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E-mail: puertgr8@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Oneonta NY
Occupation: night supervisor
Age: 17
Member Since: January 13, 2010
Answers: 19
Last Update: January 21, 2010
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hey, my boyfriend gave me a really pretty ear ring and necklace set. Its gold and has a pretty blue topaz stone at the bottom and a baby diamond and there is gold little swish on it too. I'm not sure where he got it and that's the problem. I lost the ear rings and I want to replace them so that he doesn't know that I lost them. There is a little JCM printed on the clasp. either that or JCH?

do you know of anywhere that is called that? or something? any idea of where I can replace them? thanks so much (link)

Well all jcpeny jewlery have that logo so i would check there and if that doesnt work then just check any jewlery store in your area soemthing is bound to turn up there.


So the last time me and my boyfriend had sex (excluding today) was around about the 28th/29th of December. We tried to do two nights ago, friday, and it just felt weird for me, although we didn't do anything differently. And I got this really weird feeling in like my lower tummy which I've never gotten before. We tried again but it felt too weird :/. Does anyone know what's wrong??
I know I can't be pregnant because we had sex around the 28th and I got my period on the 9th January.
We tried today and I had the same feeling again but it was only for a while and wasn't as bad. So should we just try again next weekend? (link)
Maybe your feelings are changing that does happen. People know how they feel and the body reacts fromt that. And its an act of love so if something doesnt feel like you should reevaluate and question how you truely feel.


Ok so I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is about to be 20 years old. We always talk about how we can't wait to finally live together and start our own live together. Now the only problem I have is that I want to have a baby already. How should I tell him that I want to have a baby? He loves children and we have both talked about how we would like to have a large family together. I know that a baby is alot of work, but I feel that we are ready for it. Please help! (link)
In my experience as well as others it is best to be open and honest in a relationship otherwise there isnt much of a relationship to begin with. One day when the topic comes up to relate to it again thats when you tell him. Seek opportunity and fire towards whatt you believe in.


What are some cute nicknames for your boyfriend? (link)
Well it depends on what kind of guy it is and the relationship you have. You can try babe or baby, there is also sweetheart, honey or hun it all depends on you guys. Like my boyfriend always calls me cupcake so i call him sprinkles because he is the sprinkles that complete my cupcake, it all just depends on you guys and eventually the name will come to you.


To put it bluntly, im scared of having sex, i feel its wrong and i hav this new bf who has done it a few times. He keeps saying stuff 2 me but i just hate the thought of it. i know thats really immature but i do need help (link)
No its not immature i am the same way. Honestly when the time comes then you will know it is right and it wont feel wrong to you but not until then. Be honest with him bout how u are feeling and always stick to ur beliefs nomattwee what he says.


so im a 13 year old girl and i feel left out and i was wonder what are ways to get a good boyfriend but i mean really whats wrong with me beacuse iv been trying hard but really i just dont know what to do (link)
If you stop looking and just be who you are the right one believe it or not will come to you and you will be really happy because instead of forcign them to try to get to know you they are doing it on their own and they will realize who you really are and when that person does come that gives you the attention and hints that they like you dont reel yourself in right away make them work for it. Give them hints you like them too but like flirt and then walk away when they come up and talk to you and believe me if they like you they will follow and then when they asked what that was alll bout play stupid and be like what are you talking about for a couple of days then when they cant take it anymore tell him that you like him.


19/f
I've been with my boyfriend for about two years. We recently broke up for a few days but decided to get back together and try our hardest to solve our problems and change things. While we were broken up, he told me that if we didn't end up back together, he was going to join the air force. However, he wouldn't if we were still together, since he didn't want to be away from me for that long. I really think being in the air force would be good for him, and there's nothing else he really wants to do with his life. I love him a lot, and I want to do what's best for him and not be selfish.
So what's the right thing to do? End things now (I think we're just not ready to be in a relationship now anyway, we need time) so he can do what he wants? (I would wait for him no matter what.) Or do the selfish thing and stay with him? (link)
Talk to him and tell him that you love him and want to be with him but the airforce is best for him. Talk him into doing it and yet still being together tell him you will wait for him and that you reallyyyy think he should do it. If he loves you and respects ur opinion than he will.


Well, I've known this guy for 4 years he'll be 21 in March I'm 17 going on 18 in May. OKAY, here goes: he dated my sister for almost 2 years and they recently broke up in December 2009. He hates her, he wants nothing to do w/ her. She cheated on him 3 times and he knows. But she is the one who dumped him. & after they broke up he was telling me he was butt hurt and stuff like that because he loved her but then I remembered when he found out she cheated, he wanted to dump her, and she was crying and begging him for another chance and all that. But anyway, he knew I liked him I started liking him a couple of months before they broke up like around October 2009 and he knew about it. So when they broke up, we didn't see each other for a week or so and on Christmas he was all lovey-dovey with me and hugging me and holding my hand and I was remembering when I'd always reach out for his hand he would be like "What do you want?" and now he's always doing that stuff. So I guess you could say we're kind of dating but not official. He always calls me, he always wants to see me, and we basically do everything together. But I know he wants to take his time to REALLY get over my sister, but when do you think he's going to ask me to be his girlfriend? I've been waiting for so long! I know it's only been over a month but I felt as if it were much longer. What should I do? (link)
Personally i think you should give him as much time as he needs because the more time you are unoffical the more time it gives for your sister to get over it too. And thats a really hard an sticky situation and i don't have much advice other than to take things slow and talk to him about all your thoughts on what is going on. And how you feel and how he feels but not in an overpowering wayy.




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