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i'm 14 years oldand i'm a freshmen and i had never had a kiss before...is this embarrasing???

Sounds like we are on the the same boat, I'm a freshman and I have never been kissed.It feels so embarrasing sometimes when I see my friends make out with there boyfriends and everything and I'm there all alone.But the trick is to remember you want the first kiss to be special, something you can remember forever.You don't want to kiss just to say you kissed somebody.So sometimes it might feel embarrasing but it isn't.Good Luck!

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for six months now, and im always jealous because he has alot of girl friends, and i mean i think its not jealousy but its not trusting him, i have no reason why i dont trust him because he is faithful and i need advice on how to trust him and maybe be more sicure about what he does and not care as much. thanx

A relationship is based on trust, if you can't trust your mate then the relationship will most likely will fall apart. You don't trust someone right away they have to earn it, so I would talk to boyfriend telling him you feel a little uncomfortable being with all his girl friends. Make sure he understands that you don't want to break up his friendships, but for him to understand that you need to learn to trust him. If he cares for you he will totally understand, and try to make things better. But it is not just him who has to work in this relationship, it is you. You have to learn how to trust him and how to feel better about all his girl friends( remember he choose you not one of those girls).I wish you the best of luck!

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okay so i have this boyfriend. i like him a lot...but he lives one town over from me. i only get to see him like once every 3 months. what should i do?

Having a boyfriend in another town other than yours is hard, but you have to realize it is just a town at least it is not state away. You should call him and try to figure out dates when you can see each other, and plus you know what they say:
"absents makes the heart fonder!" You might have to work on your relationship more than some but if you really for each other everything will work out in the end! Best of Luck!

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I have a boyfriend. But last night I had a dream where I was making out with this guy I used to like. Is that some kind of sign that I should be with him? Or does it mean that deep down I still like him? What does it mean?

Sometimes a dream is just a dream, away to escape are everyday thoughts. But sometimes your dreams are trying to tell you something, I would tell you to think about you relationship with your boyfriend now (Are you happy? Is there a future?), and try to think if you any more feeling for the other guy?! You need time to think and try to analyze your dream. Best of luck!

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ok how do you get over a guy?

Getting over a guy is hard no matter what, but you have to realized it was for the best.A broken heart takes time to amend especially if you have been going out for awhile.First you might want to call some friends over for a sleep over the first week is the hardest.Have a girls night watch a lot of movies, eat a lot of junk food, maybe have a good cry to let it out of your system.Then slowly, but surely you need to get your self out of the house more and more.Get preoccupied with school, friends, work, ect.try not to think of him to much!You have to remember that he was not the guy for you and that your "prince charming" is out there somewhere. Now when enough time has past you might want to consider going out on a date. Don't worry about the date just relax and have fun! I hope this helps you out with your problem! Good Luck!

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My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think?

It sounds like he is not ready to be in a relationship, and that he needs to grow up abit more.You should dump him right away, especially if he's pressuring you to do sex.Being with him will only bring you more problems. Good Luck!

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