriends its up to you if you want to tell them or not .. qood luck with this hunn nd if you need anymore help drop one in myh box =)

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what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them?

the difference is that when your seeinq someone you havent made the decision to be with that person exclusively that means you can qo on dates with other people nd it wouldnt be cheatinq nd beinq someones boyfriend//qirlfriend would mean that you are with that person only =) hope i helped

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Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody...

hookinq up can be like qoen out with a boyy .. or it could mean havinq sex

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so me n my bf broke up cuz i was grounded for like a month n he was sick of not bein able to c me. so anyway we r still friends and he invited me to his house this weekend. the problem is...everytime even now when he invites me somewhere i cant go cuz one time wen we were goen out i did something with him .. if uk what i mean .. and my mom found out. we had this whole fight about trust. so ne way i want to prove to him i can hang out so maybe well be bf n gf again but im afraid shell so no..which she prob will. HELPPPP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!

if i were you id tell her i was qoen to a friends house nd have myh friend cover for me .. ive done it before nd it worked try it nd see what happens..

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im 13 and never had a boyfriend. How old were you when you got your first boyfriend??

.. i was in 1st qrade but i dnt think that really counts lol - dont qet into a relationship if your not ready for one nd if you are pursue someone nd if they like you back then there ya qoo =)

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Theres this guy i met at his friends house and i really like him alot and he likes me too and we go everywhere together and he tells all my friends and his friends he is going to ask me out because he really likes me alot. but now it seems like he doesnt care at all after last night because i went to the movies with him and some friends and now it seems like he is totally intrested in my friend but i really dont want to move on because i really really love this guy. but i dont know if hes into me. and i dont think i can talk to him about it because i dont know if hed understand. what should i do? i dont want to lose him ive worked too hard

just hang out with him and do evrything you usually do. and when your comfortable talk about it thats the only thing you really can do to find out what hes feeling. you could also have a friend of his or yours talk to him for you. if i was you i wouldnt give up on him just yet. good luck - rate me =)

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what if we are at like a club or party what do i have to say.... CAN YU GIMME HEAD NOW or what should i say

lmao! no dont sey that just be like hmm.. so wen are we gonna do what we planned or something like that haha - good luck =)

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umm hi well this girl said something that really got me turned on...online....she said she was gonna gimme head but i think that shes lying what should i do........

ask her face to face or over the phone. i doubt that someone would lie about that kinda thing. if she is then thats really dumb. if shes not then have a fucken blast lmao good luck =)

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hey im 13/f and me n my boyfriend have been going out for almost two months and right now hes away on vacation but a few days ago my mom saw the hickey that was on my neck and now yesterday morning she said she doesnt want me to see him anymore..i cried all morning and the afternoon and then i wrote her a note explainin why i think she should let me stay with him..she didnt write back so should i just keep going out with him anyway or break up with him?

if i were you i would stay with him and just not let my mom know - try it and if she finds out just tell her that you really like him and want to be with him - i mean a hickey isnt the worst thing that could happen.. good luck =) rate me please

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ok i like this boy right and i think he knows too cuz his friends know but like we always ignore that fact and for like almost the whole school year i thought he liked me too cuz he used to like flirt wit me callme and want to hang out and stuff but then he goes out with my friend out of no where and now i still like him and he broke up with my friend and is startin to flirt and stuff wit me again but i dont know what to do..should i just ask him if he likes me or tell him how i feel..the only thing is im scared to talk to him about this cuz he might tell his friends or reject me...what should i do??????

- p.s. im 16 female -

it sounds like he used you to get to your friend. you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. if you dont want his friends to know tell him that you want to have a talk in private and that you dont want people knowing about it .. good luck - rate me =)

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ive liked this guy for a while now but im not sure if he likes me weve talked a few times but he doesnt rele show any emotions. i dont want to just move on. please help

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just a girl

if i were you - id talk to him about it and tell him how i felt. you never know he might like you but he might not be telling you cause hes afraid you might reject him .. it happens alot =) good luck - rate me please

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i like this guy and he gave me his phone number. but i am too nervous to call him cause i LIKE HIM ALOT! now my friend and i were looking at the number and now we both think that this number is a fake. it just doesnt look like a home phone number or even a cell. and this guy is the kind to play pranks on everyone. u see he wrote this in everyones year book. and i think it isnt a real number. so should we call it? or just leave it alone. it is really bothering us. it racks our brains. !!!
thxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

i would call it.. if its him great if its not hes an asshole for giving you a fake number =) .. rate me

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hi im 15 and a lesbian i need advice on how to pick up girls i have no clue what to do i just found out that i rele wanted to be a lesbo, it was after i had real feelings for myh cousin *jenna* i leaned in to kiss her and to my suprise we were making out and went a little further but i cant date my cousin any tips? i rate

well.. i dont think i can be of much help to you im sorry but i can tell you that kissing your cousin is wrong and i dont think you should do that again i wish i could be of more help but like .. im not a lesbian im so sorry

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me and my bf have been goin out for 4 months and like ive kissed him numerous just on the cheek cuz im afraid if i kiss him on the lips he wont kiss me back and ive talked to him about it and he says he doesnt know why he told me he loves me-and i really think he means it and doesnt kiss me...he just doesnt...and hes kissed all his other gf....and i really REALLY do love him- *I RATE*

i think that maybe you need to leave him if hes that mean to you whats the point of staying with him? .. rate me

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i still like my ex boyfriend..how can i get over him and move on?

think of all the bad things about him. if he hert you in any way then think about that eventually youll be like '` i dont even know why i liked the fucken kid '` good luck with this and rAtE mEe PlEaSe =)

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ok say ur boyfriend hasnt called u n like 3 months
what do u do?

break up with that mother fucker lmao

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okay theres this guy - ill call him dan - i met him at a party nd we were all over each other nd flirting the whole day. i talk to him online alot nd we're planning to meet up with some friends .. one problem is .. that randomly in his profile it says "

hmm.. this is a hard question but ima do myh best to help =) i would confront him about it. ask him who she is and tell him that you like him and ask if he really does like you. if he says he does like you then ask him why shes in his profile.

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