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I am currently torn between liking two guys...

One is my best friend. I have known him forever. We have tried dating before, but it just hasn't worked out... we're still best friends and all, but we do go on dates... Whenever we're together, people just assume we're dating.. He's really sweet, and is all boy-next-doorish. He does stuff like this... we went to see a play together, and it was cold, so he let me wear his jacket, then walked me home..

The other guy looks perfect for me, and is actually my cousin's best friend. Both of us have brown hair, and brown eyes and I come up to his shoulder (if any of this matters..) we're apparently "The cutest couple ever" according to some old ladies in the park... He's outgoing and is more rebellish though.. Like.. he stole me chocolate from a vending machine, then because I was tired, he picked me up and brought me back to the picnic ground (family reunion.. he was there with my cousin.. my cousin is a guy, by the way.) Sorry it was so long... (link)
Listen to your heart. You can't rely on 8000 advice people to tell you who to date when the real judge is your heart. It will tell you where to go from here, and whatever is supposed to happen will happen. Everything happens for a reason. It might seem a little rocky right now, and might be a little difficult for a while, but in the end, you'll be glad you followed your intuition because not even 8000 advice people can be your heart for you.

**xox**
~*~BeCcA~*~


Hi all I need help My wife and I have been married for 28 years have a good relationship but we have a few problems. one is when I play softball in the summer she does not like it when all the guys get together and drink beer or go back to the bar for a beer, I have to tell you that I am not that fond of beer but it is fun to get together after, I find myself just leaving after the game just to avoid a fight with her is it a major thing that I would like to stay for a quick beer and just hang around I personally do not see anything wrong but she hates it.. what should I do thanks... (link)
Don't drink beer. Beer is gross and it'll give you a fat stomach. EEW YOU PIG YOU DRINK BEER.

Well it's the TRUTH.

**xox**
~*~BeCcA~*~


I was thinking... When is avrage age to have your first kiss and how far should u be in a relationship... This is my first relationship, and i love him and we've been gong out for 6 months,,, When should you? I have no clue!!! I havent had my first kiss but lately I've been thinking about it...
I want to kiss him... but somthing doesnt seem right,,,and i was talking to my mom and she asked me if i would tell her if my boyfriend kissed me,,, should I tell her?



13/f (link)
Just kiss him!! You're old enough. You don't have to go to 2nd or 3rd base if you don't want to. Nonetheless, if you don't feel good about it, don't do it. It's your body and your life and if you don't want to kiss him then don't. It's that simple. It'll come when it should.

**all my love**
~*~BeCcA~*~


ive been with my b/f for 2 months. its both of our first relationships. he doenst know too much about girls and i feel were growing apart. his friend likes me and is tryin to get me to dump me my emphasizing what he doesnt do for me. i kinda like him but i wouldnt dump my guy for him cuz he is being greedy. its hard for my bf and i to communicate..were both kinda shy. we really need to have a heart to heart convo but im not sure how to bring up what i need in the relationship. am i taking this too seriously? were both 14. thanks in advanced!~ (link)
Just casually bring it up in a conversation. CASUALLY. VERY CASUALLY. So casually that he doesn't think that you planned it ahead. Be very discreet.

Good luck!

**xox**
~*~BeCcA~*~




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