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14/f...so there was this guy who went to my school for the past 2 years but didn't come back this year. i liked him soooo much it was crazy and i flirted with him all the time. he liked me for part of the year last year and then stopped. everytime i think i'm over him i find myself liking him again. then, this year, at my friend's party, he was there but he didn't talk to me the whole time but we kept looking at each other and i found out he had a girlfriend. it was so awkward and ever since then even talking online is awkward and i don't know what to do because i want to be friends with him still even though i know it will never go farther than that but i feel like we can't talk anymore. what should i do??

you should be the one to 'break the ice'. i mean like say something hey i miss the way we used to talk or something. cause it seems like he may be too shy to say something. so you should say something first. he will probably be relieved that you finally said something.

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So I am pretty much head over heels for this guy. I made an an ass out of myself, but I told him he was a total hottie. I've been wayy too nervous to talk to him. Whats something that I can talk to him about? Sorry, this is kinda hard to put into words. He is friends with my neighboor and might come over this weekend. Any sugesstions of what I could do?
Thanks in advance.
All answers get a 5 =]

you should like go outside if they are outside and walk by and whatever. ask them to hang out. but get a group of girls to like hang out with. so it will be less akward. you could i/m him which is much easier then in person. but if your up to talking to him in real life then talk about sports if you both are into them. or food? or something you both enjoy. friends maybe?

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I really want to find the right guy

don't rush love. you seem like a teenager, if you are, you have plenty PLENTY of time. don't worry about it. someone will come. you want someone who wants you back. he will come soon enough :)

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i am only 12 and my girlfriend is 16 and she wants to have sex and i do but i think she will say im very small what do i do

well you should talk to her and tell her. if she really likes you then she will understand.

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Well I am dating this really nice guy and I was talking to a very trustworthy friend on the phone and she said that somone likes him and told me their name and I was like their a hoe its no comparison to me and shes like well she offered him head and I was like so, so she was like well have you and I was like no ofcourse not and then she said shes after him, if she offers him head again do you think he will say yes what should I do? He dated her once and all they did was makeout but do you think that now she will try to do more because hes now my boyfriend, hes really sweet and super cute. I just got out of a bad relationship and I dont want this to be like the last one. Please help.

well if he would go and cheat on you and whatevs. then you should dump him cause hes obvisously not worth it. but all that matters is that you two go out. not him and the hoe. the hoe probably just wants to get you jealous. just totally ignore her. that hurts way more then saying something to her.

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Well i like three boys and two probably likes me back but i dream bout two boys and but 1 might not like me bak i really do not now which one to pick because they all are sweet but one has a reputation of playing girls what should I do?

well you should def. not go with the kid who has the reputation to play girls. because you don't wanna be played. if that is the kid that doesn't like you then. you only have two left. but if there is the kid that you like but he doesn't like you back then i would just go with the one that likes you back. confusing i know. but try it. just do whatever you think feels right. whose the one that you feel the most comfortable with? ya know? stuff like that. well hoped i help :)

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ok i have a boyfriend who i know im in love with and he is pretty much perfect but i just started a new job and there is this guy their who was the first person to actually talk to me and he helped me out a lot and now like we just talk a lot and he is really easy to talk to and im really quiet so its usually hard for me to talk to ppl and he is really sweet and no matter what he can always make me laugh and make me smile when im having a bad day and like if he is a work i totally forget about my boyfriend and i really dont know what to do because i feel like as much as i love my boyfriend i cant help but be intersted in him and even tho he is not the best looking guy but his personality makes him so cute and i doubt i have a chance with him its just like when we are both working like my goal is to flirt with him and get him to notice me no matter what is this bad?

i know excatly what you mean when you say personality makes him cute. lol but to answer your question. you should wait and see what you think is right. if you think that being with the other guy is better then being with your boyfriend. but yet again, if you and your boyfriend are totally in love then i would stay with him because you know that he def. has feelings for you. unlike the other guy who you just flirt with. check my drift? hope i helped. =)

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16 f. sophmore likes sophmore guy as well. never had a conversation with him. hell i doubt he knows i exist. but i still want to approach him.

1) He is scene or w/e and is quiet. he seems almost depressed. he just sits there at lunch with a friend or two and does nothing(though he is kind of popular) hes medium height. super skinny. pretty smile :]
2) i dont dress scene or goth or punk or ghetto or preppy so ive no clue wtf i am. im very shy. not too quiet but a lil quiet. short. im a lil chubby and i have a pretty face(like that matters all that matters are a hot body)

when i approach him what should i say?? could we ever be compatible? should i just give up all together? and how can i get him to notice me?
Sorry its long i rate 5's, thanx.

maybe you might know a friend or someone who talks to him on a regular basis. you should tell them to bring you up in a convo. nothing like she likes you or whatever but something like my friend, yourname, blah blah. something intersting about you. or you can i/m him online. its wicked easier than in person. or even if both of you have a myspace you could comment/message him and say hey i've seen you around school. i have gotten closer with tons of kids from schoool just through myspace. well good luck. :)

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okay.. this may be long..
I really like this guy. We are best friends to like, the fullest extent. He is also my ex-boyfriend. He is known throughout my school as "the flirt" because he flirts with EVERYONE. Well, he is always telling me about girls he thinks are hot and who he likes and how his relationships never work out and like, how he wishes he could just have a good relationship that isn't shitty. We tell eachother everything. He came over a little while ago and we were hanging out and he started kissing me. To say the least, we began to make out. He came over again a few days ago and we were hanging out in the same place and we were really close, and cuddling and stuff like we did the other time but he went in for a kiss and i told him i promised myself i wouldn't make out with him. he understood. ive been trying to get over him. so we just hung out .. cuddled and stuff still but didn't make out. we kept getting closer and i couldnt help myself..we ended up making out again. but in between that, he kept saying things like "i dont want to love you" and then he was like "i don't want to makeout with you but i can't help myself" and i was like "why" and he was like "i don't know. i don't understand myself.. but i can't stop myself from loving you" and this was basically in between breaths and he was kissing my neck and stuff. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO

he probably has feelings for you but doesn't know how to tell you besides kissing and making out. you obvisously have feelings for him too. but if you don't wanna be in a relationship with him or whatever you should stop yourself from cuddling and what not. he would probably get the idea. but if your okay with all of this, then you should tell him that you like him. if its awkard just to get out there and say it then just keep doing what your doing. but make sure he doesn't think that your just a girl for kissing and making out and make sure that he knows you want to be taken seriously.

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