my name is matt, im 17. im in the 11th grade at cape central high. i belive that God has put me on this earth to become a pastor, and to lead people to him. if you ever need anything, got any questions, need someone to pray with you, or w/e. email me, or ask me.
God bless
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thank you so much for your response.
it meant alot, you seemed to care more then anyone else!
and you helped me look at the big picture :) !
-ash (link)
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any time. im glad i could help
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This is long, please read it all, I need someone to actually listen to me.
Hey. I was always the girl who said, you can't fall in love as a teenager. I was against it, and even hated people who claimed they were.
The summer before 8th grade, I started talking to this guy, we'll call him "Bob". We innocently flirted, nothing much. In about septemer, still of 8th grade year, he started going out with his girlfriend, (we'll call her "Becky"). I wasn't too upset, I mean, him and I didn't even get serious. Then about two months later, he tried talking to me, more then a friend. I kept telling him to stop. More months passed, he still had his girlfriend. They'd been going out for about 8 months, i still tried to tell him no. Then about mid year of 8th grade, I starting flirting back. (Bob and Becky had sex a few times over this time period, crushed me, cause I starting liking him ALOT.) Then we just kept our relationship flirting over texting. Now i'm in 9th grade..and ever since december we've been REALLY serious, like we're in love, and we said we were in love before we ever hung out. (Is this possible?) He was about to leave her for me. So around mid March, "Becky" found out we'd been talking for more then half of their relationship. My life was at stake. She was PISSED, and of course I felt very guilty. But we only emotionally cheated, not saying it's right, but it's better then physical. So when she found out, she left him. He told me, baby now it's just me and you FOREVER. about a month later, he wasn't really texting me anymore. and i asked why..and he told me he was back with "Becky". MY heart broke. It was the worst feeling ever. Couldn't breathe. Didn't care if I didn't take another breath again. And when he finally told me, they'd been going out for 5 days already, why wait that long to tell a girl you "love"? So for the next two days we didn't talk. Which was so hard, because I usually talk to him from 6 a.m., til 10:30 p.m. ALL DAY EVERYDAY. no breaks. so my routine was gone. I HATED HIM. (yet still loved him..) The third day, I begged for him bag, even if he stayed with Becky. I needed him in my life. Even if I had to lower my worth, and standards, to be with someone who didn't love me enough to be with just me. Two weeks later, BECKY CHEATED ON BOB WITH HIS BEST FRIEND, (hypocrite much?) and she accused him of cheating with a Vanessa girl, and left him. This was in mid April. So since then it's been me and him. At first we never walked down the halls, cause Becky's friends harassed me. AND I HATED BEING HATED, so i have to be in love, why else would I go through all this trouble, right?? So for the last two weeks, we said hell with it, and went public! He meets me at my locker, kisses me in front of everyone, and tell people he loves me. And I feel the same. But somtimes, my feelings go crazy and one minute i love him, the next I don't feel any thing anymore. It's nothing he does..it's just my mind..is there a way I can stop that?? And last night, we went to my best friend's party, and it was our first party together, and it was amazing. he held me all night long, and when we dropped him off at his house, I started crying hysterically, cause I wont see him for two days. We were hugging, and he's like "bye wife, i love you." and "isaid i love you too," and tears started pouring down. And ever since last night, I know for sure I'm in love. Like I'm 15, but I wanna marry this boy. I've went through HELL AND BACK to get him, and if we end, it's all for nothing then..right? If you read this, thanks so much! :) (link)
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wow. thats deep. first off. his ex is a bitch. (btw im a dude) i know i aint suppose to be talkin like that,"God forgive me" but wow. shes about like my ex who dumps me and starts dating and having sex with my best friend. but its w/e. well its good yall are finally together thats good. but i wanna warn u of something. don't dwell on this, but just keep it in mind. if he hurt you before there is always a chance he'll do it again. he may not. idk. time will tell. but just don't get to deep with this guy. keep in mind your 15, not 35. you have all your life yet to find love. so just be cautious is all i ask. but it's good you did find someone you like being around and all that. that is good. but my best advice for you right now. would be, watch how deep you get into the relationship with him, keep your feelings in mind, and his. need anything else. let me know.
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hi. im a guy and i have been going out with this girl. now i would realy like to start moving in this relationship but we havent had our first kiss. i dont know whens the right time and what to expect and i dont know what shuld i do like what if i do something wrong. hope you can understand. i need of lots of good advice. thanks. (link)
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brother. women and relationships, are like playing chest. sometime you don't know which way to go. but thats good that yall had your first kiss, im happy for you. and basicly to answer your question, do what you think is right. and always be yourself. i've learned through out life that all the good women want a guy to be hiself,love the girl, and they wanna feel safe. now thats just the general rule. every girl is not like that. but if yours is, trust me brother, you'll know. hope i helped.
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How and why do guys get over breakups so easily? (link)
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man i wish i would get over the girl i was with easily. BUT, didnt work out that way. so it just depends on the dude. we're all different
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Hey everyone,
I was "together" with a girl for over a year (meaning i never had the balls to ask her out). Then I actually asked her out and dated her for about 6 months. Out of the blue she decided that she doesn't feel the way she used to and she left me. 6 months later, I realize I still love her and she just wants to be friends. I don't know if I can handle being stuck in that frame of mind. what should I do? (link)
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oh my brother i know the feeling. im goin through somethin like that right now. but i've come to find out, not awhole lot you can do. it takes 2 people to make a relationship. but my best advice would be, suck it up, for awhile its goin suck. but you'll be alright in the end.
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(1) my boyfriend and i threw a party and he madeout with two gay guys and got a huge hicky from one. so i kissed (a little more than a peck) a gay guy to show my boyfriend how it hurts. So did i cheat or did he cheat?
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um.....how do you say.......DAMN!
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okay, well through one of my good friends i met this guy and us for hung out for a while and anthony told me his friend thought i was pretty. so we talked and i gave him my screen name and he said he was realy starting to like me. then we decided to be friends with benefits or how ever you say it. we hung out again with my friend [girl] and his friend [boy]. we made out a lot and he got up my shirt. after that day he said im think im becoming emotionally attached to you. and i was kind of too. so we talked almost every night for an hour or two on the phone and he said he wanted to take this relationship to a higher level. like [hand job and finger.] n all that. i neverdone that stuff before so i am nervous. i dont no if its my nerves or if i just dont wanna do it. so i told him i only do that with people im serious with. then he said i dont no if i can hang out anymore bc he has to go out with his mom. excuse or not ? (link)
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oooooook. back the truck up. im goin start from the bottom of your question. sounds to me. now this is just me. hes a horny ass boy who needs his butt beat with a belt by his momma. thats just me. you're only 14. dear God in heaven. only 14 years old. my sister'sabout ur age, and if i heard of her doing that kinda stuff,she wouldnt do it anymore. now read this very carefully. girl, you're only 14. you still have your whole life ahead of you. that kinda stuff, fingering and hand job w/e, leads into BIGGER things. not good. if you keep doing what you're doing now, you will be pregant by the age of 16. guarntee. and this world cant handle to many more younger girls(14,15,16,17 year olds) getting knocked up. your probally what, in the 8th grade, some where in there. probally not even in high school. heres somethin to think about. food for thought. lets say you did get knocked up. pregant w/e. your in 10th grade. just started high school. you're 6 months in or so. your starting to get alil bigger. people start to talk. you then drop outta school to get away from all the people and their judgements againist you. you have the kid. you're like 16 years old at the time. you dropped outta high school, and you have no job to support this child, and the dude who banged you says its not his. damn. thats pretty powerful stuff isnt it? i could go on and on and on.... but im not. and this lil story started with alil fingering and hand jobs. if you belive in God, and do go to church, bible says that sex is only to be done to have children, AND NOT FOR PLEASURE!. not because you love one another....NOT because you're "horny" but only to have kids. hope this helps.
-God bless
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all answers will be appreciated but from a guys point of view. are they more attracted to innocent non experianced girls or kind of wild ones? thanks! =] (link)
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well, some dudes are different than others. for me.. i like alittle of both, BUT you got some of these wild crazy girls who do stupid stuff and it dont really work out in a relationship. just depends on the dude. hope this helps.
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15/f
Guys: if you like someone a lot, would you definitely ask her out... at some point?
Also, I sometimes ignore guys I like (immature, yes)... do guys ever do that if they like a girl? (link)
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personally if i like a girl enough i will ask her out. and yes guys ignore girls sometimes, becuase either we're stupid, shy, or playin hard to get. now me, i do none of the above because im a straight up kinda dude. hope this helps
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