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how do you make out?? as in....use your tongue?? thanksss

well. it depends. everybody does it different. you can use as much tongue as you want. its your choice. just start by kissing and slowly work into it. it'll happen on its own without having to give it too much thought. just dont be nervous and focas on it. that kinda kills it. you need to be wanting and willing to do it and everything should just fall in place as long as you feel comfortable with the person.

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If im somewhere, (like the mall) ill hang out with 1 boy and well flirt but i dont like them. I mean i do but not enough for like a relationship or anything. And after that day, i dont think twice about it. But my friends totally think i like the person...like that i want to date them. i know my friends get the wrong idea, but do u think the guys get the wrong idea?

I don't think you have anything to worry about. Flirting is pretty innocent and everything but I guess it depends on if you really know the guys you're flirting with and how much you flirt with them. If you see them all the time and always flirt with them theres a good chance they'd think you're into them. If its just a few random guys you don't know very well then it doesn't really send a strong message.

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not really but please please help



ok well i used to have this boyfriend last year, we broke up in december and through the summer,( though i didnt see him that much) we were still friendly i guess.. so now schools started and he acts like im not even there.. some times even mean..
i really miss him, everytime i look at him i remember all the cute things we used to do, i really want to go back out with himm..
soo
how can i let him know i like him ?
and when and how should i tell him i still like him and i want to go out with him ??

well...it sounds like hes sending you a signal if hes acting like your not around or being mean. maybe you should try to forget about him. find someone new who will make you happy. i kinda know what youre going through and i know its not easy but you cant live in the past cuz you'd just be missing out on what the future has in store for you. i hope things work out for you. just do whatever feels right.

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15/f well i was going out with this guy (17/m) and he was perfect in every way and we really did love each other and we went out for about 5 months everything was perfect and then my cousin (14/f) started hanging around and crap with him and it got so crazy and we broke up and he went out with her but he told me today after 2 weeks of them going out that he made the biggest mistake of his life and he didnt no what he was thinking and he i can tell really is sorry. and if this was any other girl besides my cousin i would of course take him back but my cousin "thinks shes in love" with him but i dont think so because hes really mature and she just isnt like she said i love you to him like 5 minutes after they started going out and she has her mind on it that she is really in love with him, and i would feel bad because this would be her first heart brake but im extremely in love with this boy and she just got herself in the middle of our relationship... so i just want to know what other people would do if they were in my shoes?

If I were you I'd give your ex a second chance. It sounds like your cousin didnt take your feelings into consideration when she went for your guy. If shes immature and telling him that she loves him when she really doesnt the chances are she wont be too crushed if they brake up because shes not truely in love. She'll get over it when she finds someone she really loves.
If your ex is truely sorry and you decide to get back together with him I suggest you make him prove that he's loyal and true and wont hurt you again. Dont set yourself up for heartbrake. If you really love the guy and you know hes an honest person then go for it. Do what makes you happy.

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pls help me out. i have a girlfriend which i so much love, but the problem is that she is having another guy,and it seems that she loves the guy very well.please what am i going to do, i dont want to lose this guy.

It's not worth it. If your girlfriend is cheating on you with someone then she isnt worth the time. Trust me. I can some what relate to your situation. Ive been played and cheated on before and the last time it happened it was with the guy i loved the most. but if shes messing around on you now and she says shes not gonna see him anymore and it will never happen again, how can you really believe her? If she did it once what would stop her from doing it again? and if you think she loves this guy then you should really go look for someone else. There are so many people out there. You should go out and meet new people and you might even find a new girl and fall in love with her and she'll love you back. You deserve to be treated with love and respect when youre in a relationship. Getting over some one you love is one of the hardest things to do, but in the long run its worth it because you can either try to move on now or have this problem dwell on for a long time and each time you see her you'll get that same feeling and you'll always remember how much she hurt you. Keep your head up:) I know you'll be fine. Maybe its just a sign that she wasnt the one for you. There are other fish in the sea.

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