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ok so me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 8 months. things were great for the first 6 months or so and then we started fighting almost everyday. weve gotten over that but now things arent the same. she doesnt have as strong of feelings as she did before but we both want to get the spark back. how can we get things back how they used to be? (link)
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This is very common in most relationships ..why ? because the first 6 months of your relationship were the pre-comfortable stage. I would suggest that if you really want to get the spark back try doing fun activities ..going to the park for a picnic,out to dinner those sorts of things ..this will only work if you both put effort into it..if not sometimes it is better to let things go then to hold onto something that makes you unhappy and tense from all the fighting..I would also suggest try talking out your problems ...hope that helped at least a little bit ...;) good luck
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my girlfriend cheated on me with her ex and everything is all screwed up now were still together but i dont trust her at all anymore im always wondering what she's doing and who she's talking to it doesnt help that she works at a bar to i mean i guess i still love her but it makes me sick just thinking about what she did how am i supposed to trust her again (link)
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You chose to stick by her side for a reason after she cheated because you obviously care for her Im really not sure how you can trust this girl after she cheated on you with her ex and not some random person there had to be some sort of feelings involved there you need to confront her talk to her about your feelings thats basically all you can do..my saying is once a cheater always a cheater and once they get caught they only try that much harder to hide it from you..good luck
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My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He was going through a depression and cut off all connections with everyone. He says he needed time alone and that he was no longer happy with anything. First he stopped talking to his best friend. Then all other friends, then he broke up with me. I tried to still be there for him and told him to call me whenever he needed me. But after a couple of weeks of roller coaster emotions and not being sure if he was going to call or not, i decided to end the whole thing. He kept telling me that he will come back one day and that I just need to be strong and move on for now. So thats what I told him that I needed to move on and not to call me anymore unless things were going to be different. he told me he didn't know if he loved me anymore. because he doesn't know how he feels about anything anymore. He said that his depression was getting worse and needed to find jesus. So we said our finally goodbyes last week and haven't talk since
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we were really in love and didn't have a bad relationship. Even planned marriage
he was in a depression when we were both in freshman year. He stopped talking to all of friends then too and then later regretted it and tried to get back in contact with them a year later when we started dating.
we are both seventeen and are in our junior year of high school. We were together 9 months but have know each other for 4 years. We liked each other freshmen year but he became very depressed because he was backstabbed by his friends and his first love cheated on him. He cut off all connections with everyone at school then to. He moved schools our 10th grade year. We didnt talk all school year but I texted him out the blue during summer and we began to have a relationship. He tried to get back in contact with the friends he cut off because he regretted doing that to them.
I REALLY MISS HIM AND IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK WE WILL EVER TALK AGAIN?
he was my best friend and i was his. We talked about everything
Please do not tell me i need to just move on. Because i am doing that. When i am ready to date again. I will do so. But I just really want him in my life again... .. or do you think it would be weird if i wait a couple of months give him his space... then call him to check on him?
i will do anything to have him in my life again... even if its just as friends
& please excuse any misspelled words and my grammar I wrote this in a rush..Thank you in advanced (link)
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I really think that this guy has depression issues to take care of before you guys can get back together I mean it seems as if you really love him but for him to love you back he needs to love himself..someone should try to get him into some kind of counseling..I also dont think it would hurt to send him a text or something just saying hi and ask how he is doing nothing too pushy though you might push him away..I am sure if you have this special bond with him as it seems you do he will come around eventually it might just take some time..dont give up hope on talking to him it sounds like he could really use a friend.
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I hooked up with this guy a couple days ago and I was giving him oral sex when I noticed that he had one dark brownish mole type thing near the shaft but not literally on the penis. I didn't think anything of it at the time, being that we were both sober and I would imagine that he would tell me if it was anything I needed to worry about.
But now I can't stop thinking about it. He gets around and I'm nervous that it may have been an STD. I feel awkward asking him about it, especially if it's not that at all and it really is just a mole or something. Can anyone please help calm me down or give me some insight as to what it may be? My research has led me to believe that it has the chance of being genital warts. Please help. Thanks. (link)
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You should just go get checked out at your local clinic that is the best advice just to make sure that you dont have anything ..maybe invite him to go with you or simply ask him about it or if he's ever been checked out before.remember to always use protection and sometimes even protection doesnt prevent you from getting STDs.Dont be shy about it your health is very important...be safe
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...being with them hurts you deep inside, because in the relationship you never get what you want or need... but you know that the pain of letting them go or them breaking up with you would outnumber the pain of not getting what you want a millionfold? (link)
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I think that you should talk to your partner about how you feel if things dont change and you still feel like it is making you unhappy than you should'nt be with them anymore why would you want to be with someone when they are causing you pain and probably stress. Letting go is always the hardest part but just think to yourself you will get through it go out with your friends keep yourself occupied whatever you have to do to keep you from thinking about them. In the end no matter what you will survive there are plenty of people in this world who can make yoou happy just be strong.
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Ive been dateing this guy for three yrs and One month, Im 19/f weve always knew were gonna get married and all that stuff,but I wanna propose to him, is that wrong or somewhat stupid?
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I dont think its wrong or stupid but being married is a huge commitment.Think about all the pros and cons and really weigh out the situation before making a huge decision. Take a look into your relationship and decide whether or not you see yourself spending the rest of your life together.You should also discuss that with him and your friends and family and see how they feel about it..your relationship isnt going anywhere if you both love each other maybe try to wait a couple of years..but if your absoloutely set on it do it and dont look back with regrets your an adult and its your life...good luck
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Me and my bf were going out for about 3 months until he broke up with me but he didnt tell me why and i want him back real bad. What should I tell him to get him back or what should i do? (link)
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getting dumped really is the pits there is really only one soloution for your problem if it is bothering you so much that you didnt get an explanation as to why he broke up with you ..ask him and if he doesnt give you a reason forget about him. I think you should just leave him alone and go about your life if he cares about you at all once he discovers that you have stopped calling him and are out having fun with your friends that usually sends guys running back...but if its over its over it
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Ok i'm going to be 18 on July 10th and there is this dude named Jason who I like and he likes me too...he says that I have all the qualities he wants and in a girl and he just makes me feel real good...but there's a huge problem...He is 27!!!! ahhh I don't know wut to do!! I think when ur 18 ur legal, but still is it bad gettin involved w/him? I'm real confused! (link)
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I think that you should definately hold off until you are eighteen that is a must! and if this guy really likes you than he will will respect that ...in this case I really think that it is all about if you guys are on the same page mature wise because the normal 27 year old is tired of the partying either has a career or is going in that direction...but I also think you could give it a shot if thats what you want. Take things slowly and discuss both of your goals and wants and needs together..that will help you determine if your ready to be with him.
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