Member Since: March 22, 2007
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Last Update: March 27, 2007
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i've had a rough childhood and i never told anyone how i felt.i never wanted to be the girl who had problems.i was well known in school as the goofy kid who had alot of friends.but little did they know i was a cutter.raped by my father,and my mother was barely home.i started to cut at the age of eleven when they finally found out what had happened with my father.i only saw him once in my life and that was how he showed he cared.......now,im so alone.i dont trust anyone but myself.i dont know what to do anymore but i need someones help.......i cant keep it in anymore.please help me..... (link)
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dear you have been through very rough times keeping all this pain inside you all these years and it takes a lot of courage to open yourself up and you have shown that courage. and trust me once you pour out all that has happened to you and how you felt all this time you will start to heal. you need to realize that you didn't do anything wrong and the person responsible for this, the man who considers himself you father, needs to be punished if he hasn't been yet for ruining your childhood. i strongly suggest that you talk to a therapist they are the best ones to help you deal with this. they can help you get over this and move on with your life. you don't need to cut yourself any longer to ease your pain....find a therapist call him/her and take the first step towards your new life. i know its hard to think that you can get over something like this...no one can completely....but there is life that is beautiful and precious and is waiting for you...and you are the only one who can help you get there..it is going to be a struggle but i feel that you are strong...very strong...don't let the man and the memories that ruined you till now ruin your future...fight for yourself and remember if you ever need to talk to someone i am here :)
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Ok.. I have this REALLY REALLY BIG crush .. (this is kind of embarrasing) on this guy on youtube. Like I wish I could meet him cause he seems like the perfect guy! He's sooooo funny and when I look at him it's like "this is the perfect example of what my perfect guy would be like". I even get jelous when other girls on youtube post comments with like "your so hot and cute omg". I know he's my age and everything. I even start to cry sometimes cause i'll never ever get to meet him. Also I cry because he has such a good personality and i'm so shy and even if I did meet him I would seem like a loser. What should I do about this? Should I try and forget about it? (link)
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well it seems like you do have a really big crush on him...you could just try to forget about him because you don't really know the guy or if the real him is perfect for you and everything...or.....you could try to get to know him n decide that for yourself if you really want to and what better way for doing that than youtube itself!! make a video response to his latest video in which you tell him how you like his videos and everything and tell him something about yourself....and who knows he might reply to someone who actually made a video for him rather than just leaving a comment about how "hot and cute" he is!!!
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What does sun lotion actually do and do to your skin? Is those things that say SPF15 and stuff a sun lotion or are they in a different category?
If you wear a lot can you prevent getting a tan? (link)
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well sun lotion or as its usually called a sunscreen lotion protects you from sun's harmful effects n yeah that includes tanning. The "SPF" is called the sun protection factor and its rating represents how effective it is...the higher the rating the better it works....spf 50 is supposed to be pretty good but watch out its pretty oily so you wont wanna put it on your face...spf 15 is good enough for the face.
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