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well i just got back from a party and i saw this boy who i kinda no and we were flirting and my friend told him that i liked him which i do! then later on i saw one of my old friends and we kind of went out a while ago but he was asking people if they had seen me so i talked to him aND HE likes me!!!!! but theres one more at school thati lkke and we talk but he has a g/f !!!!!! which one should i pick?????? (link)
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Well obviously the one with the girlfriend is off limits. And just because someone likes you, doesn't mean you should go out with them. If you really like the first guy, then that's the guy you should go with.
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what is the normal age for a girl to get her first kiss? and when did you guys have your first kiss?
because i'm 15/f and i've never been kissed before. (link)
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There's no normal age. When it happens it happens. Mine was when I was really, really young. But I have friends who are 16 and never been kissed too. It depends on the person, don't kiss just to kiss. It'll happen at the right time.
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there's this guy that i like and he likes me back. we've liked eachother since..november.
the only reason why he won't ask me out is because i turned him down last time which was like, last year. and he's afraid i'll reject him again (according to one of his friends). so basically, he wants me to ask HIM out.
how do i do that though? it seems so hard. (link)
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Trust me it isnt. If you like him, and he likes you, he'll deff say yes. So one day just go up to him and say "Hey, wanna go to the movies or something". Bingo, all done =]
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Okay, so is it a little to old for a 15 year old to go out with a 21 year old? Im 15 and the guy I kinda like is 21. He doesnt smoke doesnt drink just works. He is mexican [which doesnt matter] and he is a sweetheart. He asked my mom for approvel and asked to take me out on a date. He said he will call me this weekend. I dont think he will, Im a little scared. I have told some of my friends and they said, ''You know guys like that just want some booty''. But it doesn't seem like he is that way. I dont know what to do, give it a chance or forget it?
-Confused. (link)
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Ok this may seem a little complicated. On one hand, he could be genuinely sweet and really like you. But it is REALLY REALLY illegal for anyone over 18 to date a minor. He could get into a lot of trouble. And your friends are right, most guys who are older than 18 and want to date someone that much younger is only looking for sex. In most cases they realize teenagers are more vulnerable and into relationships, and they think it's easier for him to score. There is a good chance he likes you for you, and theres also a good chance he honestly just wants to date you. But it's illegal, and he should seriously date people his own age. I hope I helped
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If a guy asks me, out of no where, if I have a boyfriend... what does it mean? (link)
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It just means that he's curious about whether you have a boyfriend or not. It depends on how he asked it. It might have meant he likes you. I hope I helped
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I know that I trust my boyfriend and I know that he would never cheat on me because he honestly loves me and it's a mutual feeling, but he's been talking to this girl that he said he met about a year ago and she lives about an hour away from where him and i live, but when he visits his dad he visits her, and she is suposidly one of his best friends, but for some reason whenever i'm hanging around with him and a girl calls h sits there and texts her or talks to her, and it bugs me alot, and i said something once and he said that he would never cheat on me, but for some reason i'm still scared that something will happen. I'm also upset because I was looking at this girls MySpace and it had some comments on there from like almost a year ago him saying on her pictures stuff like "Or you're so sexy.." and stuff like that but he posted those things before him and i started dating, but it bugs me that they are still there and i tried telling him i didn't like it and asked him to delete it but he told me that i shouldn't worry about it and it shouldn't be a problem but for some reason i still don't like it, and he talks about his ex's alot and it bugs me alot and i told him and he said that i had nothing to worry about and i shouldn't worry about, but i really love him but it bugs me so much and i try to ignore it but i can't and whenever i try to talk about it with him he gets pissy and moody and says that i'm not listening to my heart and i'm only thinking about his past.
I'm sorry that this is so long but i needed to get it out. Thank you so much.
-Beanie (link)
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The fact that he keeps telling you not to worry about it shows that he doesn't care about your feelings. If he was such a great guy, and you really DIDN'T have anything to worry about, he'd just delete it and pay more attention to you. Now I'm not saying he's cheating on you, but it is obvious that he's not 100% into you. If he loved you so much he'd want to spend every minute with you, and not spending time talking to someone else. Let him know that it is really bothering you. And if he says not to worry about it tell him that if he truly cared about you he'd care about your feelings. I hope I helped
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(Sorry if this is too long, but I'm just a 17-year-old girl who has no idea what she's doing in this area of her life :3 Never had a boyfriend [or girlfriend for that matter] before, mainly because... I just didn't want one enough to go out and seek one.)
So I've been best friends with this guy for at least five years. However, ever since we've met, he's had a huge crush on me--I'm not sure if it's been on/off or continuous, though he has had a couple of short-term relationships while I've known him. I kind of had a crush on him once or twice, but I never asked him out because, at the time I did like him, I was unsure of whether he liked me or not.
Anyway, now we're both 17, and he likes me, though I've kind of grown asexual and I don't particularly care for anyone in that sort of way. So today, he asks me if I want to go see a play at his church; I don't go to that church (I'm not even his same religion), but I'm good friends with some of the other people in his youth group so I said sure. The night passes on, and as he's driving me home, he asks me to be his girlfriend. I kind of sputter for a second, but finally I just say sure.
Now I don't know what to do. I love him as a friend, and a part of me says that I might as well go out with him--that I even owe it to him (we have a kind of "he buys me food every once in a while and I don't release my undead feline minions upon him" relationship). However, I really don't want to hurt him by just breaking up with him in the end. I'm a senior in a public high school and (hopefully) I'll be going to an art college after I graduate (if not out-of-state, definitely out-of-town). He's homeschooled and doesn't have much of a desire to go to any college, so I'll be leaving this town in a few months anyway, but...
The truth is, I have no idea if I like him or not. It's not a definite "yes or no" question--on the one hand, he's the first guy in my life who's ever asked me out without being a complete sleezeball; but on the other, I don't know if I like him for anything more than a friend.
So what I'm trying to ask is this: is there anyway I can find out if I really like him or not, preferably before I hurt him? And if I don't like him, how can I tell him without using the whole "I like you as a friend, but not as a boyfriend" routine? (Most guys I know absolutely hate that, and I can understand why.) Help, please?
(Once again, sorry for the "tl;dr"-ness of this question. Kind of utterly baffled here.) (link)
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Gah, I hate when I'm in situations like your in. The sure-fire way? Kiss Him. I know it sounds totally cliche but it works. If you kiss him and don't feel anything, or feel weird, then you know it isn't right. If you dont know if you like him liek that, you probably dont. If hes really your friend hell understand. Just let him know that you werent sure if you liked him so thats why you went out with him. But after a while you realized you didnt like him like that. let him know you didnt wanna say it but its true that you like him better as just a friend. Im sure hell understnad, as long as you do it soon. I hope I helped
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f/16. I've never been in a real relationship before, and I've only been on maybe 3 or 4 dates. But that's not the problem. I don't want this to come out sounding conceited, but I do think I'm a fun person, pretty, and smart. I don't have problems with guys liking me. I've been asked out five times this year. But the problem is, I always say no! Even when they're cute guys. I don't know why. I'm outgoing and a "people - person", and I want to have a boyfriend, but for whatever reason I have a problem starting relationships. Am I too picky? I keep telling myself that I'm holding out for the "right guy", but am I being too idealistic? Anyhow, anyone who has had this same problem ... your advice is appreciated! :) (link)
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Hun, that is not conceited at all. In fact I suggest telling everyone that you are fun and amazing. It makes them realize that you love you, and makes them love you too. But back to the question. Next time someone asks you out say yes. Even if they arent attractive in your eyes. That way you can see if you and that person have anything in common. If all else fails you might just make a new friend. Or try going to the other guys and asking them out, telling them you made a mistake. You might realize that that guy is the RIGHT guy. I hope I helped.
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16/f
I've talked to this guy on myspace [I knew him from middle school] so he's not a stranger to me. We talked for many weeks. We met up about 3-4 times and we are going out now.
But I feel so stupid because I'm so shy and I can't look at him
We are surrounded around our friends and we haven't been alone.. I can only glance at his face. If i really stare at him, i get so shy.. my eyes water [for some reason? sensitive eyes?] and i blush like mad. I'm awful at eye contact. i keep telling myself to look into his eyes but i end up looking away.
I'm also tensed and nervous. I don't know how to feel comfortable around him. We haven't been dating long. Maybe a week? How can I be more open? Not so shy around him?
I can hug him but it's so awkward standing next to him. Maybe it's because he's watching my every move. It sort of scares me.
I need help:[ (link)
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Maybe you guys should talk a little more and tell each other some goofy things about each other to kind of break the ice. You should let him know you have trouble with eye contact and you feel nervous so that maybe he can help you out.
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