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Age: 18
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This confuses me to the point where it makes me sad.
Ill explain the situation.
A guy.
Me and my friend both like.
We all know eachother VERY well.
He claims he hates both of us.
He told me he didnt hate me anymore,yet he told someone else he did.
He tells he hates her and he likes me as a friend.
Yet, he wont talk to me at school.
But, sometimes he talks to her.
Usually , he'll try and get my attention but not talk to me.
Or when we are together, he will do something to her and not me[for attention],he'll just like give me this stare.
oh yeah, i forgot to mention that both of us did sex kinda stuff with him, but i did it more and he said he would do it with me again but not her.
But at the same time, at school he would call me fat and etc.
IS this kid on drugs or what?
I need help , this is always making me sad.
And your gonna say to move on, i try and i try and i try,
i cant get over this kid.
Ive liked him ON and OFF for 3 years, but this time has been the most
thnks
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Why would you want to be around someone who puts you down and makes you sad? This guy doesn't want a relationship with you, he's just trying to keep you interested in case he wants a random hook-up, and he's playing you and your friend. The only thing I can suggest is, pick up a new hobby, and I know that sounds weird but if you're doing something new, and putting a lot of time into it, then you won't be thinking about him.
You deserve better, and don't let that jerk make you believe otherwise. :]
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THis guy and I really like each other....well at least I know that i really like him. But he told me he liked me, and we have been talkin to each other for a month and some days. He is really sweet and we talk nearly everyday. but there is one problem: I live like two counties away from him (about 45-50 minutes) and the only common ground we have is when we see each other at church every Saturday. This weekend, he told me that he doesnt know if it will really work out because of our distance. I was crushed. But we saw each other the next day, and he said that he missed me, and he think he made a mistake. Then he added that the distance was not the only thing, that he wasnt being completely honest. Im not sure what it is, and im not sure whether he still likes me (but he did say that he still has feelings for me). And now i dont know what it is. And he is busy with homework alot, so it has been two days and we still havent tlaked about it. If he cant call me, he usually would call me just to say goodnight. Now if he doenst call, he just doent call. And now I dont know what to think. I know that if it was just the distance, then we could definitely work it out. I dont know what to think. SOmebody HELP!!!! (link)
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Sounds to me like he doesn't know what he wants. I think you should tell him that you really like him, but you can't wait around forever for him. Tell him to either try out a relationship or stop talking about that stuff all together. You need someone who isn't only thinking about themselves all the time, and you deserve to have a chance with a guy who appreciates you.
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okay.. i ride a bus home.. and the guy ive been crushin on sat with me today.. well we were tickling each other, holdin hand, and all that stuff... and his ex (not exactly, they didnt date.. just flirted ALOT) was staring at us.. shes kinda my friend too.. ne ways.. well how will i get her off my back? (link)
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If they didn't date, then go for it. However, its not really nice to do it in front of her.
Think about if the situation was reversed, you wouldn't like it if anyone was obviously flirting with a guy that you are/were interested in while you're sitting there having to watch it all, much less a friend.
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I just broke up with a guy that i dated for almost 7 months. hes 18 and im 15 and it just got too serious ands i felt like i needed time to myself to hang out by myself n see what else was out there u kno? well we agreed to still be friends because we were before we dated. i still care about him and everything but i realized i was better off. he still walks me to every class, still tells me he loves me, n asks if i miss him n stuff like that and it seems like hes always trying to make me feel bad. of course he denies it. i kno he truly does love me n i thought i loved him but i guessed i mistook lust for something more. i dont wanna be mean to him but i dont want him to be making me cry and making me feel bad all the time. what can i do or say to try and stop all this but remain friends? (link)
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You just need to be straight forward with him.
If he really is serious about being friends, then he'll respect what you're saying and stop. If he doesn't, then he's probably not worth it to begin with, friends don't make you feel bad about things you have no control over.
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Alright well I'm a 14/f and I went out with this guy for 9months and he was sweet and stuff but we fought too much and my parents don't approve of him so we broke up well it's been about a month since then,we dont talk at all anymore and i really miss him, but I get these days where all I can think about is him and I wish we were going back out and then other days I dont wanna go back out.How can I figure if I want to be with him or not? Should I talk to him and tell him how I feel or just find a way to get over him? PLZ HELP (link)
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On those days when you wish you were still going out, is it because you miss him specifically, or you're just lonely?
It sounds to me like you might not want him, but just a boyfriend in general.
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