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My Name Is Stephanie. I am 17 years old and I am Married with a baby. Other than that I have a pretty normal Life. I am Hoping to hear from you and answer your questions and give you the best advice I can give. On everyday things, Love, depression, stress, anything you need. Hope to hear from you. And I promise to give you the best advice I can give. I am not a trained professional but I am here to help.


xx Stephanie
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i love my boyfriend but he is moving and there is no possible way we could be together long distance cause my parents would make it impossible...but i still like my ex (who is still single) and i dont know if i should just get back with him or if i should stay single...either way im still going to miss the boyfriend im with now and i know that my ex could never take his place....i dont want to be alone in this!!! (link)
Ok well you had to have broken up with your ex for a reason or the other way around .. now im not saying you werent meant to be together but i think you should give it a little time.. The best thing I can tell you Is if you truely love the man you are with dont give up on him right away but also dont wait forever on him either. But Dont settle for less than what you deserve either.. trust me if neither one of these guys are the "one" there is someone special waiting just for you ..


ok so i met this guy his name is travis hes 22 and me and him have been friends for a few weeks
well we know we like each other and stuff but theres the problem of him living in a different county from me and i know my parents won't let me date him because hes 22 and im just 16 but my problem is my foster sister jaymie found out i was talking to him and she just blew up about it and started bitching me and him out calling him on his cellphone and stuff which wasn't to good so me and him taled online and stuff and we decided we shouldn't talk because i didn't think it was right what they did . the problem is i really miss him hes the one person i could talk to about anything . the worse thing about this is my real sister casey was threatening to tell our parents if i didn't tell her everything he said about he because she really liked him once and wanted to date him but he didn't like her. i just really miss him and now jaymie aka my foster sister sometimes checks up on me to see if ive talked to him since that happened which i happened and i really miss him .me and him were going to hang out and see how we felt about each other and then see if we wanted to date . i want to know what i should do because i seriously miss him . also if u think i shold talk to him and lie about it i can't lie i think its just wrong and i can't do it so please help . :( thanks in advance . (link)
ok well i am 17 and i got married to the love of my life last year. my mom consented and when i met him he was 22. so dont shut him out or anything k. oh and funny thing i have a sister named casey who threatened the same thing haha. what a coinceidence ... so we told my mom but he came with... she alloud it... so give it a shot dont loose him ...you may regret it then if the parents have aproblem dont listen then and only if you love him continue to see him.. i am not telin you lieing is good but for love.... true love it is so worth it

hope i helped tell me how it goes


i just met this boy. (btw im 16, ive been on first dates before but i always screw them up. and recently i was in a serious long relationship so i CAN be normal around guys, haha, im pretty experienced) but anyway. he hasnt asked me on a date yet, he just asked to hang out. but im pretty sure he likes me. and i like him. so i dont know how to.. "hang out" should i be nice? i dont wanna be weird and too nice and ask too many questions. he's a skater. i don't wanna be too rude though. hes kinda shy around girls at first. and im like way shy at first but i open up eventually. i really dont wanna seem shy though. what are some things i could tell myself? and yeah. help! (link)
Tell yourself you are a beautiful person and you like this guy... Pick on yourself when you are with him and do the same with him dont be mean or anything just be flity he will love it


this might be kinda long so sorry !
alright so, i know this guy and my mom and his mom used to be bestfriends. i didnt even know who he was because i havent seen him sicne i was like 4. so anyways my firend met him at the mall and i hung out with him and stillll didnt relize who he was, he is soooo cute :]. and then i was telling my mom about him and she was all "omg" cuz we figured out like that it was her friends son. i havent talked to him since. but then my other frined that im like BESTfriends with started talking to him. we hungout with him at the mall the other day and i now like him. i havent talked to him online or anythign but were hanging out with him again soon. my friend really likes him, and i know this soundes wicked mean but how can i get him to notice me? and like me? i dont think he likes my friend but he flirts with her, but i REALLY like him and i need him to notice me in a differnt way then a friend. any advice please ??? (link)
ok first always know that no man should come between you and your friend. Let her be with him. Dont risk friendship. But if you do find out that he doesnt like her or they dont work out get permission from your friend to date him kk


So me and my boyfriend will have been together for about two years when his 18th birthday rolls around (beginning of October), and I have no idea what to get/do for him. Last year I had a pretty nice paying summer job, so I was able to buy him an xbox 360 with a game. This year Ive got another decently paying job, so money really isnt an issue. I just want to do/get something special because its his 18th you know?

Any ideas? (link)
Ok well dont worry about money you dont want to go out and buy something super expensive just get him something from the heart i did this for my hubby when we wer still dating and he cried cuz he loved it so much. do this


Get a big poster board some glitter glue crayons markers confettii and other decoratives youd like then get pictures of you, him, and then you and him together create like a collage of you and him decorate it write things you love about him funny times and your most happy times with him on it he will absolutelly love it


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Ok, so I'm 16/m...

Yesterday I went to the movies with this girl I like. We were flirting and I'm 99.9% sure that she likes me. We've hung out a few times before and I was wondering if I should just ask her out already, or hang out with her again...
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If you like her and you think she likes you than ask her before its to late. Tell her how you feel and in return she will tell you how she feels. Dont be nervous or ashamed or afraid Just do it.


XX STEPHIE


hi so recently i started talking to this boy. hes always pressuring me to give him head but i tell him i want to get to know him better and hang out first. he says that if i give him head it will show i like him and he will consider dating me. i just want to hang out first but he doesn't want to. does it seem like he just wants one thing only? (link)
If you dont want to dont. It sounds like the same thing my friend just went through. Her boyfriend told her to do it or he will break up with him so she did and he broke it off anyways. then he told everyone in her school that she was a slut and that she did it. All he wants is sex not you. He is nothing but scum and he is trying to use you. Dont let him hurt you or pressure you into anything. Honestly I dont think he deserves your friendship. Tell him to go find someone else because you dont need someone like that. And the simply never talk to him again. You will keep your selfrespect and make him feel like an ass


xx Stephanie


okay don't say anything like, your under age or anything, I KNOW!!!! so anyway, i was going out with this guy, Andy, i'm 15, then we had been going out for like 3 months, and i was staying at his house for a dance, we live on different islands, but there right next to each other.and we were talking then he told me he loved me, anyway, we ended up having sex... but then later, like a couple months later i found out he had cheated on me twice! then he asked this guy, iain, to start flirting with me and stuff so i would stop liking him and start liking iain. anyway i broke up with Andy, and started going out with iain, but two weeks after we started going out, i slept with him! it just sort of happened! so, i slept with him on the friday ans he didn't talk to me the whole weekend, then on monday, he asked if we could meet up, but he broke up with me! now i feel like everyones looking at me and thinking... slut, my friend says no one cares who i sleep with and that its just in my head but i cant stop thinking it! do you have any advice on what to do to make me feel better? i'm soooooo depressed! ='[ (link)
ok well #1 It doesnt matter what anybody thinks of you. I used to dwell on what people thought of me so I tried to be different. I got so caught up in it that I didnt even know the real me anymore. #2 If he would cheat on you he dont need you. He used you for sex. You were the victim in this all. So dont blame it on yourself. #3 If thats the way the men you choose are going to be you might want to up your standerds a bit. Dont go for just anyone. Find someone who treats you right. You dont deserve it and It isnt right. But dont give up hope you will find the perfect one for you . and finally #4 You are not a slut. It happened and you were used terribly. Dont let them thin you are. And if they do just let them know you dont care if they are going to go on gossip than guess what they are immature and you must be better than them. Dont let them get to you .

hope i helped

xx stephanie





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