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I'm a sophomore in high school and my new-ish (3 mos.) boyfriend is kind of starting to drive me nuts. I really, REALLY like him, but he texts me about a million times a day and he asks me every. single. day. if I want to hang out with him. Like I said, I definitely like him, but I don't want to spend every waking minute with him and I'm running out of excuses...Help much appreciated :) (link)
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Dear loved one
HELLO i wish i where you you know how many girlfriends would kill toi be in your sheos a few yeah but if i had a boy who would love to spend evry min.of thier life with me i would take it ..
Look hang out with him ..you call him first make him feel how he makes you feel
hugs & rockeTTs
niitamoh
xoxxo
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So my last relationship was crazy and I really liked this girl. She seemed to be completely truthful and honest. Her friends were not the best though and towards the end of my relationship it turned out that her friends led her to cheating on me with 3 different guys within one month. One of the guy's sisters was the one who finally told me the truth. So me and her had our long time dispute and I finally told her I regretted it all. I know you can say that it wasn't her fault, that her friends made her or talked her into it, but I'm pretty sure they didn't put a weapon up to her and forced her. She has a mind of her own and can decide herself. I thought she was different. Well after I told her I did not want to be friends anymore and that I no longer wanted to hear from me, she still texts me and tries calling me and keeps telling me how she misses me. I sang and recorded a song for her once and she says she has it as her ring tone. Sometimes i reply and ask her if its because she still has feelings for me but then thats when she goes on and tells me she doesnt feel anything for me and is glad she ripped my heart into pieces. Its so immature and confusing. I seriously dont want to deal with her anymore. I graduated and she was one year under. I havnt seen her since the day of the breakup, but im going back to the school with some friends soon just to see how my old teachers are doing and I know for sure that if she sees me shes going to try and talk to me. I seriously do not want to talk to her and have told her millions of times. How should i deal with the situation if she does come up to me or tries to say something to me? (link)
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Dear you,
Hello i would love to have some one who cared i think you should be friends with her have your limits .. And find a new girl who would really care for you
hugs & rockets
moniitah
xoxo
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Im a 19 year old female and I've been dating this guy on and off for about 6 years now and it started in high school. He used to treat me so well and I loved him. I felt like this was the guy I was going to marry but then he just changed. He started to cheat on me and I would just look past it because I thought he loved me and he would never do that to me. After a while people started to realize that he was cheating on me so I felt stupid and we broke up. We kept getting back together over the period of time but then he met this new girl, Katie. I didn't really care at the time because I had a new awesome boyfriend who treated me way better than my old bf ever did. Then when my ex broke it off with his girlfriend katie, he came running back to me and I loved him so i dumped my boyfriend and went back to him. The same stuff was going on but i loved him so much that i just brushed it off. As i got older i realized how dumb i was being after he didnt come back to me like he always did. I wasn't going to wait around. So for these last 6 months we havent been together or have talked to eachother or anything. He and his gf Katie broke up and he added me on facebook. I thought that he was just trying to do it to make his gf mad because he always used to do that so i didnt answer him. He kept trying but i didnt answer. Then i seen him at a party and he managed to get back into my life. He started texting me after he left and since then we have started dating again. Everything was going so well and he was treating me like he never had before. I was so happy and i thought that he finally came around and realized i was the one he wanted to be with but lately things have been so different. We had an amazing New Years and he was so affectionate towards me. It was fabulous until it just changed one day. we were at a party and he was ignoring me and just be rude to me and saying really mean things. He finally said something just completely out of line and i just walked out of the party. I stayed outside of the garage because i heard him talking and he was talking sh*t about me! I couldnt believe it. Usually when he is mean to me he always fixes it. I thought that when he left that he would text me or something but he didnt. I told myself that i wasnt going to be upset about it but i just cant help it. I am so heartbroken. I thought that i was smarter and stronger than that and i let him back into my heart and he just completely broke me. I can't talk to any of my friends about it because they tell me i should have known better. I just really need someone to tell me something positive and what i should do. I feel so alone and upset. i could use somebody. (link)
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Dear lonley,
Hello i see your passing for troblee her im a make plain and simple..D.U.M.P. H.I.M
Your passing troble im sorry this is happaning yu dont deserve none of this ..I belive you should go your way aand avoid him ..
*hope you take my advice ..
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Okay, so I'm only 13 and in 8th grade, and well this guy.... well he has a gf and he is a freshman and he sends messages while he is dating this girl.... and IK cuz he did it with me and lied and said he broke up with her and I believed him! But anyways he let me get on his facebook and thought he was smart and deleted the inbox, but he didn't delete the sent mail..... and I looked at it and I thought I was special but I saw he had messaged all these girls while he was messaging me.... And he is STILL doing it and he DOES have a gf.... and I want to know if I should tell her, cuz IK I would want to know but I don't want to do it out of revenge or anything or hurt their relationship..... but I even copied the message he was sending a girl.... Gerry December 24, 2010 at 12:40am
i would kiss you on the bus
Gerry _ _ _ _ _ December 24, 2010 at 12:42am
well night sexy if you want i would kiss you on the bus if you didnt tell anyone and if you came up and sat by me. night sexy get on tomorrow.
and said that to another girl, but like I asked above this should I tell his gf? I don't think she will believe me.... but I hope she will. :/ Oh and he tries to get girls to send him pics he begs and begs...... and trust me he has gotten some..... (link)
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Dear wise one ,
im 13 too id sudgest get him back play the game with him ..Ok im a master mind for this stuff this same thing kinda happned to me. all you have to do is if you have a phone tell him to call you then at school act like if you do even like him and act like if he not the only one on your list .
And i think if you plan on doing this you syhould proble tell his girl first because i dont think she would be really happy if he kept on with his little games be hind her back and i think it would be nice that you also told her cause if that was me id thank you for letting me know .
hugs & rockets
moniitah
xoxo
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So hers the story so far: I'm 13 year old girl & i have a MAJOR crush on this guy named Nathaniel. I have been told all sorts of things like that he's gay(which i don't believe). Well his best friend asks me if i wanted to go out with him while we were in the band room. I told him I did & he goes & tells Nathaniel. Nathaniel just nods & walks out of the room. Just recently I've started having dreams about him & some of them made no sense. I honestly don't know what to do. My best friends Cayley & Riley keep taunting me about ho I'm falling in love. What do I do? (link)
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Dear confused
Hello young love ,i have excatly the same age i know what the feels like its dificult to get over some one at the young age i know and what i did is that ive asked that person by my self if the feelig was mutual he said yes he had a girl so i said anti quote good for you to him so id be like mean in a nice way but he kept on liking me so id ignored him and he still one day i told him i know you like me can you please stop knowing that i cant be with you hurts me so we began to be friends and now i see him as a brother .. When ever i start falling in love with some one deeply imagine kissig a brother ...i know eww thats the way i got over him it was hard but i did it ...
Hope you find your way too ..
hugs & rockets
moniitah
xoxo
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Is it ok for a guy to hit his girlfriend, even if she did something to piss him off really bad? (link)
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Dear bad relationship ,
Hello its not ok for you to struck your lover many reasons come upon this you may not have the same affection towards each other she may not feel as confadent as before to tell you things and also for a more helthy relation shi its much better to talk calmed in a orderdly manered way !
hugs and rockets
moniitah
xoxo
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Soo I'm back from some R&R anyway.
I'm going out with a guy who's younger than I am by one year (I'm a sophmore& he's a freshman) recently I told my mom this cause I really like kwami, and she deserved to know. She knows what he looks like and started making funny of me for dating someone so dark he was "purple"; no she's not racist but I love my mom. And I'd really like it for them to get along. What should I do to make it work ??
Oh..and kwami (his name) wants it too wirk too.
Thanks!! (i'm 15/f he's 14/m) (link)
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Dear young dater,
Hello ..Maybe cause your mother is the type of mother that belives she only knows whats best for you well ..i belive that you should bring him over one day that shes their and tell her show her have a cualatiy mommie meets your boii time lol..
hugs and rockets,
-moniitah
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My ex boyfriend broke up with me, and immediately said he regretted it however he hasn't done anything about it
I chose not to stay friends n cut him out completely n he's so annoyed about it. He said when you see me you ignore me you don't even say hi. Why is he bothered? And he keeps trying to get me to stay friends with him n I don't know why (link)
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Hi ,Well good of you of moving on but i belive the reson why he wants to keep you as a friend is that maybe he thinks that if him as a boy friend wasnt all for you ..then he try to be your friend to treat you better for you to think oo why did i leave him or some thing like that or maybe say he has changed for you to give him another chance ..maybe those are but i belive that you can be his friend its really good to ge friends with an ex but have limits ..
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I fell in love with my best friend. I didn't tell him because I know he doesn't like me that way. The problem is he says he's in love with this girl, Grace, who our whole gang knows is not the right girl for him-she drinks,she smokes and she's not that bright- but he seems too blinded to realize.
He doesn't hang out with us anymore, it seems like he doesn't even care. Even my other guy friends notice that. The painful part for me is that, I have to watch them every single day.How he looks at her how he acts around her and every single time, it's like a part of me dies.
I asked others what I should do, and they always say that I should tell him how I feel. But the thing is I can't. I'm too afraid that it'll just ruin our friendship,and I cannot risk losing the only thing we have left. And besides, they're together now. But i still need some help, so please tell me anything I should do. Teach me how I could start moving on and letting him go,because I sure am not doing a good job at that now.Please HELP ME, thanks a lot. >:D (link)
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Hi, Im sorry to hear that well you should tell him its much better ..Some times people blive that love will just appear out of the blue but the truth is love dosnet hide love is under your nose when that persons realizes who his really wants to be with then maybe you to will decide.I say 1st you should maybe tell him you say that he dosnt like you that way what if he hides his feelings what if he is using this girl because hes trying to act like if he dosnt care ..I Think its worth it youll never kno untill you try and if it affects your friend ship then maybe .. Just keep on living..I had a lot of Best friends (boys)That feell in love wit me they had told me but that didnt affect any thng so go ahead ..Dont worry i belive you can do it !
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i was with this guy, we made out a lot, i gave him a boner,and we dry humped. it didn't work out so we diceided to be friends and that worked. last night he started talking to me and telling me he wanted me to show him my boobs and that i was amazing. i got sort of mad at him for this because he can't just want to be friends and they say that. right? (link)
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HI , UMM he can say that but he has no right to do that he only wants you sexually i think you should problably maybe should stay away from him its obvios hes only want you for your body ..
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16/f.
i've been with my boyfriend for around 7 months. he's the person i lost it to and everything.
he's a gangster and not the best person for me but I still care about him and everything. he told me he loves me and all this bs a few weeks ago. I believe him but i don't feel the same way yet. Today he got mad at me for not telling him what was wrong with my best friend. He's been having family issues and has been really stressed out so i kind of understand but this is the first time he's ever been mad at me and it's really stupid. I'm not quite sure what to do about him anymore. this all happened in the morning and like an hour later he came up to me and this girl that he's always talking shit about and acts like they're best friends. I use to be close to that girl but then I found out she's very scandalous and was trying to get at everyone's boyfriends. I'm not sure what to do about this situation. He seems sad yet he's acting like a jerk. bipolar much? Advice? Thanks in advance (link)
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Hi ! im sorry to come out the blue like this but dont you belive he might be having relationships with her . It sounds like he is .. I kno this how my brother has 2 girls when he started to go out with his "best friend " i notice every time his girl would come over he would get al frustrated my mom talked to him but he said nuttings wrong hes been a little bad latly and so the best thing that i consider is talking to him if he his he says yes well screw him leave theirs more boys in the world too go around !
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