I hate answering guy questions on here, but I'm stuck. I was wondering if anyone else has been in this situation before too?
There's this guy, Ben. We've been friends for years but recently started hanging out. Whenever we watch a movie, he'll put his arms around me, hold my hand, rub my side, or I'll fall asleep curled up in his lap. As soon as the movie is over, so is the romance. I thought maybe he liked me, but when I talked to him about it, it scared him off and we didn't talk for weeks. He came over tonight, and once again the movie thing happened. His friends are there, my friends are there. Everyone's seen it, but no one is able to tell me- is this guy into me or is this some sort of movie relationship?
Their is definitley something going on between you too and I believe it goes further than just movies. While he's watching movies with you this is his confidence at a high. Ask him once more about this but while watching the movie. Use a low seductive tone so he's not intimidated. Be brave. Maybe even try for a kiss. It seems to me if you want this to go anywhere you have to take control.
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that makes sense, but its been a month, and things have started to cool down like you said. but, now, i actually think he (eric) likes me. it might sound weird, but its true. he looks at me all the time, and stuff. but i dont know how to find out. what should i do now?
Hi and thanks for asking me directly!
Well I think you should first at least start trying to hang out with him. Plan a trip with him and let's say 3 other friends to go to the movies or something else like that. Try to really get to know him and hang out with him at this event. Then ask him to hang out one on one but try to make it seem like just friend's not a date. if you feel like you like he likes you ask him if he does and he'll probley tell you he feels the same way!
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he called me by my friend's name 3 times yesterday at school. He had been flirting with my friend before this, a lot. both of them had. He is thinks leona lewis is fine and hott, and he told my friend, infront of my face, that she looked like leona lewis. It was the most uncomfortable thing ever because he is obsessed with leona. We don't hang out accept school because he can't hang with girls until he's 16. I'm so sick of him. Are these reasons good enough to dump him?
If you honestly don't feel like you like him anymore, then you should. There's not a single hint of doubt in your statement that you shouldn't breakup with him. If you feel like he's a pig and not good enough for you then do it.
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k, i asked out this beautiful guy at my school and he first said "i dont know" 2 weeks later, i asked him again, and he said "i dont know, maybe" finally, another 2-3 weeks later, i asked him and he said "no" i told him i was sorry for bugging him and all, and then he told all of his friends about it, and now they call me a stalker. on the other hand, there is this other guy that i hate, and he tells everybody that i like him, and i dont. while he is calling me disgusting, one of his friends is telling everyone that i asked out the guy in the beginning, and they all tease me about it.
about the beautiful guy, he is confusing me! he said that he hated me, but if he hated me, then why would he say "maybe" when i asked him out, and why does he ALWAYS talk to me on the bus, and in the hallway? i found out that he likes a girl named julie, and i told her, and she said that he is ugly and that she hated him. im really good friends with his sister, and i know for sure that he likes julie. what should i do? i like the guy, (eric) and he likes julie (she hates him) another guy (mike) says that i like him (i dont) and everyone else teases me cuz i like the beautiful guy (eric) -what the heck am i supposed to do? should i ignore him? try to talk to him? love him? hate him? HELP!!
Alright I believe he said maybe because he didn't want to come right out and say no. He probley didn't want to hurt your feelings. He [probley than said he hated you to act cool in front of his friends. Trust me im good friends with lots of guys and they do that sorta crap all the time. And the guy who said that about you liking him probley likes you. I know it sounds really 3rd grade but it's probley right. I think right now about the whole eric thing you just need to back off for awhile. Wait about 2 weeks and then start tlking to him again. By then thing's will probley cool down with the whole teasing and then you can try to take it SLOW.
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15/f
So Im going out with this kid, hes awesome, and I know im ready to kiss him, and I want to make out with him but im afraid I wont know how to do it, Ive never made out with anyone before, and im kinda scared, he plans on making out on Thursday which is 3 days from now and I dont know how to get over this.
alright it can be very scary your first time! don't worry though. it really does come naturally. the only thing i can say is remember to breath through your nose, slightly start closing your eyes when your leaning over and fully close them when your lips are touching, and try not to stick your entire tounge in his mouth. the rest will just come to you!
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hi, i am a virgen , and my boyfriend wants to have anal sex, if he cums in my ass can i get pregnant?
You can;t but it's extremaley uncomfortable. Like it kills. Trust me.
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we cheat? why do people cheat? is their any way to jusify cheating? i just want the people on advicenator and their imput on cheating. not just cheating is wrong and thats that. :) think more about it. thank you.
With younger people like teens most of the time it's because they're other gf/bf won't do the what they might want to do with them. Ex: sex
Older People: Ex: Married. It occurs alot during an mid life crisis. They feel that they need to be more than what they already are. They want what they can't have. They find it exciting.
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ok i just got off myspace and saw this guy who use to like me ALOT and me alittle him i saw him with his girlfriendf i guess i shouldnt feel bad or sad because i didnt like him that much but it hurt me to see a pic of his new girl should i feel this way i'm confused the only reason i stop talkin to him because we kissed and i didnt feel anything why do u think i feel this way
Yeah that happens alot. I think if you didn't fell anything when you kissed though it wasn't meant to be. Just remember there are plenty more guys out there. What your feeling is just leftover feeling from then. But remember this is now! Flirt with a few more guys and you'll forget all about it!
~~~~~~TeEnTrOuBlEsArEmE~~~~~~
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on saturday, i got to hang out with my boyfriend for the day. i haven't seen him in 4 months. when we first started out our relationship, i promised myself i wouldn't get in over my head, and i wouldn't get too attached. i have had boyfriends like him, where they tell me that they are a player, and don't want me to get hurt. i usually ignore it. tell them to not get too attached.
but when i saw him yesterday, the way he held me, the way he pressed his nose to mine, and the way he carefully held my tiny hand in his giant one, made me fall for him. way too deep.
later on, when i got home and he got to his, i was emailing him. i noticed he was giving me one word answers, so i asked him what was wrong. he was honest, and straight to the point, and he said "i like someone else..."
when he said that, my heart dropped. i called him to ask what had happened between when i saw him just a couple of hours ago, and then, he said that he liked her FOR A WEEK.
this has happened to me multiple times before. i don't usually react. i don't usually care. but this time, i was screaming at him, saying sorry to him, crying, throwing up, begging him not to go, wanting him to die, wondering what i did wrong, and i literally lost it last night. my whole world felt like it was crashing down, over something stupid. and i knew it was stupid then. luckily all of my friends helped, and i stopped crying and talked to him again, and this time, he didn't even want to be my friend. because he was "trying to rid [himself] from all temptations"
thats when i got MAD at him.
if he doesn't like me like that anymore, why the fuck am i a temptation?
i just want to be his friend. he was and still is one of my best friends. i just feel so confused. so lost. so alone. so cold. so heartbroken.
help?
(other than "he's a dick!" "there's other fish in the sea". give me REAL advice.)
aww honey i feel so bad for you. It looks to me like this is your first guy you have really felt something for. Well I'm trying not to say there are other fish in the sea but it's hard not to! I think you need to follow the 5 steps to handeling a break-up. I really hope this helps!
1. Mope. -Go ahead eat chocolate, watch sad movies, and cry all you want. You deserve to do whatever you want.
2. Stalk him- If your not already doing it look repeatedly at his myspace and stare at him in class.
3. Clean-up- Throw out everything that reminds you of him. Pictures, texts, emails, EVERYTHING
4. Flirt- Look at the cute guy sitting next to you. Your single and on the prowl! Go party without having to worry about other guys!
5. Be happy and love yourself-self-explanatory
~~~~~~TeEnTrOuBlEsArEmE~~~~~~
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okay so at a party a guy tried to hook up with me....(just makeout not like actual sex or itd be rape) he basically forced me up against a wall and i couldnt get out of it...my boyfriend of 3 months walked in and he had to saddest look on his face that ive ever seen and he just walked out the door when i tried begging him to come back. my boyfriends friends with a few of my friends and they said that he was so heartbroken and i feel like shit because i feel like i wasnt cheating on him, even though it looked that way. i like him sooo much and i would never wanna lose him but i think i did =( my friends say he said he doesnt wanna talk cause hes too upset...what should i do? =(((
16/f
Well this guy seems like he truly cares about you. Buy him his favorite candy and write him song saying how sorry you are and try to explain what happened. It may seem corny but I think I guy like that will think it's cute
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There's this boy that I've been crushing on since my freshman year. I'm a junior now and he's a senior. I feel like he likes me but I'm not sure. And I want to know if he does before he graduates, and if he does like me, I want something to happen. I want to tell him that I like him but not really tell him? Like I don't want to bluntly state, hey, I like you. We're both in IB, we have no classes together, and we're both busy almost everyday.
Also, if he says no to anything (No, I don't want to hang out, No I can't hang out, No I don't like you, etc.) what should I say? How should I act?
Thanks!
16.f
This is what you should say to him: Look a couple of people have been telling me that you like me. Is that true? If he says: Why? Do you like me? Say yes! It means he likes you to almost 99.9% of the time. If he tells you no to your face just say good i didn't want things to be weird between us. It will hurt but it will also save embarresment
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