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That last one was for the bestfriend, but I honestly don't know what to do. So my bestfriend and I like the same guy, not to be concieted, but I think he like's me more. Age is just a number, but he's two years older. He's way way way more expierienced, and he flirt's with me face to face, but when we're talking online, it's like, ugh! But when he flirt's with me to my face, he always does the same thing with my bestfriend, who's always there. And if it's just me and him joking around, she join's in. Lately, i've been daydreaming about him too, I feel like a pathetic fool ): And i have a problem with always putting other's first, HELP! please (link)
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I don't know the guy, but...my advice is to not act upon this. This guy, if he flirts with both you and your friend, sounds like he's a player. There's an age gap too, and that sounds like it'd be awkward for your friend. I know it's hard, but it'll probably be best for both you and your friend's emotions to get over this guy.
good luck!
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hi iam a 24 mum of two who has been struggling to find any easy answers i am still in love with my first love who is in another state, but i have children to another man do i stay for my kids or do i follow my heart and go home? (link)
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with your kids
you can't just leave them
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i like this guy at my new school he's totally cute and captian of the football team we've been talking almost everyday through texting and online and a little bit at school, i have no classes w/ him so it's hard, but i don't know if he likes me. I don't want to freak him out by telling him I like him yet and I don't want to just ask him..any ideas? (link)
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ah, before i start on my advice, i want to say that boys are silly and stupid. if i didn't love them so much i would go lesbian for all the heartache they've caused me.
so i think you should start talking to him at school more. body language can say a lot about someone, so pay attention to what he's like around you: are his pupils dialated? is he leaning towards you? does he touch you somtimes when you guys talk? and when you talk to him, do you have insightful conversation, not the same i hate math or something? most likely if he likes you, he'll trust you enough to talk about stuff more trivial than just normal stuff. and I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH. if you think he likes you, make a move. most girls have this thing that they always wait for the guy to make the first move, and it's totally idiotic. if he likes you but hasn't asked you out yet, it's probably because he is afraid of rejection from you...a LOT of guys are like that for some reason.
so ask him out. the worst thing that could happen is rejection, and think about it, most guys do it about 10 times more than girls do it. and if he does reject you, it WILL hurt. you can't stop that. just know that if you were such good friends before without him likeing you, then you can still be. it doesn't HAVE to be awkward!
anyway, good luck with that. i'm having a bit of boy trouble myself at the moment, i might just have to follow my own advice lol.
i hope he likes you :D captains of football teams tend to be hottttt as hell!
it would give me hope that i could get through my problems :D
i hope i helped!
Catherine
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well ive been dating my boyfriend for like three days now and i really want to french kiss him cauz kissin is the best part of any relationship with a guy....well besides sex but i dont want to do that with him, well not yet.....but when would be the appropriate time to kiss him?
one more question i kind of bragged a little about my kissin skills so if theres any pointers you could give me i would appreciate it! thks (link)
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cmilner is TOTALLY correct.
you don't plan it out...it just happens.
good luck with that i guess.
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What are some signs your boyfriend is falling out of love with you? (link)
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i don't know, maybe its just me, but if it is possible for someone to fall "out of love" then they weren't really in love in the first place. for me, love is everlasting and can't be broken.
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do some punk rock guys like black girls? just wondering.. ive been flirting with this boy for like 2 weeks now. hes a skater and im a black girl..i wouldnt say im ugly but idk. one day hes like super superr sweet and walks me to class and gives me long hugs and the next day hes all bleeehh. idk anyway are punk guys into black girls at all? or does it depend.. (link)
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you can't really generalize stuff like that. like everyone has different tastes, you can't just generalize by what clique they're in. if you give a bit more information about this guy then we could probably find out if he does, but by just saying hes punk rock that doesn't say anything at all. it just says what kind of clothes he wears and music he listens to...you can't assume he likes/dosen't like you just because of that.
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I like this guy, but i dont know how to let him know. I'm super shy and i cant go up to people and just out tell them, so....i dont know how to tell him without "telling" him...help?
~Melissa~ (link)
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I had like the same kind of thing on my hands at the begining of this summer. what I did, was I got up enough courage to tell him on AIM one day...it turned out he didnt like me, but he was really nice about it. the point is, though, you should tell him, but if you're too scared to do it, do it over e-mail or AIM. You'll be a lot braver that way!!!
hope i helped
~tack~
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Hey so thairs this guy i really like (i mean alot)and some times he flerts with me at lunch and i flert back and today one of his friends came up to me and said he liked me right in front of him but he said he didint, and my sister was makeing up stupid jokes like you two are gunna make out and stuff and all he did was smile and i not 100% sher he likes me plzzzzz answer me i'll rate 5's plz plz plz!!!!!!! and if he dose wut should i do? (link)
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Sorry to breack it to you, but he's probably just flirting with you because he thinks you're hott (or sumting to that affect). But on the other hand, if he does like you, then he's probably too scared to tell you in front of all your friends (and maybe his). If he likes you, than you should totaly go for him! If not, drop him like a hot potatoe!
Hope i helped
CKat
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hey whats i need help.... see i like this girl and all but when i asked her out she said yea sure but then i felt uncomfurtable with her i dont no why..so i broke up with her like 2 wekks after i asked her out. so then i liked her again i dont know why but i did then she said yea and i still felt weird with her... so do any of you guys/or girls have any tips for me to stay with that girl instead of just playing around with her (link)
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Well, I like this guy who I think has the same situation on his hands. If you like this girl on and off, you probably dont like her, just think shes hott or pretty once in a while. There are tons of girls out there that you would probably like for a long time, and not just on and off. The point is, I think you should break up with her.
Hope I helped
Cat
P.S. whats your name (just making sure ur not the guy i like)
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I swear something is wrong with me. This happened last time and it's happing again. After like the first 2 days of going out with a guy, I don't want to go out with them anymore. I don't know why. I just stop liking them as much as before when we weren't going out. I almost made an excuse not to hang out with my boyfriend today but then my other guy friend (B) wanted to come along and I wanted to hang out with him so I went and hung out with them. Supposably "B" likes me. Before me and my boyfriend were going out, B said he would go out with me if he knew I liked him. At the time I thought of his as a close friend, but now I think I like him instead. I just kept denying that I liked him. We've been friends for a bit and dated way back in the day, kind of. well not really... it was one of those stupid little kid relationships where you barely even talk to your significant other.
Anyways, I don't know what to do! We've only been going out for 4 days and I'm already wanting to break up with him. This always happens to me. I hate breaking up with people and I don't know if I should. Ughhhh. I can never make up my mind.
This Friday my whole grade is going on this trip and we are going on this romantic night cruise. It'd be fun to share it with someone I actually like-like, and I think that may be "B" and not my boyfriend. Arrgghhhh. My goddddd.
What should I do? I'm not sure if I like him anymore and I'm not even sure how to tell anymore if I do. Has this happened to anyone else? (link)
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I think you have sumthin like when you are shoping. You love crushig on this one thing, but when you actually get it, you like wanting to have it more. Mayby you should try not having a bf for a while, so maby you will change.
hope i halped,
cat
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