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i like a guy who is 17..and i'm 14. he will turn 18 3 days before i turn 15..is it like not illegal with parents permission (link)
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it's legal to date - but nooo sex.
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I'm 14/f. Okkk, I am in love with this boy. He's nice, he's cute, and he's smart. This is hard to say but, he likes another girl but he likes me at the sametime. It's confusing! So I sent him an e-mail telling him how I feel. He hasn't responded and I know that he got it. It's been 5 days and I've been waiting for an answer. I don't exactly know what to do next. I don't know if I should instant message him and tell him to reply, even though I wrote in the e-mail a million times to respond. I have no idea what to do! Im in love with him, please help me!!! (link)
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you're 14. you don't need love from a young, immature boy right now. you're going to deal with idiot boys for the rest of your life; dont rush the stress. oh, and i hope you didn't just flat out say "i love you" in the e-mail, because that tends to scare immature boys. i know i'm gunna sound like a parent right now but im 16 & i knowwww what i'm talking about -- concentrate on YOURSELF. do your school, your chores at home & what-not. make yourself a strong motivated person. build character. then all the boys will really have something to chase after :)
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Well my best freind she doesnt like this guy named jeff but she always wants to have a friends with benefit relationship with him. HES A TOTAL JERK. He is soo mean to her and treats her like crpap doesnt talk to her for ever and then asks to hoookup. Well, idk what to do anymore cuz she doesnt listen to me wen i tell her not to do this and she will regret it. And wen i say this guys a jerk he bad mouths her to the school and all she cares about it making out. (link)
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that's her problem, not yours. quite frankly, if she wants to be a skank then that's her peroggative. you can't change people; you can give her advice, but it's up to her if she wants the reputation of a whore or not.
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Me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday when he put the condom on it kept coming off like it was too tight and does anyone know a bigger condom?? Because we tried it 3 different times and each condom came off!! What should I do?! (link)
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trojannn maaann !
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i really like this boy and i know for a fact he likes me too. the thing is i get really insecure when he flirts with me. he'll try to hug me or hold my hand and i just feel stupid because my friends are looking at me. i REALLY like this boy and i don't want to miss out on a good thing. honestly, i've rejected him so many times that i'm lucky he's still interested. how can get overmy inhibitions and admit to my friends (and him) that i actually like him? (link)
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don't be shy; if you like the boy - then that's it. you like him. let the whole world know, who caresss - enjoy yourself & if he likes you too, then that's even better:)
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the background: about 6 months ago my boyfriend kissed another girl at a party. he said he was really sorry and didnt want to lose me, so i gave him another chance. but since then he has continuted to flirt with her. whenever shes around he pretty much ignores me and acts like an idiot showing off in front of her. i've told him like a bazillion times how bad this makes me feel, and he always promises not to do it again, but he keeps doing it. i know he likes her even though he insists he doesnt.
well the other night we were at a party and he did the same thing. so i broke up with him. he cried on the phone till 3 in the morning, begging me to take him back, swearing that he doesnt like her, that he only loves me. in the last couple days hes brought me flowers, presents, sent me love songs on my phone, and posted bulletins saying how much he loves me and that he doesnt like that girl. and everytime he comes over or calls, hes crying. his friends say he hasnt slept in like 3 days.
i really really love him - weve been going out for almost 3 years and hes like my best friend. i really want to go back out with him, but im afraid if i do, he'll just keep doing the same thing. plus i dont want a boyfriend who likes someone else. but i just dont get it! it seems so obvious that he likes her, so why doesnt he just go out with her now that hes free? (she likes him and he knows it). should i take the way hes acting as a sign that he really loves me? should i take him back? or will he just keep doing the same thing? (link)
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okay, that's complicated, but i have a simple solution that you probably won't like - stay single. yes, you love him & as you say he loves you too, but you don't deserve to be cheated on or whatever the case is. if he didn't like her, or won't do it again, he wouldn't have kissed her twice. if only twice. don't necessarily "take him back" but keep in touch with him. once he grows up mentally & realizes what he had with you, he'll come to his senses. don't be the pathetic girlfriend he knows he can walk all over & then still go back to. don't be an easy target!
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Ok so i'm going out with this amazing boy, but there's something missing we just don't talk alot or sometimes we can't hold a conversation. Then I have this bestfriend who also happens to be one of his bestfriends, but with me and him we just click. Everything seems to be right, we can talk on the phone for hours and there's never silence. I just don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend but my bestfriend is also the person who hooked us up, but I can tell he likes me too. Ughh. I know this is confusing, but it there anyone who can help? (link)
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well, i would hope you're able to talk to your best friend; but that's not the point. sometimes there's tension between a girl & a boy when they're "just" friends, they can usually confuse their friendship with stronger feelings. i'm not saying that's the case, but if it is..then i'd stick with your boyfriend. but if you really don't have much to talk about - and you don't necessarily click with eachother, then it's a waste of time. but before you just break up with him, you should explain how you feel that there's lack of communication between the two of you. take it from there, and break down the issues one by one until you're happy with your situation.
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