Hi my name is Kayla aka musicmaniac94. I love helping people and giving them advice. If you need any advice on anything, I'm willing to help. I don't have the perfect life and I'm far from it too. I know how it is in relationships, family, friends, and other situations as well. I've been through a good bit of them. I hope i can help everyone with whatever they need. thanks :)
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Age: 17
MSN: musicmaniac_94@hotmail.com
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Well ive been with this guy for almost 2 years. We broke up about twice so far. The first time i managed to get him back and he told me that he missed me and realized he still loved me. But it was also partly because i gave into him and gave him bj the two times we saw each other while broken up. But its cause i asked him straightforwardly the thirdtime when we were about to do it again. But the three months togwther then was mostly us doing sexual stuff like up to third base and thats it. But we didnt have much time to just bond and talk. Were also a bit long distance seeing eachother only once in a week or two. But this time he broke up with me again giving me a bunch of excuses. His friends even told him that we wouldnt work out which i think possibly influenced his decision. But his friends dont even know me because my parents are strict so i mever got to meet his friends. But well a month of no contact with him then the second the month ended i started talking to him and asking to see each other for closure. But once i saw him it wasnt closure but me asking to get backand being desperate. Then he blew up on me saying we should just let it go now hefore it gets even harder to let go later on and that hes trying to move on. Then i stomped out yelling i just dont get this. Then he texted me a day after explaining that he feels like hes in the relationship for sex. And then from tere we judt argued back and forth because i got hope from that. And on saturday i lashe out on him ecause he asked this girl to prom when he knew i still liked him and i wanted to go to prom with him since junior year. And then he lashed back put on me. And then we argued intensely until thursday. Because on thursday he told me the modt hurtful things like im annoying him that he cribges when e sees my texts and that everything was in the past its over and that he takes back all the hope an consideration he gave me a few days ago when he really thought of possibly geting back together. And that im lucky he hasnt blocked me yet. Well to be honest i feel so hurt but i still want a try but im scared to hear hurtful things. But i want him to be with me again. Idk if i should move on talk to him or what i should even do!!! I honestly want some possible way to slowly get his love for me back again. (link)
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Sweety, you need to leave this boy in the past and move on. You don\'t need him or the negativity he is putting on you. Breaking up is hard especially when you don\'t have a good closure. The best thing to do is do for yourself. Take this opportunity to go out and enjoy life to the fullest. Take a roadtrip, go shopping, whatever!! It\'s all about you now. :) I know this is hard, considering everything you\'ve done together in the past but it\'s time to move on and take time for yourself. I hope this helped.
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okay, so i am 15/f and i really want to ask this guy out. he is my age and we are practically best friends, i have put my head on his shoulder and have held hands with him at a ballgame and we talk all the time. i really like him, and i am almost positive he likes me, but i have always initiated things. should i wait for him to ask me out? or should i go ahead and do it? i dont want a relationship where i have to hold his hand through though. If i should ask him out than how, his birthday is on wednesday - should i suggest something for then?
thanks for any advice (link)
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It sounds like you two are really close. The best thing about relationships is the best friend perspective...at least that's how I look at it. If you feel like he's the one and your heart isn't just playing games with you, then I'd tell him how you feel.
When my boyfriend told me that he liked me more than a friend I was overjoyed because i liked him the same way. but I wasn't ready to be in a relationship. The wonderful thing is he told me he'd give me all the time in the world. I felt bad but I made him wait a whole month until I was ready and here we are 16 going on 17 months later.
the reason why I am telling you that is because just in case he really likes you but he's not ready to be in a relationship, give him time and let him know you will wait. Not only will you be relieved to know he likes you but he will feel so much better knowing you are not going to rush him in to anything.
Also for birthday idea, you don't have to give anything materialistic but you this could be the chance to tell him you like him more than a friend. But a cool idea would be, go do something you both would enjoy. my boyfriend took me out to eat and then we watched a movie for my birthday. it may not seem like much but you'd be surprised just how wonderful it makes you and your other feel.
good Luck!
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im 9 years old and im a girl i have a boyfriend and i dont know if i should tell my parents if you think i should how? (link)
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Sweetie, being 9 years old and having a boyfriend is very young. If that's what makes you happy then that's very good. But maybe you should introduce him to your parents as in what the other advice giver said.
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Hi, I'll try to make this as short as possible and get right to the point. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and we're completely in love with each other. He has a lot of friends that are girls, which is not a problem of course since we trust each other. But, lately, this girl has been really attached to my boyfriend. She keeps leaving him comments on his facebook that are paragraphs saying she loves him, he's her "bestie" and is always there for her, etc. The thing is that I've only met her twice and I'm always with my man since we live together, so when did she suddenly become best friends with him?
That's not what has me jealous, though. A few days ago my boyfriend told me that this girl wants to use him to make her estranged husband jealous. She's been tagging my bf in posts, saying she's at his house "as usual" and that my bf is giving her money and they're getting matching tattoos. We have a lot of mutual friends, so I have a lot of friends hitting me up asking me if my man is cheating with this girl. i think it's immature no matter who the man she's using for it is. I mean, come on, she's in her thirties and she's using Facebook to make her husband jealous?! Ugh. So my bf asks me two nights ago if it's okay for her to write his name on her ring finger with hearts, and for him to do the same on his ring finger with her name. Then they want to take a pic of it, post it on Facebook, and make her husband think they're tattoos. I said I didn't want him to do it, it's stupid and disrespectful to me as his girlfriend. I'm being humiliated with y friends thinking he's sleeping with her. Of course, though, i look like the big bad bitch for saying no. My bf said that I can't take a joke.
Sooo my question is.. Am i right to be jealous over this? I mean it may not seem like a big deal but I'm a laughingstock to my friends right now who think he's cheating on me with her. When i'm not with him and she puts up statuses saying that she's laying in bed with my boyfriend I can't help freaking out thinking is it true? I think she's being very disrespectful to me as his girlfriend, but am i right to think that? Should I confront this girl? She's very pretty, which also puts me on edge due to my own insecurities, bu she's also very obnoxious and cocky. She thinks she's the hottest thing on earth. I just don't know what to do! My bf says he doesn't like me getting jealous but i never get jealous over his friends.. It was only when this girl started texting/calling constantly, leaving those facebook messages (she constantly refers to him as baby and says i love you.. my family sees that), and now this STUPID ring thing. Am i right to be upset, or am I overreacting? (link)
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Your boyfriend and his "friend" have a lot of growing up to do. If he really loved you, he wouldn't be doing this to you. You have every right to be upset. You need to tell him how you feel about this. He's your man and your "property"( I'm using that lightly) and this "friend" should keep her boundaries. It sounds like she wants your boyfriend and will do whatever it takes to get him. She needs to grow up and deal with her problems like a grown woman and keep your boyfriend out of them. You need to let him know how you feel about this situation and if he can't respect your feelings and how this impacts you, then sweetie, he needs to go. I'm sorry if that seems cruel but why should you put yourself through so much pain? i hope this helps.
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17 male
My girlfriend is currently on her one month trip.. She left June 22 and I will see her July 24..
She spent a couple of weeks with family on her trip and the rest of the trip is with her old friend who she had to move away from. Soon she will be back.. But lately I feel like I am going crazy, before she got to her friends house she seemed fine, she made time to talk to me and she texted me normally and seemed happy and seemed to want to talk to me.
Now it has been a week since she got to her friends house and I feel like I'm losing her.. She is always partying or something and she doesn't make time to talk to me and if i was in her position I would try to talk to her and she hardly texts me.. but I noticed on her twitter she started to text her guy friend that lives here where we live and she doesn't even seem to see my tweets about her or like today I posted on her wall that I love her.. she never seemed to notice and I barely ever do that but I just noticed that. We have been together for 3 months. I told her how I felt and that I felt more friends with her cause of how she treats me and the other night we took a break, well space from eachother and she said she wouldn't do anything with any guys so I believe her but I just feel like I am falling apart and I don't know what to do..
I felt this way before with another girl where i felt i was going insane. I never figured out how to get over it. I have been cheated on before and I think that has caused part of it. I'm not sure what to do to make it these next 10 days from ruining my relationship and i have cried alot lately and I don't normally do that. Any help is appreciated and this isn't the full story cause that would take forever to type out but thank you for help (link)
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Okay, so I can understand not answering a text because of being busy...but for this situation, something's up. It's not right for her to be brushing you off like this. You need to find know if she still has feelings for you. You also need to remind her that you're still her boyfriend and don't appreciate being pushed a side. If she keeps making you feel like this, the best thing to do is to find someone else instead of hurting yourself like this.
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Hi my name is Haley im 13 and im from Georgia I like this guy and ive liked for going on 2 years and idk how to ask him if he likes me i know its not the proper/right way to make the 1st move but it seems like ill have to does anyone have any suggestions..? (link)
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Hi Haley,
I know this feeling, but maybe the best thing to do is get to know him a little more. Although, 13 is a young age to want to date someone. Anyways, Hang out or do something together. I wouldn't tell him at first that you really like him...but if you do, ask him if he likes you the same. If not, don't be upset. It's a big world and there's probably someone very special waiting for you somewhere. But if he does, start out as friends and work your way up to "more than friends". Reminder: Don't rush into things. Being in a relationship takes a lot of time and work between two people.
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