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16/f.
My boyfriend is a nice guy and can be quite funny at times, but he's so antisocial around other people. When I'm with him it's not as bad because he makes some sort of conversation, but when there are other people he's just so reserved. And I know he does it out of fear and I want to help him because I care about him. But at the same time sometimes I get so confused because I feel like this is the way he is and that I can never be who he needs. When we first started dating I didn't know that he was this way but as we started seeing eachother more often it's become clearer. We talked about it and he says he wants to change and be more open, but I just don't know anymore and I don't want to tell him. I can't tell him that I feel this way because it'll tear him apart for sure. I just don't know. Any advice is appreciated, thanks. (link)
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Its not his fault that hes not a talker around people you cant change how people act. They have to do that on there own. My mom is the same way
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alrightt well it did hurt but i didnt mind it. but then after he left, i was in the shower, and i realized when i went pee it stung [like it did last time ....], and i noticed that [im not sure which part this is] the part where the pee comes out of wasn't straight ahead, it was a little crooked ... to my right. and i was concerned. is this gonna go back to normal on its own? i really really cant bring this up to my parents. :/ (link)
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It happens girl dont be afriad of course it will
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Me and my best friend recently joined a new group of friends at school and one of the other girl's and me have an obbssession with the celebrity Josh Hutcherson. I really need some help on how to contact him. Please help! (link)
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there celebs u cant unless hes a disney or nicoloden celb and there co. box is in a mag. im sorry but celebs don't want to be contacted my childern im sorry
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Okay heres the situation
I like this kid-i never realized i liked him until like two days ago. He's not shy,but he's kind of quiet sometimes.He gets good grades and what not. He's in two of my classes,we sit right next to eachother but we only talk sometimes. He's a really good person,one of the VERY few guys that isn't a player or full of himself in my school. The thing is-a LOT of girls like him. he's not full about it-but it bugs me of course. I'm the kind of person when a lot of girls like the guy i like -i instantly try to not like him anymore. but its so hard! He does flirty things with me randomly and we do have funny conversations. But its akward sometimes! And its all because i get choked up with how much i like him.But i can't help it! Another problem is my friend who liked me is in the same class(biology)And we sit together everday,so if i do end up going out with him then I dont know if it'll just be even more akward ahhhhrghhh!
My question is- How can i be more flirty and fun with him rather than quiet and weird?! What are some flirting tips? We're already friends-but i want to get him to like me. I guess i gotta know how i can be more comfortable around guys in general. How do i do this? Ugh,i really wish i didn't like him ;(. Thanks (link)
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dont flirt just ask him out
- Samantha White a 14yr old
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To start this off i liek this boy oka, and he knows how much i like him right. But there you see there are like two other girls that also like him. You see iven been liking him for awhile now liek maybe alomost 2 years and havent done noting about it. All because i was shy and afraid. You see we have this class together and he do somtimes be messing with me and flirting and stuff. And i guess i kinda got a lilttle comfortable being around him now. But you see there also these tow gurls that like him to . And they be talking to him and everything. And i dont know what else to do, its like they have a speical bond to him. And i dont know how to top that. How can i make it more between me and him. Instead of just messing around with eachother. (link)
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You need to tell him that you like him and want to be more than friends. You might want to do it before one of the other gurls make there move. GO get him gurl
- Samantha White a 14yr old
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Hello, my girlfriend and I live relatively far away but we manage to see each other like maybye 3 times a month(in person). But another girl recently told me she had serious feelings for me and though i talk to my gf every night on webcam i can't help getting feelings for this other girl becuase i see her every day its hard to get over it.Now those feelings have gone away and i am back in that trance with my girlfriend. but i can't shake the feeling im gonna fall for another girl. Help? (link)
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long distance is hard you'll never last so just end it it will end soon or later she is thinking the same thing. she probly has fallen for another girl to.
- Samantha White a 14yr old
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how do i break up with someone in a nice way? when im scared to say it to their face? (link)
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write a note say
1. Its not you its me
2. Its not working out
3. I'm sorry i don't want to do this but its not working out I'm sorry
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This guy asked me what i would say if he asked me out and basically that is like an indirect way of asking me out and i said if it was in that certain time like that day or soon then i would say no. and then he stopped talking to me that day, i felt bad because i like him and he knows that but im not ready to go out with him. Now i feel like if he were to ask me out again like specifically on valentines day then i would say yes. but turns out im not going to be in town that day so we wouldnt be able to even make plans like on a date so does that kill my chances? and hes not really a romantic lovie dovie guy but whats the chances of him getting flowers or something cute for valentines day, are there any clues that he might be trying to plan something? 15 btw. (link)
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well you could get him a nice card hand made telling him how you feel. It could help him understand
- Samantha White a 14 yr. old
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ok so me and my boyfriend broke up and im over him in a romantic way but i still wanna be friends he hasnt talked to me sine we broke up but i wanna talk and i wanna be friends
how do i do that without seeming needy and desprate like i want him back because i dnt
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yes you can but wait awaile to get over each other
- Samantha White a 14 yr old
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Okay, so i've known this guy for about three years now. He's two grades ahead of me. we dated over summer, and i didn't know i liked him so much until we began "talking" again this year. he got mad because i couldn't ALWAYS go to his house, and couldn't meet up with him 24/7.he said we had to stop "talking" because he flirts around. and hooks up with other girls to much, and he wouldn't want to hurt me. on the other hand, we still talked, as f riends. but still flirted. then he stopped texting me one day and i wondered why...... a few weeks later i bumped into his at the local mall,and he said hey, and i responded saying hey back. well, i was really getting over this ignoring me thing, and i was wondering the whole time why though...... well today i was on myspace.com and i went to his myspace profile to see what's new. turns out he has thing new GORGEOUS cheerleader girlfriend. and, i was just getting over him. and now i feel like crap again. what should i do to get over him, and stoip thinking about him?
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find a guy to make him jelous with the guy must be gorgeous tho or it won't work
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heya im that guy who posted the questions "its not quite love but i think about her, what is it? :S" and "ahhh! everyone knows!! XD what do i do hahaha" well anyways.. both of those questions were about this one girl who i'v recently started liking, since those questions iv made a little progress, iv told that "I think i like you" because im not sure because im so confused right now. she got a little red faced and start stuttering which i thought was sweet because i think she likes me a little too. we'v both said that we want to get to know eachother better which was great it made me really happy beacuse we had allready planned to go into town on friday this week (which is probably today if your reading this now) but about 2 hours ago she told me that she couldnt go :( its for a good reason though she had to plan somthing with her family. but im feeling a little sad about it, i was really looking forward to seeing her and being able to actually try and talk to her and just her for a while so I could get to know her and her get to know me. we only see eachother in college and thats not exactly the best place because everyone in my class knows i like her so they like to say little things every now and then to try and make me get all embarassed which is kinda funny but not quite what i want. i walked back some of the way home with her today after college which was nice, we had a little bit of smalltalk about course work and stuff we said on msn to our freinds but nothing major, i was feeling really good about friday untill she said :( what do i do now? organise another day to go into town with her? is it probably better to do that? because on of me freinds just invited himslf along lol.
hotsauce if your reading, please help ^_^ youve been really helpfull with my other 2 questions what are your thoughts on this situation kus i cant get a straight thought it anywere with out thinkin ill be missing her or somthing :( (link)
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well when she blushed it ment that she liked you she probley wanted to go to just ask her to go somewhere else then you can get to no her hopfully its all gonna work out
- Samantha White a 14 year old
PEACE
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gggrrrr!!!! i dont know if i like him because i thought i did but now im thinking diffrent and urg!!
begining we started talking over myspace and he goes to my school hes a grade lower than me.. we talk on im alot and we talk occasionaly at skewl. i see him all the time and i think about him because hes awsome and funny -but- i dont know if i acually like him... its just weird because i have mixed emotions about this i could like him one minute then not the next... i am looking for a guy who loves me unconditionably and who loves me crazily but i dont know if hes that guy at all but idont really know...
im kinda mad at him right now because i dont know why but i think he was mad at me first because i always want to talk to him on im but hes like never on then he tells me at school one day that hes gonna get on after his haircut but i totally fergot to tell him that i was bizzy so i get on later and hes on and i think he was mad...
is it because he was really wanting to talk to me or if it was because i always tell him to get on and when he is on that im not and i think he was acually think he was mad before that... like he was like \"cranky\" one day i was talking to him and i dont know if it was becuase OK- hes akwayz talking about he needs to find a girlfriend and hes all lonely and such- and i dont know if hes mad at me for not saying anything yet or something becuz somethings really not rite any more.... i dont know wat he thinks and i deffinatly dont know what i think.. i dont even think i like him...
but asking for advice on him.....
urrrggg!!!! so confusing!!!!
*do i like him?
* does he like me?
*why isnt all diffrent now?
* is he like mad er something
*what is he thinking?
*does he think of me when i think of him?
ok i knew he liked me at one point just the way he would just talk to me triend to be funny and what not... but now... im confussedd....
i dont know how many questions this is and i know its long but i acually dont know what i want answered.... i amm sooo connfuzzled!!!!
i just need answers on thee whole story!!!! (link)
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1. you like him it seems
2. ask him
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4.ask him
5. nobody noes inless ther a mind reader
6. probaly ask him
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so i'm 16 turning 17 in like 2 weeks and i've come to the conclusion that i need a boyfriend. or just some kind of interaction with a guy in my life considering i've never had a real boyfriend or my first kiss. plus my junior prom is slowly but quickly approaching and i am completely unaware of what i am going to do. SO. since i have found that about 75% or more of the guys in my school are total idiots, i am willing to broaden my search to find a decent guy. however, i am not sure where to find this guy. where do cute, funny, smart, guys like to hang out? and how can i approach them? thank you! ;) (link)
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ok well your decripition to me describes a nerd so i'd find a personailtity for this person
you could do some kind of witchcraft or you could talk to one of your guy friends or you could look in the year book find a guy you thinks cute talk to him blah blagh figur out if hes the kinda guy for you if hes got a gf and if so or if you don't like him look for someone else do the process again and again till you get him and once you get him ASK him to the dance
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hey i like this guy and its getting so we have nothing to talk about what are somee things i can talk about with him?
thanks
loveboys (link)
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talk about what you recently did ,camp, vac.,thing you like to do,family stuff, jokes
hope i helped
normal advice person
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