ask lornashly



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



Well I joined this website so I can get some practice with my career . So be free to ask me anything . Im willing to listen feel free to email me or write me on my aim .
E-mail: Ldiva223@tmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: queens new york
Occupation: I want to become a phycologist
Age: 16
AIM: Ldiva223
Member Since: September 27, 2009
Answers: 23
Last Update: August 22, 2010
Visitors: 3052

Main Categories:
Love Life
Work/School Relationships
Love Life
View All

Hello ,

So okay , show story is me and this guy hung out we met up after 1-2 years and so , we did things got phsyical. And I went down on him and his thing was hanging out while I went up to kiss him and it was on me , but the thing is I haven't gotten' my period yet , am I pregnant?

Please help:(
Thank you ,
Betty (link)
Don't worry as long as the penis wasn't in the virgina there is nothing to worry about , the reason your period hasn't came is because your stressing over the fact that you think your pregnant. Just relax hun


Ok so I just got into a relationship with this guy. He is really sweet and cute. Last night we were chatting over facebook and he told me he wants to go to the movies and finger me when we are there. I am 13 and i wanna know if i should? and if i do what should i know.. when he does is my cherry gonna pop? And is it gonna hurt? I think he only likes me to have sex with me but I am only 13 im not ready to have sex.. Ok well Please Help Me! (link)
Okay let me start off by saying any boy that wants to do something like that in a public place has no respect for you . Stuff like that should be done in private so no one can see or hear . I think you shouldn't do that . You may bleed if he pushes his finger into deep but you are still gonna be a virgin . Sweet take your time don't rush . There are plenty of guys out there and you are to young , if you feel he want you for sex don't even waste your time because you will regret it


Movingg on is something I need to do!

One night I was with this other guy, I was smiling, laughing, and I was happy(: But then the radio was on and mine and my exes song came on and I started crying. This guy had no idea why I was crying so he just kept hugging me asking me what's wrong, and I told him I wasn't ready to move on and I'm sorry. So he left. He started dating one of my old friends, and Me? I was stuck on the ex. Me and that girl became friends again because we talked about our problems. Now theyy aren't together anymore but she's in love with him, and I'm finally ready to move on! and I feel like he's the only guy I could move on withh! What should I do? (link)
Okay there are many guys out there for you , and if that's your friend I don't think you should mess with him because never put a guy over your friend and family , because guys come and go but your friends and family will be there no matter what , and u can look for someone out there because there is always someone out there better then the last remember that


14-f

am i a slut??????????
1. i get wasted
2. im no where near being a virgin
3. i have let people take advantage of me
4. i am either going to be a playboy bunny or a stripper somewhere....

do these make me a slut??????????? bacause everyone thinks i amm...and i kind of dont want them to (link)
I would think that you are . Your 14 and not a virgin and no where near being one that's crazy . I think you should stop doin what your doin because people is gonna end up talkin about you . And think about your . Future . Noone may not wanna have sex with u wen u wanna settle down


this might be a little long, but please bear with me

i just started talking to this girl, were both in high school. ive been talking to her on mysapce for like a week and shes prety and all.
so what i do is that i say "oh u looked nice at school today" or "oh nice pic" and stuff like that.
everythigns going good....and then i decide to ask for her number. AND I DIDNT ASK IN A PIMP WAY> i just asked straight up "hey, whats ur number"

THATS IT. and then like ten minutes later she tells one of her guy friends to message me and he said that i was freaking her out....... WOW.

all i did was ask for her number and she told me that im hitting on her. WELL TO BE HONESt, I AM.
WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD.

BUT WHAT DID I DO WRONG? now she wont respond.

and please dont say that i came on too strong, because MILLIONS of hotshot white jocks come on girls WAYYYY FASTER.

ANd the girls love it. WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO. do i have to be mr perfect hercules? GODDDD this is so confusing and stupid and pathetic.

please help. (link)
I guessing she dnt want to be bothered or maybe she is not used to the attention or maybe it is just your looks . But what ever it is if your really lookin 4 a girlfriend dnt come on to strong take ur time . Get 2 kno her better. And let them get to know you better . If any more questions email me at ldiva223@aol.com


15 female. USA
What does it mean when a guy says "I'll have to think about it for awhile." a couple days ago I'll told my best friend I had a crush on him. and that's what he told me. I'll see him monday, but should I ask or just wait it out? Bonus, he just turned 18 yesterday(he's a senior in high school). I know there would be issues: maturity, religion, legal, ect! But it's not like were gonna have sex! I've even knowen people my age have a relationship with a 18 year old. All I would like to know is: What does he mean by "I'll have to think about it for awhile." and we there be any chance for a relationship? I mean get along so well, it's ubsurd (same relationship past, interest, ect.).
-Gabriella (link)
Well this could mean that he is not interested in you . He is tryin to beat around the bush . He is not trying to hurt your feelings . . If any more questions just email me at ldiva223@tmail.com


ok...i am 15 and a freshmen in high school ive only had one real girlfriend...and i dont know how to really get another one lol i know a few girls that like me but i dont know how to find out fore sure so
my question is HOW DO I FIND OUT IF A GIRL LIKES ME? (link)
You should ask them . How would you know the answer to something if you dnt ask a question . Tell girls a little about ur self .and what you like to do 4 fun . And get to know there likes and dislike. That is a start . If you have any more questions email me at ldiva223@tmail.com


i like this guy tommy he is younger than me but i dont care about age and i was going to tell him earler this week but the day i was going to tell him he gets a girlfriend and it hurt so i didnt tell him. well last night i had two dreams and ive had them before and i never really paid attention to the guy in them before. the first dream it was me and my friend at this house then this guy shows up and its tommy and im guessing i was dating him cus he proposed to me and he said dont answer me yet and left so i was running after him when i woke up. the second dream i was on a canoe trip with family and there tommy was with me the whole thing and we were kissing and then i woke up...i just dont get it i have no idea what this means please help me (link)
Well this can me that you are feeling him . I think you should be honest with him . Because guys like honest . And age don't matter . How would be know if you dnt tell him how you feel


ok so what does dating mean to you??iv been on two dates with this guy and theres potential for more dates to come, we have already kissed a faw times does that mean hes my bf now??is that what dating is??just want to know because he hasnt said that im his gf but when we go out he calls it a date

thanks in advance (link)
Well I think you are just dating .I dnt think you are his girlfriend . Dating is going out on dates . And maybe a kiss here and then . But nothing over the limit . It may take time for you to get that answer of you being his girl friend . Maybe he just looking like you are


My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now 9 on October 14th. He's 18 and I'm 16, we clicked the instant we met, only thing was he was a bit of a flirt. I've know him for about two years now, we'd flirt around and what not but I never took him seriously because of all the other females that were after him. He said he'd give up his flirtatious ways if I agreed to be his girlfriend. So I did, I liked him a great deal.
We "fell in love," or I did atleast. Everything was going well, we ended up having sex 5 months after we started going out, I sortah regret it he was my first.
Anyways, we've been having small problems. Well I think he thinks everything's ok, but he doesn't call me much. I'm always the one to call, usually.
At night, after 9 when he has free minutes. :/
Anyways, sometimes he acts as if I bore him, or he doesn't like me or love me...he gets annoyed and irritated with me for no apparent reason.
I want to know, does anyone think he's with me just 'cause of sex?
I mean he lives in chicago and I live in Aurora, he sees me once a week or so, we talk every night usually.
When we're together he seems to push onto sex fairly quickly.
I don't know what to do most of the time, I want to make him happy so I go through with it most of the time, we use protection of course.
But afterward I sortah feel sad, I feel kindda upset with myself, not sure why. Has this happened to anyone else?
I kinda get the feeling that's all he wants, but I do think he loves me, or did atleast at one point, but lately I been feeling as if he only likes the sex.
What should I do?
Am I wasting my time?
I love him alot, but (is this wrong?) love me more, and I've been hurt many times before and don't want to get hurt in the end.
He began to change since he recently started college...I don't know, could he be stressed?
Any help would be useful thanks. :T (link)
Girl your wastin ur time . That is not what love is about . Having sex isn't everything . You need your respect . He is not what you need . You need something better . And if yall only talk at nite and see each otther like once a week . No girl find somethin better . Because I feel he is cheatin on you and he is just cummin back to you for sex . Stop havin sex with him . If u need more advice write me on my aim which is Ldiva223 or email me at Ldiva223@tmail.com




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker