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I have this crush on a guy. He's really sweet and were really good friends. Only problem he lives in a different town. It's the same state but different towns. Neither of us can drive so we can't see each other and the only way we can talk is on my cell phone. I want to go out with him but I don't know about the long-distance deal. What should I do?

long distance relationships dont really work out. Especially when both of u can't drive. I think u should just keep talkin to him tellin him how u feel. Mayb at least one time u guys could find away to see eachother. Ask friends that drive if they could drive. Besides that I dont think a long distance relationship will work

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I'm 13 and a girl I hate dumping people and my boyfriend like me a lot and I dont really like him any more does any one have any good ways to dump him I need help with out breaking his heart...thnx

You could start doin things that he doesn't like or don't make it seem like he's ur whole world. He'll feel hurt of course theirs no way to not break a guys heart. But mayb he'll break up w/u

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how can i get a guy to like me?

Be yourself...Thats all u could really do. And the right guy will come along n sweep u off ur feet.

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Hey Jenni in ur xanga u barely talk about ur friends that are girls u always talk about hangin out w/ these guys or talkin to these guys y is that?

Most of my friends are guys. I dont exclude girls in becomin my friend...I have a lot of friends that are girls but I still talk to my guy friends alot more. Girls well Girls will b girls

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i have a boyfirned but we never see each other but meanwhile we love each other is this ok

u guys may start losin interest in each other

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well i like this guya nd i thought he liked me and everyone thought he liked me and we were flirtyin like all night and the next day but now i cant ell cuz we havent hanged out and stuff.............what do i do how can i find out if he likes me ((with out havein to like ask him cuz that might make him feellike he has to like meor something))

PlEasE hElp?!?!?
Sara

Start hangin out w/ him again. N ask one of ur friends to ask him how he feels bout u. Or find out from some of his friends who hes interested in.

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15 female

thers this guy that i dated for bout 2 months but we still talked to each other...and everytime he tells me bout him and some girl i get pissed and evey time i tell him and some guy i get pissed...sometimes it pisses me off so much that i wanna cry and 1/2 the time i do...

do i still have feelings for him?

Yes its normal. I think every girl still has a thing for all their ex's. You talkin to him just brings back good memories together. Just rememba their was a reason y it didn't work out!!!

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I talk to this guy all the time and he wants to date me. I kinda like him to...The problem: everytime we talk he only seems to be interested in what im wearing. Im not sure if he really likes me or just wants to get with me. Could he just be making conversation? What do I do?

You should start talkin bout something else like what ur interested in and all that kinda stuff. See if he seems interested in u then. If not honey then leave that dude cause all he wants is a piece of ass!!!!

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I recently lost my virginity, the girl was my age, 15, but she's already had 6 guys before me, which at least to me sounds like a huge amount. I know she's a really wonderful person, and ever since it happened I've been even more attracted to her, not just wanting to have sex again, but actually wanting to get to know her better and hang out more. I just want to know if its possible that she gets the same feeling about me or does sex become less special the more a persons done it.

If your havin these feelins for her she might b havin the same feelins for u. Just talk to her n tell how u feel. See if she really is feelin for u or if shes just in it w/ guys to get some!!!!

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when you call a guy that you met through someone else, what do you say to them?? answer asap!!! i rate!

Just tell him who u are n how ur friends w/ the friend of urs n just start talkin to him like u would any other person...

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i was jw...is it wrong to maturbate???is there a lotta people that do it???please answer...thank you

It's NORMAL..almost everyone does it. HAVE FUNN!!!!

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Ok, you see...I like guys and guys like me but when I feel that a guy wants to hook up or something and get scared and push them away. How can I overcome this?!?!

your scared of comitment. you don't have to b scared of comitment in the beginning of the relationship. Its just like seein if a guy is really your type. When a guy tells u his interested in u just keep actin normal around them

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i have this boyfreid and i like him alot and we grew up togeather and i want more from him and i feel like hes not giving me enough we only kissed and i want to do more wut should i do!

Mayb he's not ready yet. You cant push someone to do stuff when their not ready

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Hey Jennifer I was just curious if u smoked, drink, or do any other types of drugs

NO I do not smoke, but I do have friends that do. I don't look at them differently though I still look at them the same its just a decision I made not to smoke. Yesh I do drink. But I am able to control my self. If I knw I'm goin to a partay to drink I make sure I have a driver that wont b drinkin!!! As you probable guessed NO I dont do any kinds of drugs...except for drugs proscribed by my doc

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hey i like this guy but i dont think he likes me how can i find out?

You can get a friend to ask him who he has an interest in. Drop some hints to let him know you have an interest in him. Ask him to hang out w/ u one day go do something fun and see what happens there.

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how do you kiss please help and it would help if you could give me a time when you kisssed and explain it

No one can really explain how to kiss. Just go w/ the flow. Don't try to rush things.

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Hey, l'm 13 and I've liked this boy for 13 months..lol.. and we started going out in april and he broke up with me in june. i was heartbroken but i kind of saw it coming..i dont know he kind of just stopped calling as much. then i found out after he broke up with me that it was because he felt bad because..he still liked me..but he still had feelings for his ex. but i still like him A TON!!!! we have kept talking and hanging out after we broke up. i have noticed that hes starting to act like he likes me...also he usually tells people who he likes..he wont tell any of my friends..i wont dare ask him myself because i dont want him to know that i still like him if he doesnt like me..i dont want him to feel uncomfortable. my friend has also noticed that it seems like he likes me. What should I do? haha i dont even know what im asking you..just tell me what you think about this whole thing and what i should do..please?

Awww thats so qt. Keep hangin out with him like you are. N I think after a while if he does like you he'll make sure u knw trust me. I knw it sucks to wait. But yeah. Cause u don't want to ask him so just waittt

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If your bf or gf got you a limo for a surprise for like 3 months of going out and it was a boxy kind of limo.. would you care?

Oh don't worry about it. It the thought that counts. I'm sure he'll love it n you guys will have a teriffic timee. HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!

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Hey I'm Jeff, You don't know me but I've seen your pics. I think you look fuckin amazing. And what people say about you makes you seem like you have a wonderful personality. Just wanted to let you know your on someones mind!!!!

aww thanks Jeff. It brings a smile knowing I'm on someones mind!!!

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wut does love really mean?!?!?!?!

::Love::couldn't tell you exactly wha it means. Its a feelin you get that can't compare to any other feelin you've felt in your life. You'll know when love comes your way. Then you'll know wha love is

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