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E-mail: almybnenr88@yahoo.com
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Location: Jamestown
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Age: 19
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Member Since: September 7, 2005
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I'm sixteen and I've never made out with a guy (or anything above that...and I only kissed once) is that a huge turnoff for a guy? I havent really had any boyfriends, but now I'm interested and I'm wondering will this scare guys off? (link)
I honestly think it would turn a lot of guys on! To most guys a unexperienced girl is the greatest thing! There are some guys that will find it a turn off but most won't!
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amber lynn


ok well i'm a 16 yr old gurl and i just recently started going out with a friend of mine like 3weeks ago on thursday and i ador him......my first question is, is it weird that i might love him already? like i feel so confortable with him....and the other question is......i want to have sex with him...but is it to soon? like he knows i'm a virgin and he doesnt care to wait but i want to.

plz help i'll rate high
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I think that it doesn't really matter how long you've been dating to love someone! Me and my boyfriend wasn't dating and I knew I loved him! About the sex thing...that is totally up to how you feel inside! I would just think everything thru first! Make sure you both are doing it for the right reasons! If I was in your position I would wait just to make sure he really does want me and not my body! Its always a nice feeling to know that your man loves you for you not for what you have! I hope I helped you out a little bit
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amber lynn


okay so like my boyfriend wantsta make out with me... and i really wanta make out with him too! but i havent really made out with anybody before so im scared because im scared if i make out with him im not gonna know how and hes gonna think im dumb or something... i really wanta makeout with him but im not really sure how to do it... lol!!! what should i do!?!? (link)
Dear my boyfriend:
You just need to go with the flow! It will come to you! I was the same way and thats what I did I just went with what he did and it worked out good! Hope everything turns out good
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amber lynn


So i have a boyfriend we'll call him B. but theres this guy that ive gone out with 11 times.. we'll call him K. Me and K have been through so much together and we're kinda always going to like eachother. Me and B got in a fight the other day and i was talkin to K about it.. me and k talked for like 5 hours about everything thats been going on and he wants to hang out this weekend. I don't know if i should break up with B and see wut happens with k or if i should stay with B and just try to forget about K because we've already tried going out so many times.. help please (link)
I think you should stay with B! If you and K have dated so many times I don't think you should hurt a relationship with B to try for the 12th time! Maybe you and B just had a difference and it will get better! You never know unless you try! But don't lead either of them on with your choice!
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amber lynn*


theres this boy and he liked me last year and asked me out.i told him i was taken but i would still like to talk to him.i broke up with my boyfriend over the summer and he knew about it.then he agian asked to go with me.i told him that i see him more s a friend.now is the new school year and my friend Diane thinks this boy is kinda ugly.i dint think he's ugly and neither do my friend Brittany.now i kinda like him and he's is still trying to go with me.even though looks arent important to me at all i dont want my friend Diane saying shit about him or me. should i just forget her and go for it or do you think a friends opinion is important (link)
Hi! You should deff. take the chance with him! Your friends should be happy for you no matter what! Maybe she thinks he is ugly because she likes him and knows he likes you, so she thinks if you think she thinks he is ugly you won't go for him so she can! If that makes any sense! But if you do like him than go for it don't let what anything thinks get in the way of your feelings! Looks aren't everything, personality is and the way the person treats you! I hope I helped you!
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amber lynn*


my bf just broke up wiht me, and i am throwing up cuz of it, and i also can't breath wen im crying. what can i do to help? (link)
Hey!
First you need to calm down a little bit! When I was in 9th grade my boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me (at the end of the school year) so I feel your pain! I was in the same position as you! What I did was try not to think about it and be around positive people in my life! Try to think that things will get better! Think every positive! Thats all I really did! I'm so don't good with break ups! I always do what you do when i get "dumped" which has only been 2 times! But I do understand what you are going thru and honestly you need your friends! They are your people you need! They will help you thru anything! I promise! Hope everything turns out well and I hope you can rely on your friends!
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Amber lynn


my boyfriend tells me he loves me. but he never calls me... he says he's shy ...but, he is sooo not shy. what should i do? (link)
Dear Why wont he call?
This is a really confusing thing..lol! I don't understand how he can love you if he won't call you. I honestly think that you should be asking him other questions! He may have other things that he isn't telling you! How long have you two been dating? If its not that long maybe he is just sayin he loves you to keep you! I really hope I helped you! If you need more advice feel free to email me or IM me!
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amber lynn




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