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Hey, my name is Nikki i'm 15 and i go to NHHS (Go Lions!!)I like hanging with my friends, talking on aim and SPANDEX, HAHA ALYCIA!!!!
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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend (link)
Tell someone,she'll thank you in the end.


i started liking this boy right after winterbreak. he started liking me too and we started hanging out alot. we went out for a little bit but then broke up. then he started liking one of my good friends. now he like sme again and im still crazy about him. i dont know what to do. i love him to death. (link)
Trying going out again.I know someone who when out with this guy four times and teh fourth time they were together for 6 months. Best of Luck!


i've been going out with this boy for like 6 months now, but my friends want me to stop going out with him and they the ones who wanted me to go out with him in the first place.they say i'm spending to much time with him and i hardly get to see him.

I need advice (link)
Maybe your spending more time with him then you are with them and it's makes them feel like they lost a best friend.


ok plz answer this seriously
my friend is only 14, and her boyfriend is 17 , and he asked her to marry him last week , and she said yes. and she still hasnt tld her mom or dad about it.Should i tell her parents that she's getting married? Is it lik wrong to get married at 14 nd 17? What do u think of a 14 year old grl getting married to a 17 year old guy?



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They should wait til ther older to get married and when he turns 18 it will be illeagal.


Well- My boyfriend and I have been dating a few weeks now, and i was needing some help. he was talking about this the other week- he wants to make out.. i'm 14 f. What should I do? He would be my first one? what if I mess up? does anyone know and techiques to help the guy get into it? what do i do to make him know i'm into it.. i'm scared.. ugh please help.

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There are websites that have a lot of info on your first time making out, but when it happens you'll just know what to do! Good Luck and don't be nervous!


Alrighty. There's this guy Adam, and him and my friend Michael came up to me a few days ago, and Michael said Adam thought I was cute and he was going to ask me out. Adam ran away. Adam's getting closer and closer to asking me, but always chickens. I want him to ask me out...what do I do? (link)
have Michael tell adam you want him to ask you out!


This boy in my class told every 1 who i liked and now I dont even like him n e more because he's going out w/ to otha grls. so every 1 thinks I like this juvie that i really dont like.
Wut shood I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! (link)
Get even, revenge is sweet!!!


I have a major problem. I'm best friends with this guy. The only problem is I have a crush on him. Do I tell him and risk losing our friendship or do I not tell him at all? Please Help! (link)
Tell him!


What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you? (link)
stops calling


Recently, I watched a scary movie with my best guy friend. I get scared easy so I clung to him, plus he had really good colonge on. Now everyone thinks I like him and that he likes me. I don't know if I do. I mean I like hugging him and how he holds me and stuff. So, my question is "Do you think I like him," cuz I don't really know and I just want to get an idea if I'm giving off the vibe at least. By the way, I'm female and 15. (link)
yeah, you definitely like him.


My boyf & I have been together 4 2 months ... yet he has a problem communicating his feelings openly and honestly. W e have both had a rough and not so nice upbrining, we have both been put down numerous times by our step-parent's.

Whenever he does it's because he has consumed alcohol and he has a tendensy to use unneccessary 'ugly' descriptions of what I am to him. For example he has called me 1 of the most dis-interested lover's he has ever had ... and then as always the next morning he is very sorry and asks for forgiveness ... it's the same old story over & over and it's getting too much 4 me to handle ... (link)
He needs to get help, he is verbaly abusing you. It might be hard but if he doesnt get help and this continues you should break up with him. Good Luck!


I've been crushing on this guy for 3 years. but we've also been friends for 5. I wanna ask him out but im afraid that he will think of me as a friend and no more and say no. and if he says no then it might be awkward around each other. Any advice on how to find out if he likes me with out blantly asking? and what are some ways to sort of lead him on? Please answer! 12/f (link)
Well, have one of your friends go up to him and ask him about you, if he'd ever go out with you. Flirt Flirt and Flirt, just flirt with him and he will get the hint. Good Luck, hope everything works out!

P.S. Let me know what happens!!


Hi i am 17 and female and really quite shy, i would like some advice on how i can tell this guy that i really really love how i feel about him, i already know him and kinda friendly but not as close as i would like it.Help somebody! (link)
Get his sn or have a friend talk to him for you. Good luck!


well i like this boy in my class. He`s really cool and smart and funny nd everything , i want to ask him out but i feel that he wont like me or that he`ll say no and it will make it worse for me knowing that he`ll never go out with me. can you give me some adivce?! thanks alot (link)
Have a friend go up to him and ask him if he'd ever think about dating you. Good Luck!


Last night i was making out with my boyfriend, and the only thing i could feel was his braces. Can you give me any hints to avoid these jaw of life? (link)
Ask to him to put wax on them!


Somethimes i feel like my boyfriend is only with me to get booty . I dont know what to do cause I really love him and I dont know if I should tell him how I feel. Please Help!!!!!! (link)
stop giving him booty and see if he's stil around!


ok well theres this guy at my school, lets call him joe, and hes liked me since 1st grade! i dont know if he does right now because i havent talked to him in a while but anyway i like him now just completely randomly. i dont want to tell my friends cuz theyd think im stupid cuz i never talk to him but i cant really help it.last year he had his friend ask me out but i said no because i was at a dance and i completely misheard what hed said and now i feel really bad. i want his sn but im afraid to go up to him randomly and ask him for it. i dont think he has one anyway.but i dont get to talk to joe because i never see him as school. what can i do about this? (link)
Ask one of your friends to ask him for his sn!


I've been going out with this guy for about 1 month and a half. He cusses me out every once in a while for stupid reasons. But other days hes as sweet as can be. 3 of my friends say I should break up with him, but I love him a lot. Today, when school was out, he seen me and stayed like 50 feet from me and wouldn't even come over and talk to me. It's like he always trys to ignore me. It's just weird how he can be nice one day and an ass the next..whats wrong? Is it him or me? What should I do? Should I listen to my friends? Or stay with him?? I really love this guy and I don't want to break up with him, but everyone says its for the best i just don't want to though!! 14/f/tn
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It's tuff, but i would break up with him if i were you so you don't get hurt more. Good Luck!


hey, i like this guy a whole lot, and he likes me 2. we are really close friends, so we dont wanna go out cause it may ruin our friendship, but we still like each other. what should i do? its kind of driving me crazy, but i dont wanna go out w/ him either! thanks, hope this makes sense! (link)
I say go out with him, i went out with my best guy friend and it only made us closer. Good Luck!


Okay my problem is i cant ever come up with anything to talk about on the phone with my boyfriend and i feel really bad about like im boring him and i feel like our relationship is about to end because of it please help! (link)
Talk to him about how his day was, make plans for the weekend. Good Luck!




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