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Q: So, there's this kid John and he's one of my best guy friends but the thing is..i've liked him since I was in 4th grade. Last year, John and my friend Lauren went out for 2 months. Over the summer she broke up with him. Then, about a month ago, John asked Lauren back out and she said yes. I don't think Lauren likes him alot though because they don't talk --alot-- but he really likes her. John knows I like him but I don't know what to do. Am I way out of my league? Should I stick with him? Should I move on? What do you think? p.s I'm a female..He's a male..I'm 13 and he's 13

i can understand being a little jealous of your friend, um.. i think lauren was her name, but still be happy for her. if you really don't think she likes john, then you should probably talk to her about if she really likes him, or if she's just using him or something. if you and john were really friends, then he wouldn't mind if you told him that you thought lauren might not like him that much.. he should just recognize that you're trying to help, and that you care about him. if you and john have been friends for a long time, then he might like you too..."friend" usually ends up being "love" if you really like him, then i dont' think it's worth getting over him. just be patient, and it'll probably end up how you want it to! hope i helped, and good luck!
x3 stephanie

Q: I have no clue what to get my girlfriend for christmas. I don't want to get her makeup or cosmetics because i know nothing about that stuff, and I don't want to get her clothes because I don't know if she'd like it or what her size is. So with that said, what are some gift ideas that girls like?

when it comes to a girlfriend, she'll just like if you get her anything. it's the thought that counts. try getting her jewlery, but not a ring because it might not fit her.. but if you really wanna get her i ring, and if she's like regular-sized, get her a size 7. the people at the store will know what you're talking about. or just get her flowers or something! good luck, and i hope i helped!

x3 steph

Q: what does it mean WHEN A GIRL SMILES AT ME? when we're walking past each other, and we make eye contact, and she gives me that little smile, you all know the one. does it mean:

1. she thinks i'm cute
2. she thinks i'm hott
3. she wants to talk to me
4. she wants to kiss me
5. she wants to do dirty things to me
6. other

come on ladies, i need to know what you're thinking. i have a pic on my profile, if it helps. (i think it will).

a little smile is just being nice.. it's like a little hello when she can't actually talk to you. she might think you're hot, but in the hall, i smile to everyone i make eye contact with.. maybe she's not that way though. i don't know what your column is, so i can't look at your picture. if you guys are just friends, then it's probably not a whole serious "she thinks you're hott" sort of thing. but if you're just kind of friends, then maybe she likes you. try to ask one of her girl friends if she likes you, then if she does, and you like her back, then ask her out!

hope i helped, and good luck

Q: I like this girl, I mean like I REALLY love her. But, she only likes me as a friend. I recently sent her an email asking her out, but I think she's at sleepaway camp or something. I want her to love me so bad, how can I do that? Don't tell me that there are other fish in the sea, because I can feel that she's the one. How can I make her love me? Wiseasses get reported. Thanks!

if u feel she's "the one" then she must feel the same way. flirt a little, and just hang out and be herself. that way she can become more comfortable around you, and maybe she'll start to like you. if she has had a boyfriend that she really liked, then (i no this sounds really bad, but i don't mean it like that) try to be his friend, and maybe she'll get to see a new side to you, and like you!

best wishes! *stephanie*

Q: Steph, i dont know who i should like,

Yale

Zack

Some one else.

who do you think?

luv

sarah

Yale's so hott!!! he's nice 2.. i guess. zach pokes ppl, and that's completely not nice.. so i'd go w/ yale! *lick pinky touch 2 butt* sizzle!

Q: Sorry it's so long, but I desparately need help. This is an easy 5 because there's so many things I need help with. Alright, I've asked a bunch of questions on how to get my crush to like me, and it looks like I just need to ask her out! I need some help doing that, though. First: I want a nice special way to deliver it, like they did at the end of Bye Bye Birdie. Can someone help me there? Also, someone suggested writing a poem for her, I suck at poetry, can someone give me tips? Besides, her name doesn't have any rhymes.... Then there's my parents. They've been betting on whether I'm gonna get a crush before my best friends (we're all nerds) and obviously don't know about me and my crush. How can I tell them? Note: I'm a shy person. Come to think of it, where's a good place to ask her out to? I don't really see any worthwile movies out apart from the Aristocrats, which I can't see until I'm 17. So what's a good place? Dinner? Bowling?
And finally, there's rejection. What happens if she says no? I'm a shy person, and I really don't want to have her say no... I mean, she said she liked me as a friend when I told her I liked her, and instead of getting over her, as time passed, I thought about her more. I've been devastated since, and this is the only way. Please help!!!!!!

okay.. i'll try to help. i think she should say yes, because she know you like her. if you ask her, and she says no, then she's not worth it, promise. you seem like a really great guy that doesn't deserve rejection. i know that if a guy asked me to go bowling, i would totally go! it's so fun, and u get alot of time to spend with eachother, more than a movie or something like that. here's another plus... bowling's cheap! so good luck with that! hope she says yes, and you guys have a good time on your date! best wishes!

x0 stephanie 0x

Q: ok so there's this guy who i really like & we're friends & everything & i know he doesn't have a girlfriend [& like me has never had one, except in my case a boyfriend] & i want to tell him how i feel, but i'm too nervous because i'm scared he doesn't like me back. i once talked to him online for 3 hours straight, which i never did with anyone. he's really great to talk to & the sweetest guy i ever met. but is there a way i can figure out if he likes me or not? or to have him find out i like him, without having to tell him or having it get rumored or told by a friend? please help me if you can. i will rate you if you want.

i think the easiest way to deal with a problem like this is have your friend that wouldn't say anything wrong tell him how u feel. u never know, he might even ask you out! good luck