my name is ashley. i'm a really open person who usually can make anybody laugh! i love who i am and i dont change for anybody... i think calling somebody fake is useless. i hate when you people try and "change" others! its retarded. i'm honestly confident and if i love somebody, i'll easily tell them.btw, i'm single. most people, well that i have heard, respect me for who i am in a lot of ways. i'm well known in my school for having good character and always, always helping anybody. i dont believe in popular. in fact, i hangout with everybody
Gender: Female
Location: chicago :]
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Age: 14
AIM: cutayxindaHOUSE
Member Since: June 13, 2007
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hi friends, well i am very much confused about certain things and that is....though i like girls and do enjoy their company, yet at the same time i also happen to get attracted to boys and men i.e. of my gender. i believe i am a bisexual! but sometimes i do feel like i am a lady and i do fanatsize me being that. this really does embarass me. i don't know what to do. I am CONFUSED!??. kINDLY advice. (link)
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dont be embarrassed.
knowing your age would be helpful
though because if your lets say
14 or 15, your still going through
puberty and sometimes your hormones
go crazy =D dont get too worried.
take it step by step and see if you
still are attracted to guys after
a while. =D
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Ok, you see I just hooked up with my ex-bf that I havent seen since I was 8. BUT, before we went out, this other guy asked me out at the pool, i said yes. But I know I'll probally never see him ever again. But I want to know if Im cheating because Ive never cheated in my life. If I am what should I do? SHould I break up with my bf I havent seen since I was 8, or forget about it because I know I'll never see the guy who asked me out ever again. (link)
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i understand why your concerned.
but seriously, forget about the
guy at the pool. you pretty much
answered your own question. you'll
never see him again, so why worry.
and if someone wants to say " OMG
you are cheating on that guy " ,
then they are wrong. =D
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i feel like im ugly or i am too pushy or my standards r too high...idk i have only started dating when i was in 5th grade the longest relationship i have been in has only lasted 3 months.....now i had a bf that i really loved and really cared about and i still do but he didn't want to be tied down cas basically he wasn't finished fooling around and well our relationship lasted 3weeks and 1day i still having feelings for him and i tryed goin out with other ppl but it just didn't work out i don't know what to do.
so basically i am asking what should i think about if i want to have a long lasting relationship and how should i act towards a guy?
plzz answer asap (link)
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i think you should be yourself and just go with
the flow of the relationship . dont try to make
it perfect or anything. a lot might happen when
two people are going out & you just want to ride
along with whats happening. when your dating a
guy, try to talk to him everyday but dont keep
bothering him. plan some dates together, but dont
go overboard with that. give him space. no guy
wants to be tied down. let him know he has your
trust by not keeping him on a leash. also, give
him freedom. dont get mad at him for "flirting"
with a girl. like 3 out of 5 guys are flirters.
its just how they are =D
acting towards a guy:
be flirtatious(if he's single)
dont look slutty or sleazy
give him compliments
be confident with what you say or do.
hope i helped babe.
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Lay 'em on me girls! I want all your beauty tips - no matter how weird! Of course the guys can help too, but I though this would be more up the girls' alley!
What I mean is - I recently found out how amazing you look after tanning, or what a HUGE difference tweezing your eyebrows make! And if someone would have just told me this sooner I could have saved myself a lot of tears, i look 10 times better now and in 10 days I've gotten more boys than I ever have in my life! (i used to be bullied, boys wouldn't even look my way!)
So help me - tell me what you've got?! Any discoveries that completely changed your life (or atleast your look!) ?
Thank you! It could be anything from eye-make up to ... well, anything really. Haha :)
Thank you and have a good summer! (link)
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http://beauty.ivillage.com/archive/0,,13-4-5,00.html
they have a lot of tips on girl stuff..
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okay...im datin this guy named michael lee....i like him ..but im havin second thoughts cause its like everytime were on the phone..we hardly talk...then on 6/13/07 i met this guy named Kaleb..he is sweet..we have alot in common and when i say a lot i mean alot....we could hardly stop talking the nite he called me...we can talk about ANYTHING....unfortunately he lives in Hawaii..but if i say with lee im gonna be moving to MD so it still wont work...i jus dont kno wwat to do...
HELP!!!
HELP!!!
HELP!! (link)
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For One - how did you meet kaleb?
if he lives in hawaii, then how do
you know him? where do you live?
For Two - do you even know if he likes you?
dont end a fine relationship on a silly
" maybe crush ".
For Three - just because you and your man
dont talk, doesnt mean that you guys arent
right. but, i do get what you are saying.
maybe he isnt the one. but again, this kaleb
doesnt sound like a great guy to date...
you actually sound like you'd be better single:]
(not to be rude)
so do this ---ยป
find out if k. likes you.
if he does .... then spend some
more time with him to make sure
that hes the right guy...
if k. doesnt, try and see if you and
m. are a good match & that you stiill like him!
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My boyfriend is going to parties since school has ended. You know? Those high school parties and then he talks about going to those college parties. It really bothers me a lot :[ He's quite handsome and I'm sure he wouldn't do anything with other girls.. but girls have always flirted with him and tried to do stuff. I don't want something to happen. I know.. he's going to get high, drunk and whatever. It bothers me a lot and I don't know what to do... I'm afraid something might happen.
But I know that I can't tell him.. he can't go.
Is there anyway that I can distract myself? (link)
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to keep your mind off of what he's
doing, hang with your girl friends:]
have a girls night out & talk about
some other crap thats going on
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first of all sorry for the length
so i have a bff her name is china and another and hes a guy and hes absolutely gorgeous! ive had a thing for him ever since i can remmebr. well one night there was this party...with alcohol..well im sort of a good girl so i left because im not a alochol person..so anyways the next day i asked my frined maggie what kind of scandals happened and she told me that my BFF slep with my GBF(guy best frined ok lolz!) anyways so i was filled with so many emotions...anger...dissapointment...rejection...hurt ...anywyas so i found out like 2 weeks later that china is pregnant and my gbf (maxwell) is the father. i was soooo angry and hurt and dissapointed and sad...so i went to him and i told him how i was so dissapointed in his horrible decision and he said he didnt mean but he was just soo shitfaced i mean seriously! ugh so then right there he confesses his love for me... i know like the OC right? anyways i was so sad i simply said "my heart cant bear it" and walked away. well hes been getting help for the past 4 months because since ive rejected him hes been drinking/cutting and everything..and china had an abortion... well now hes back and he looks SOOO GOOD
its almost like nothing happened! well hes having a sweet 16 and i wanna tell him my feelings because i havent gotten over him but my probelem is
im wearing a strapless dress and no panties ... what shoes would go good? the dress is puke green with sparkles IT GOES WITH MY EYES!
also..i have horrid bacne.. anysolutions?
oh and do you think he likes me? or do you think the people he was with when getting help told him to dump his friends??
HELP! (link)
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sweetie, this guy got your best friend
pregnant... c'mon, you seriously want to
start a relationship with him right away?
go ahead and tell him your feelings, but i
would seriously stay away from this guy. not
saying he's in terms "bad", but he def.
sounds like a guy that could screw you over.
even if he did get help, it probably didnt
improve his attitude towards people/girls.
in my opinion, i dont think he likes you.
he might, but after being away for a while,
he probably moved on. so your relationship
(if you still want it after my advice) -
will take a little longer to develop .
hope things go well :]
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this is a question for girls or guys...but i am really really scared about my relationship with my boyfriend...so i need some experienced answers.
how can you tell if a guy is still "emotionaly attached" to his exg/f????
thank you (link)
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usually a guy will definately flirt with
this ex or always talk about her. for
example... if you guys are talking about
school - he could bring up what a great time
she is to be with! your guy will probably
invite her to parties or etc. although some
people might find this "bad", i have done it.
take a peek at his cell phone. if his recent
calls are from this ex, then you know they
are obviously still keeping in touch...
if you think he is interested in her...
either break up with him or just tell
him . he'll either tell you... or he wont.
good luck babe!
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