I have a wonderfull 19 month old son and a fantastic boyfrien i an a stay at home full time mommy
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Location: Nc
Age: 18
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So this guy asked me to the valentines day dance and it's next sat! I'm not gonna lie I really really want to impress him because I'm starting to really like him. We both like eachother but I'm pretty sure I like him more than he does me. He also likes one of my friends and his best girl that's a friend. They talked bout it a while back and don't want a relationship with eachother until way future if ever because they love their friendship. She's told me he likes me and he already knows I like him. He could have asked her to the dance but asked me instead! Also he very artistic and drew me a picture which I love and in his french class made me a card along with making her one but they're just friends and I know this for sure. It wasnon French but he told me what it says and it says be my valentine on the end. Mushy I know but I love that. How can I impress him?! I really like him and want that to be mutual!! Ahh please help! (link)
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Well you never know because every guy is different and they have different ways of being impressed. you should just be yourself and have a good time. look hot be outgoing and dont let there be that akward silence keep the conversation going and have fun
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Hello im 19 and my boyfriend who is 21 wants to join the army/military. Not full blown army but like working with computers and such. He asked me what i thought yesterday and it was kind of a shock. He said him and one of his friends were talking about joining and he convinced him to go. He basically is just waiting my "approval" but i want him to do what makes him happy. He said after he goes for basic training he will only have to leave one weekend out of the month for like 2 years. Im not really sure how anything works. He just brought this upon me yesterday. The only downfall is that he will be gone for 10 months touring afghanistan or something. We've been together for about 2 years now and 10 months is a long time and i dont think we can go without seeing each other that long. He is basically only going into the army for the money. We are very serious and he said when he comes back he'll have money so we can plan a wedding and maybe some other big stuff. If he goes i dont know how im going to cope with him being gone we see each other every day! Any ideas or suggestions? I do rate!
-Thanks (link)
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You should let him do what makes him happy because it will make you happy in the long run. just let this be a test to see what happens, then imagine how great that feeling will be running up to him after not seeing him for so long. dont worry it will all turn out great. i hope that helps
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So i met a new guy on new year's and we've been talking and things seem to be going good. He texts me everyday and we've hungout maybe 5 times since .We were hooking up the other night (just making out) and he tried to go further with me and i said no and he was fine with it and i told him "im not just a hookup,im actually looking for a relationship" and he said "i really do like you,im not an asshole and im not trying to just hookup" So i gave him the benefit of the doubt but i didnt do more than makeout with him..thank god.Ever since then,we've been fine and he would text me and stuff but i'm just still scared that he's only trying to hookup with me . He's been kissing me in front of people and holding my hand and whatnot but i'm just still worried since that's what happend with my last guy.I guess attraction is the first thing in getting to know someone because i just met him about 2 weeks ago so i have to give it time. I'm also wondering if im being to easy..like when he texts me,i always write back and i haven't blown him off to hangout yet..but i haven't done anything more than makeout with him . I basically just need some advice on whats going on so far.I've never had a boyfriend and this is the closest thing ive had to a relationship since my last guy. Thanks so much : ) (link)
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Well you've already it the first step tooken care of telling him your not ready for that so when you guys hang out just to do fun stuff like go out to eat do out door stuff dont stay at home and send him the wrong message just have fun when the moment is right you'll know . just let him know not to put any pressure on you
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okay so just to warn you this is long.
19/f/nj
Well ive been talking to this kid i went to high school with,we actually started talking about 2 months ago through facebook,text,call. We didnt talk much in school but since we've been talking these last 2 months ive gotten to know him and he seems really great.WE hung out once before college winter break and that was about a month ago.We havent hung out since ive been trying to hang out with him but hes been sick and ive been sick as well but i just feel like its just an excuse to not hang out with me.We talked on the phone about 4 days ago and he seemed still interested in me (I mean we've been texting for the past 2 months almost everyday) he was away at college but he's now going to school close by so that played a role of us not hanging out in the beggining. He usually always texts me first but ive had to do it lately, like we might not talk for one day because i didnt text him and then if i text him the day after that then the day after i text him he will text me. I feel like were in a tennis court going back and forth. He seems to always hang out with his friends and never asks me to hang out since he's been back home. He also got out of long term relationship about 2 months ago. My sister says that he is probably using me as a rebound but we havent even hung out and he talks to me almost everyday so i dont get.I texted him yesterday asking what he was doing he replies with hey! hanging out with my friends how about you? and i said oh i was wondering if you wanted to hang out but alright have fun. But then like on new years i was away on vacation and he wished i was there and said well we have plenty of time to hang out and he always says stuff like that.Im just so confused right now i need advice what do you guys think? is he using me,does he really like me?
thanks! (link)
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I always say be straight up about if ask him he wants to hang out. he might not want to jump right back into a relationship yet. and thats good your not a rebound in that case. give him some time to his friends and them ask to hang out , not in out on a date, hang out. just be his friend maybe thats what he wants
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I dont have much space so I'll try to make this brief... I've been knowing this guy for 5 years. The first year I knew him he tried his hardest to try and get me to be his girlfriend. I always rejected until he gave up and started going out with someone that was actually paying attention to him. They ended up going out for a year and in that year I had also gotten a boyfriend. The guy was upset when he found out since I always told him I didnt want a bf. During that year that we were both in relationships we still kept in touch. when he broke up with her, my bf and i had also broken up. so we started talking again; about 3 months later he tells me his ex had called him and hes confused doesnt know how he feel for her... whatever. I told him he can go figure it out but I wasn't gonna be there... so he would break up with her to come to me and stop talking to me to be with her he was always indecisive so I just stopped talking to him, about a month later he calls apologizing for everything hes put me through,etc. Things were perfect for a couple of months. then i call him to put things on a break because I was busy with school and work, unfortunately i let him speak first and he says he's going to take my advice and just have fun, he was going through something sort of like a depression and i told him to just have fun. I didnt mind we still kept each other posted on what we did through out the day etc. then about a month later he goes away to see his friend for his bday, little did i know that one of our mutual friends that i met through him was going to be there. she had made out with him in the past but they both assured me it was nothing, after i see she had posted the pics on facebook i ask her and after a couple of hours of speaking she admits they made out. i keep seeing she puts pics of them up and idk if its to get me mad or what. a couple of months later we happen to be in the same place at the same time and we go for a walk, he tells me the real reason why him and i stopped talking was because he was getting attached almost falling in love and it had scared him,after that my friends told me i shouldnt see that girl as a threat because maybe hes just using her. we already had 4 years knowing each other/ talking/ being a couple though it was on and off. It just got me upset that it seemed as if he gave her so much attention, even invited her to his school upstate. i shouldve know she always like him because she had applied to the school he was previously in, thank god he had already transferred out. he always calls. texts me randomly and i guess its just to keep me in his radar, but why. I had never had sex with him until a couple of weeks ago and he was actually my first. He's still keeping me at a distance and just bothers me randomly. I had deleted him on facebook but sometimes he writes things about me to his friends or to me through a post on one of our mutual friends pages. he's also been saying unnecessary things about one of my friends that is doing a video blog with one of his friends. I mean I try not pay any mind, to anything and then he would start mentioning my name... very immature acts. idk if he does these things to get my attention or what so i act like if it doesnt bother me and just ignore it. I just wish he would come to his senses and just commit. and whats the point of these immature comments? and whats the point of that stupid girl that he did something with? (link)
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Well first of all that girl seems like nothing but trouble. there could be a couple of different reasons why your friend is acting that way. maybe he is sacred to commit to one person you should talk to him face to face about it dont be shy because if you cant talk to him about this you should be together in th long run. you want some one who you can communicate with easily. its also not a good sign if he used another girl because that means he could be taking advantage of your friendship so be carefull. at the same time everyone makes mistakes you need to think hard can you see a future with him is, that what you want.
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