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anyone have any birthday ideas for a boyfriend? (link)
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make him dinner and a cake. go to his house the night before and write happy birthday in chalk on his sidewalk. once, i gave my bf a fish for a present, lol. u could make him a picture frame and put a cute pic of you in it.
luv, SARAH
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How can a complete loser beat a complete winner? (link)
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They can't. You're just really confused and your loser qualities have clouded your thoughts and made you think you beat the complete winner, which you didnt. The complete winner will ALWAYS outsmart you and in the end, you will end up the total and complete loser you have always been, but with added idiotic traits and loserish qualities.
luv, SARAH
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How can I tell someone I like them without actually saying anything? (link)
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spend a lot of time with them, talking to them on the phone helps a lot, going out to a movie or dinner alone is good, treating them differently than you treat other people and differently than other people treat them shows you are different, talk to them a lot while smiling and flirting, write notes. you could just tell them you like them and ask them on a date-that might work. ur cute, give it a try.
luv, SARAH
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i know its stupid .. but i need help!! i have never been french kissed before and i think im ready, but i dont know how to do it! do both you and your boyfriend put your tounges in each others mouth or does one just put theirs in the others mouth? and how do you know whos tounge goes on top or bottom? I REALLY NEED HELP!! (link)
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heh...oh french kissing. french kissing is really great and since you're doing it with your boyfriend, you should be comfortable enough to try new things with him and experiment. sooooo...french kissing isn't that hard:
1. Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
2. Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
3. Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
4. Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional....BUT, Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood.
5. In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other person's mouth open using your tongue.
6. Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other person's mouth and playfully touch their tongue.
7. Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing, but it's your boyfriend, so don't worry. :)
8. If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
9. As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
10. Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.
Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose.
Be light, gentle, and sensual. If you are aggressive, be elegant about it, not clumsy-don't drill your way through.
Tips:
Don't forget to breathe.
Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.
If one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.
If both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.
French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!
The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing!!!!!!
luv, SARAH
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Hey, im the girl that asked about the whole guy not being in love with me thing. Thank you so much for your advice, he called me yesterday saying that he really did love me and he was sorry and so on. Thanks so much though i luv u! (link)
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aww, i luv u too!!! and im glad its looking better for ya
luv, SARAH
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There's no way in explaining what happened without using a lot of words, so I apologize. I'm 16 and female by the way. I just don't want the people that read this and give me advice to get the wrong idea about things. I've been with this guy for almost 6 months, and recently he told me he doesn't feel the love anymore and that he wants to break up. Me, being stupid, begged him to stay with me. He said that he wanted to take a break to see if he missed me and such. Throughout our whole relationship he was so loving to me and we've both cried over eachother a lot. He's being completely contradictive right now like after he said he wasn't in love with me anymore, a day later he said he still loves me just not as much as he used to. The other day he said in the really pleading voice..."lay with me before you leave baby..please?"..and he cried when he told me he didn't wanna be with me so what the hell is he thinking? I have no idea whether he's just lying to me or if he really wants to work it out in the future. I talked to one of our mutual friends and she said he's afraid to break up with me cause he doesn't wanna hurt me but a few people say that we've just spent too much time together and he needs a break to really feel the love again. We were with eachother almost every day for the past 6 months...I don't know. Someone help me. I know he's good at heart..he really is and I didn't want anyone thinking he was an asshole for what he said. (link)
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Aww, that pretty much happened to me. Ya'll really need to 'take a break', but that break may become permanent. He's probably just really confused or feels hes wanting something different. If he really, truly loves you, then ya'll will end up together. For now, just let him try out the break thing and you be strong. Remember, there are other guys out there that are as sweet and handsome as can be and this isnt the end of the world. i know youre hurting and you dont understand everything thats going on, but time will make it better. just please dont drag it out and painfully hold on like i did when i shouldve just let go in the first place. but, for you it may be different and like you said, if its meant to be, it'll work out. just follow your heart and hope he'll follow his. itll all work out...if not now then later under much different circumstances.
luv, SARAH
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hello all,
I am the ten year (idiot)well thats what I call myself! since all of your advice I have found myself sleeping with him again and feeling like things will get better, I have not moved back in with him becaise I litiraly cannot afford it, and that would make everything even worse!!!but I have been off work as im sure you can imagine I need time to think, But is it not strange that every night I cant get hold of him?? i know he is with another woman am I just thick???
Today is different I am going to stay away from him because I know he is a liar and a cheat I cannot afford to be dragged back in , how the hell do i keep strong and sane in the process????
23 london, going insane ! female (link)
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I have the best book for you! It's called 'ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives' by Dr. Laura Schlessinger. It's not a self-help book, i strongly dislike those; it's a wonderful book that changes your whole current perspective on relationships. It would tremendously help you like it has helped me and the best way to get through to you what i'd like to say is really all found in this one little fantastic book. It really is extraordinary. Anyways, i think you should put this guy behind you. This is very unhealthy relationship that you are better than. Don't just SAY you are going to stay away from him. So many women SAY they are going to stay away from the awful man theyre with, but the problem with this is that they end up saying this forty million times, and it never changes. Break away from your disrespectful, low-down lover and try self-accomplishment and core fulfillment. You are taking the 'female escape route', a term i picked up through the book mentioned above, and you are basically avoiding becoming an individual through attachment to this male counterpart. And, its taking you down with it. Don't let him pull you back in; don't let him pull the wool over your eyes. Don't let him disrespect you, lie to you, treat you like youre good for nothing, and especially treat you like youre just any other woman. Get out of the mess youre stuck in, clean yourself up, and go dance in the flowery meadow. heh, don't settle for less than what YOU deserve.
luv, SARAH
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Okay... let's say that you liked this girl about a year ago... and she liked you... and the two of you had plans to hang out the entire summer, and be to be together and have all sorts of fun. But then, for some reason, she decided to cancle and not even want to be your friend anymore... What would I do about getting her to decide to try things out? We talk on the phone every now and then and the conversations are great. I always ask if she wants to go to sleep or whatever, but she always seems to want to stay on the phone and talk, which makes me think that maybe she misses what we had?? What do you think? How would I go about asking her to reconsider and carry out the plans we had for last summer, this summer? How would I tell her that it has been almost a year and I am still madly in love with her and think about her every second of the day? How would I tell her that she means the world to me and that I want to be with her forever? Please help me out! Thank you! (link)
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Geez, this sounds too familiar. Well, her abruptness wasnt out of the blue and just because. I'm sure she had a very very good reason for the things she did and perhaps more than one very good reason. It may have been that she was interested in someone else or that she just found herself less attracted to you. These things happen, and you can't control other peoples actions and emotions. She still talks to you, so perhaps ya'll are meant to be friends and nothing beyond that for the moment. She knows how you feel, and i think she's already told you how she feels. Most importantly, if she doesn't want to do something, don't attempt to pressure her into it for that would only turn her off more to you. All in all, she obviously does not want to delve into the relationship any deeper. There are plenty other fish in the sea. Hold your head up high, smile, and try your cards elsewhere...
luv, SARAH
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