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im a springer for OTHS, GO PANTHERS!!!, i sing in the chior, i plan to enter into the military when i get older and then into law enforcement. i play on a paintball team (Low Life Paintball) and i play airsoft with kids around town.

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this guy who is a grade above me asked me out, and i said no. the only problum is he still talks to me and flirts with me and smiles at me and crap, and i think hes gonna ask me out 'again'. not only that, but i like 2 of his close friends alot so i dont want to majorly affend him. i dont want to have him ask me out again. its imbarrising. could someone please help me i rate well!

just go up the guy and tell him you dont like him like that you just want to be his friend. tell him that you like his 2 closest friends. it may seem rude or mean to tell him, but its the only way to get across to guys. he might be shocked and not talk to you for a couple days, but he'll get over it and be your friend again

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how do you get a guy that usually not too talkative, to start talking to you? im 13/f

just go up to the guy and start up a conversation, be real friendly and nice and sweet to the boy and he should open up pretty easily, and if not, kill him with even more kindness until he cracks and talks to ya. he is probally just shy

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My name is stephanie, and I bhave beeen dating my boyfriend for a month now.But here's the twist! My BF(Chris)asked me to hsve sex with him after a band dance. I told him no, b/c I'm not ready to sexualy active just yet! Unexpectingly he said ok I'll respect that b/c I love. I figured that excuse would by me time, and it did! But now he wants more reasons as to why I can't have sex with him. But see what gets me is is that he's telling me he wants to have sex, but when I say no he's ok with what I decide, but he asks repeating , but never makes any kind of action leading to sex. I'm confused! WHY IS HE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS?

all the guy is after is a good piece of tail, it may sound harsh, but its true. a guy that you ahve been dating for a month doesnt want to have sex because he thinks he loves you, he just wants to have sex because he wants to be cool or he wants to satisfy himself, and not thinking about you

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Well, I met this boy through a friend..and me and him went out. I was shallow and wouldnt stay with him..it was about 3 years ago. and then we stopped talking and then started talking again..he was having problems at home and moved in with my family (hes 17 now). We became the best of friends..then all of the sudden "poof" he left out of NO WHERE. and now we are talking and stuff and i really miss him. i told him i didnt want him to leave and that i miss him. but do you have any ideas on how to really hit him on how much he hurt me? i need the help. That boy means alot to me, and i dont want the only person that was ever there to go away..

thanx

just tell him your true feelings for him. just tell him he means alot to you and that you need him. and if you have to kidnap him (wouldnt suggest it thought, lol). but in all honesty just tell him how you feel over all about him and tell him how much he means to you and things like that

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16/f
ummmm...like the subject says, i've never been kissed. and it gets to me. everytime i think about it, i get all depressed and start to think that i'm ugly and that no one will ever like me and i'll never be loved. how do i stop thinking about this?! i don't wanna feel like this anymore....

thx in advance
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dont let yourself down for never been kissed. with not being kissed yet, it will make your first time more magical. you should be proud of yourself for not giving yourself away to someone else who doesnt love you. you should be happy because your saving your first kiss for someone special that means alot to you

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