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hhiyas im kathryn. im a 13 year old girl. i love giving advice on all topics. so ask me anything. ive had tons of experiance with pretty much everything, {relationships, heartbreak, sports, pets, cell phone bills} so dont be afraid to ask. have fun and enjoy my site =]
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well i really wanna have my first kiss with my bf but like im scared and confused....like i dont wanna regret it or anything...but i really wanna kiss him....what should i do??

any advise on how to actually kiss? i have no idea how to!! help!

okay well first of all JUST KISS HIM!!!
hes a guy. so odds are if you wanna kiss him. he defffffenitly wants to kiss you tooo.
and heres an amazing website with tons of good ways and stuff to kiss::
http://myjellybean.com/flirt/kiss.html
good luck!
hope i helped!
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So I met this girl last year, and I really like her...But all she wants to be is friends..I wish that she would go out with me, but she is blinded by all the cool guys out there..How can I attract her attention to me instead of the cool guys...?

hey
youre gonna hate me for saying this. but just be yourself. it honestly is the best way. there is no secret formula or anything to make a girl like you. however if shes a smart girl (and you like her so she probly is) she can probly tell that most, not all, but most "cool" guys are really superficial. as in they only act how other people want them to act, not how they really are. and that is one of the most unattractive things in a guy, however some girls don't notice if a guy is being real or not. but honestly just be yourself. and you can
-give her compliments (we love it when you give us compliments. it makes us feel special. and shows that your sweet. which is oh so hot)
-be kinda mysterious about it (act like you like her. but dont make it really obvious, this drives us girls INSANE, and makes us crazyyy...thats good)
-dont EVER talk bad about her
-be there for her (let her talk about other guys that she likes. for a while, it might not be you, but after a while she wil realize what a great guy you are and how youve helped her through everything with all of the other guys. and shell realize that she really should just be with you)
-be patient. girls take time to realize how wonderful some guys are. so just give her time. shell realize how great you are

if you really care about her and you do some of the things i just told you. she should realize how amazing you are and will want to go out wth you.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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i have a bf and we have been goin out 4 2 weeks now but there is this guy in my pe class at scholl who i really like i dunno which 1 to choose please help????
if i stay with my bf is it still ok to flirt with the other guy alot???
what do i do please help!!!!

hey!
okay well if you cant decide between the two try to think about which one you like more. if you likee them both equally than either stay with your boyfriend because it is easier to stay with him than try to start a new relationship with someone else or you can make a list about the two of them. right your boyfriends name at the top of a sheet of paper and then write down all of his good qualities that you love about him. then draw a line and right down all of his bad qualities that you cant stand. do the same for the guy in your PE class. then compare their good qualities and decide which one has qualities that mean more to you. and which one has bad qualites that juat absolutely make you want to throw him off of a cliff. however if you still really cant decide. stay with your boyfriend. because it is def. wayyyyyy easier to stay with him rather than starting a new relationship. and it is okay to flirt with the other guy. just maybe tone it down a little bit. because think about hwo you would feel if your boyfriend was off flirting w ith other girls.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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theres two girls i realy like one cant have a boyfreind till shes sixteen but the other one can but i dont dont know who to go out with because there both best Freinds so i dont know what to do?i like them both alot...

hey!
welll if you like them both a lot then you probly shouldnt go out with either. because if you went out with one and you still liked the other that wouldnt be fair to the one you are going out with. however if you really do wanna go out with someone..than go out with the girl that is allowed to date. because if you are going out with someone who isnt allowed to date she obviously wont tell her parents and then you guys wouldnt actually be able to go anywhere or anything.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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i need some tips on how to flirt

because well i like this guy
he likes me
now i have to make him like me even more

so i need to flirt a bit

but i SUCK at flirting

and dont give me any [be yourself] junk
not happening

he already likes me for being myself thank you very much

heres a website with everything you need to know about boys. from flirting to kissing::::
http://myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html

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Okay. So all my friends make out with their guys, but I havent really done that yet, cause I don't know how to use my tongue. Tips? Do I touch his, how?

heres an amazing site on everything you need to know about french kissing::
http://myjellybean.com/flirt/french.html
hope i helped!
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So how do u use your tongue... if you know what I mean

heres an amazing website with tons of stuff to do with your tongue::
http://myjellybean.com/flirt/french.html
and most of all. rememer to have fun with it.
good luck!
hope i helped!
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So on Saturday night, I went with my best friend Bridgette to a movie night at a boy named Robert's house. She only knew her boyfriend and Robert, and I didn't know anyone. There was a couple other people there (girls and boys) but there was one guy in particular that i was interested in. and it seemed that he was interested in me as well, his name is Jacob.
after everyone left and it was just Bridgette, Robert, Jacob and me. and Jacob made me scoot over on the couch so he could sit next to me.. theres about 3 other couches in the room and he kept flirting with me alot.
and then his phone died and he needed to call his mom so he asked to borrow my phone, and so i let him. and he goes "now i have your phone number. i'm gonna text you at like 2 tonight okay?" and i was like so excited about it. we've been texting pretty much nonstop since then.. and that night i asked him if he was single. and he said he'd been with this girl on and off for a year and nine months, but for the past 3 months all they've been doing is arguing and he said he knew it was going to end soon, which is why he was flirting with me so much.
and this morning he tells me that they're over, and that he cant wait to hang out with me this weekend, so he can really get to know me better.
and i just dont know if he is just wanting some ass, like a rebound. or if he really did know it was ending with his girlfriend, and he really did fall for me.
i could use all the help i could get.
so help, please!

Hey! well from what youve told me he sounds like a great guy that really is into you!! and it seems like he really wouldn't just be wanting some ass, because he's been with that one girl for sooo long. which is good because it means he's not afraid to be in a relationship or to commit. And also it seems like he really did know it was ending with his girlfriend because most relationships that are going well are amazing for about the first year, after that you start to know eachother a little too well, and then you start to fight about eachothers bad qualities that youve now gotten to know. thats why when you meet the right person their bad qualities dont bother you as much and you can get over them easier and last longer than a year. so if i were you i'd def. go for it! because he seems liekk a great guy that really is def. into you!! and it does seem like it really is ending with his gf.
good luck!!!
hope i helped!
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Okay well like i have dated before and i alwais end up dumping him evn if i really like him. I have to admit i'm a BIG FLIRT and they guys flirt back but then when were together i feel fine then when he's gone i think about dumping him should i be with him does he love me and all the concerns and then i end up dumping him. What is wrong with me? How can i stop this? IT'S RUINING MY RELATIONSHIPS!!!!!!!!!

-Thanks
-Ashliiee

hey! i had the exact same problem. but i learned to get over it by whenever i see another guy that i want to flirt with and have a boyfriend. think about your boyfriend and compare him to this other guy, think about whats better about your boyfriend, or worse. if the new guy has more better things about him then your boyfriend, break up wiht your boyfriend. its not fair to him if you think another guy has more better qualities then he does, but if your boyfriend has more better qualities, stick with him. And if you still feel urged to flirt, think about your boyfriend and how much fun you have doing things like making out, or even just talkkking. Also, if you find that your boyfriend and the new guy have the same number of good and bad qualities. stick with your boyfriend. it's easieir to stay in a relationship that youre happy in rather than trying to start a new one!
good luck!
hope i helped!
xoxoxo

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right this is guna sound weird but do you realy like some one then start seeing them then you love them??? and what is love??? please help me out

hey! well to answer your first question once you start seeing someone that DOES NOT mean that you automaticly love them. it takes time. lots and lots of time. my boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 months, and we still havent said i love you. and thats not because we dont like eachother, but its because were not ready for that. saying i love you is a very big step in a relationship, and you shouldnt say it unless you are positive you are. now ideas everyone goes around saying I LOVE ____ the day the ask them out, but really they just like them. were still young, and really don't have enough experiance to know what love is. and me being young, i dont know what love is. but im pretty much positive that once you are in love, it will be completely obvious to you, and you wont have to question it at all. it's like lauren from the hills says, "love is not a maybe thing, you know when you love someone"
good luck!
hope i helped!
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Okay ive only made out with a guy once in my entire life and that was in 7th grade and i completely forget how to and im supposed to get kissed this saturday im nervous someone please tell me how to kiss! thanks

hey! don't worry about it! im always scared when im about to kiss someone. my boyfriend and i kiss like 20 times a day. and before each one i completely forget how to. but once you start. it comes back to you automaticly. so just calm down! youll be fine! have fun with it! and also for some fun making out tricks here are some do's and don'ts. but other than these you serioulsy shouldn't worry about it at all. kissing is extremely natural and you wont have any problems once it happens
DO'S:
--write your name in cursive with your tounge in his mouth
--lick the corners of his lips
--lightbly brush your teeth on his lips
--for short kisses, the perfect short kiss should be like you saying the word "peaches" try that on your hand
DON'TS
--leave your tounge in hsi mouth like a dead fish.
--THATS THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO WRONG!
good luck! and have fun!!
hope i helped!
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just wondering, whats a monroe? this girl said she got one and she has this thing above her lip..but was is it?

Hey! a monroe is a piercing on your upper lip. right between your lip and your nose. ((can you say OUCH!!))
hope i helped!
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OK, I like this guy, but I don't know him that well. And A LOT of other girls like him too. I know that we would be a PERFECT couple (even my friend says that), but he doesn't seem to notice that. I'm worried that he might start to like one of the girls that likes him and then ask her out. How can I get him to like me without acting totally weird and different?

Hey! i was actually in the exact same situation once. We didnt havve any classes together. and we er talked. but one day we just starting IMing eachother (i know this may sound weird, adn way too completely obvious, but really, it's not). We talked every day for hours and hours. In the begining, he talked about other girls he liked, and thaht was kind of annoying, but i never once stopped liking him. We became VERY VERY VERY close friends after about a month. After about a month and a half i started to get the feeling he liked me. after 2 months he told me. he asked me out at school the next day. we were together for 4 months. So, to some up my story, i reccomend that you just IM him, show him that youre interested in the same things he is, be there as a friend at first, if he didnt do well on a test and hes talking to you about it, show support.
good luck!
hope i helped!
xoxoxo

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