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Gender: Female
Location: Minnesota
Age: 15
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Member Since: June 17, 2006
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My husband died about a 2 years ago in a tragic car accident. I still can't seem to move on. I know people grieve at different paces and in different ways, but I'm afraid I'll always compare men to my old husband and I'll be alone for the remainder of my life. (I'm only 29!) Right now everything seems bleak an hopeless. Will I ever be able to love another man? So far I haven't been activly dating, but there's a few gentlemen I've almost had relationships. Nobody seems to compare! (link)
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First of all I am so sorry about your husband, and secondly give it some more time and don't think you have to be with someone, take it at your own pace, on your own time, and the right person may come around.
Hope I helped,
Raidergrl1024
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Ok well there is this guy I like.Im pretty sure I love him. Were pretty close I think. He is perfect. Well we have gotten alot closer then were supposed to he actually was the person I lost my virginity to.Since then we have done it 9 times but nothing has changed he is still my friend and stepbrother.My question is,is it insest for us to have a sexual relationship? (link)
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Ok its so not incest! I am doin the same thing except its with an in-law. Rent the movie clueless...its your story excatly! Don't worry about it...I hope i helped! And i'm glad i'm not the only one out there doin this!
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Alright, I'm in a sticky situation because my BEST FRIEND likes me. (guy) and I really like him...but he was my friend first and I'm thinking that if I date him then it'll ruin our friendship. I've talked to him about it and he says that it won't (which on one hand I do believe him bc he's not one of those guys that tells you what you want to hear unless it's true) I love spending time with him, in fact I've been over at his house more this summer than my own i think lol. I also like the fact that he has seen ALL of my quirkey moments and still likes me for them. Like I said, I just don't want to lose my best friend. That would devastate me. What do you think that I should do??
love
mo
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I have the same probelm but i was the one who like buy best guy friend... it was really hard for me to tell him that i liked him but i'm still with him after a really long time and its the best relationship i've ever had. I would suggest you talk to him before hand just be like "i don't want this to affect our friendship if it doesn't work out." I hope i helped!
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Say you're working. Some guy walks in, and he's a nice, respectable young man who, after moderate conversation, turns out to be kind of interesting.
Okay, I'll just cut to the chase. I'm basically asking how you would respond to a guy asking for your number while you were at work (one who doesn't work with you). What 'parameters' would lead to a positive outcome, if any?
-I overthink things consistently. (link)
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I had the same problem! I did take the chance once in a while but not all the time i always find out if they would be any fun first. so i would suggest that you always make deep conversation to see if you could be compatible. hope i helped!
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This guy has been calling me a lot, and I barely know him. We've hung out a few times (with other friends with us), and only once has he mentioned wanting to see me in a different way if you know what I mean. But he calls me and we talk about random stuff. The thing is, he's not the boyfriend type and usually has a bunch of girls, never a girlfriend (or so I've HEARD). My question is.. IF I wanted to have something with this guy, how can I make him "settle down" and be in a real exclusive relationship? Any tips, tricks, advice? thanks! (link)
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Tell him that you don't want to have a relationship with him if he has realtions with a lot of other girls, just mmake sure he knows your intetions in the relationship and make sure he knows what you want his to be. Hope it all works out ok!
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Ok so, I have this problem were I might fall in love with someone very easy, and when this happens I get rejected/ heartbroken like 99% of the time. Can anyone pleas help? (link)
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I have the same problem, except at first i got the guys i wanted but now i don't but i didn't know how to stop being so attached. But i would suggest you just leave that little thought in your head like well if this doesn't work out i can always do this, or something like that. The main thing is to not start automaticly thinking that it won't work becuase it can prevent you from trying to get the girl that you like. Also don't get the idea that it will work out all the time, because it can cause you to be heartbroken. You could also try tell her your feelings right away, that way it won't build up inside creating more heartbrake than if you would have told hr right away. hope i helped.
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I'm sixteen years old, I'm a virgin, I've never kissed a guy, and I've never had a boyfriend.
I feel like if I don't do these things soon, I'm never going to do them. I feel like everyone around me is so experienced in all those things and I'm still just a kid. I've gotten really depressed about it because I feel like no one wants me.
Am I alone in this? (link)
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Don't worry I'm 15 still a virgin! if you get a boyfriend and your serious things will just fall into place. Don't rush it.
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my boyfriend just asked me if i would dip..
but i honestly dont know what that means!!
he said.. you do know what that means right?
and i said yes.. and he goes do you want
to? but i have no idea what that means !!
im 14/f & so clueless.
please help me ASAP
cuz i need to text hiim back! (link)
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if you don't want your mouth removed for mouth cancer (lol i don't know if thats what tey really do) then don't do it! Its gross anyway
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First question is: Aren't oppinions the same as advice? Is an opinion just an indirect way of giving advice?
Second question:
I am considering a career in law as a defense attorney. My Xgirlfriend (XGF) said that defense attorneys cannot ethically do their job in the event that their client is in fact guilty if they know that their client is guilty.
She then said that it is incorrect for me, as a personal trainer, to give unsolicited advice to someone who is performing an exercise improperly(assuming that I know the correct exercise).
My XGF says that advice should only be given when asked for.
But she seems to think that a proactive approach is the only ethical solution to an obvious injustice.
My XGF thinks that the attorney example is somehow different from the exercise example. Is she right?
I feel like she has to be wrong since it is not possible to be proactive and wait for a solicitation for advice.
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As an attorney you are hired to make a point according to the person who hired you's wishes. It is ethical because you are not hired to say what your client did, you are hired to prove a point that looks in the way of not guilty. Your fine, don't worry about it so much. opinions are kind of the same as advice i guess...?
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Im just going to get down to the point. What could be a creative way of asking her out face to face? What do girls like to be complimented on? What really really turns a girl on?
I want this from a females perspective mostly. Thanks. I rate 5's.
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I'm a girl and I think it all depends on what kind of girl she is. If she's a girl that likes to joke around I would suggest using a corny pick up line, but if she's more serious try being honest like saying "You seem interesting and I'd like to get to know you better," or tell her how you feel flat out, no messing around. Oh, and smelling good always helps!
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